BrandonSP wrote:
Has someone you're interested in dating given you their contact information, but never respond once you try to contact them?
It's happened to me...again. On the first day of classes this semester, I managed to strike up an hour-long conversation with a pretty girl named Kalia at college, and at the end she gave me her e-mail address. A couple of days later, I sent her an e-mail asking if we could hang out sometime, along with a Facebook friend request (I was able to find her by typing her name into Facebook's search function). A month passed without Kalia responding to either message. I sent her a second e-mail asking if something had happened to her, and in the nine days that have passed since then, she still hasn't replied.
And to make matters worse, I haven't seen her in person at college ever since that first meeting.
Is this girl trying to avoid me? If so, why did she bother giving me her contact information if she didn't intend to ever reply to me? She could have told me she wasn't interested in giving me that information when I asked her for it the day we met. It's not like she had any reason to fear me (unless she's one of those women who's really paranoid about being raped, but I hope those aren't too common).
Yes, she's ignoring you -- as if she wanted to be in touch, she'd respond.
Why she gave you the info yet isn't interested when you contact her is fundamentally unknowable... you're certainly entitled to drive yourself mad trying to figure out why but doing so won't get you an answer either. Let. It. Go. It's better for your sanity.
(Really. Maybe she thought you were cute but subsequently changed her mind. Or got back together with an ex two days later. Or fell in love at first sight with some guy she met 10 min later. Or got hit by a meteorite. Seriously. You can't know, so let it go!).