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Bentastic197
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23 Mar 2015, 9:24 pm

I was wondering on how I would ask a girl out or ask a girl to prom. Whenever I talk to a girl, I get nervous and I fumble my words. I don't know what to do, I'd like to ask a certain girl out, but I don't know where to start. :(



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23 Mar 2015, 9:27 pm

Is this girl part of your "social group?"



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23 Mar 2015, 9:32 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Is this girl part of your "social group?"


What do you mean?



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23 Mar 2015, 9:34 pm

Is she part of the group you hang out with?



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23 Mar 2015, 9:37 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Is she part of the group you hang out with?


No, in fact there is almost no girls in my small group of friends. Speaking to girls makes me anxious



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23 Mar 2015, 9:39 pm

Maybe she's in one of your classes? That would give you credibility with her. Maybe she's been impressed with the knowledge which you've shown in the class.



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23 Mar 2015, 9:45 pm

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Maybe she's in one of your classes? That would give you credibility with her. Maybe she's been impressed with the knowledge which you've shown in the class.


I don't have a class with her



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23 Mar 2015, 9:54 pm

I have to go now.

But I wish you luck.

This is life. Every person has to get over shyness in order to meet others. Whether Aspie or NT.

I'd get cracking on getting to know this girl.



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23 Mar 2015, 10:01 pm

Get to know her a bit better before asking her to prom. It'd be weird to just invite someone you barely know to a big deal event.



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23 Mar 2015, 10:31 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I have to go now.

But I wish you luck.

This is life. Every person has to get over shyness in order to meet others. Whether Aspie or NT.

I'd get cracking on getting to know this girl.


I know, it's just that I'm afraid that I'd do something that would embarrass myself



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23 Mar 2015, 10:43 pm

Diningroom wrote:
Get to know her a bit better before asking her to prom. It'd be weird to just invite someone you barely know to a big deal event.


I know the girl, its just that I haven't talked her in a long time



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24 Mar 2015, 4:52 am

Bentastic197 wrote:
Diningroom wrote:
Get to know her a bit better before asking her to prom. It'd be weird to just invite someone you barely know to a big deal event.


I know the girl, its just that I haven't talked her in a long time


How far IS prom?

If it's a few weeks I suggest talking to her again and maybe asking her out somewhere to coffee. It doesn't have to be a date but a hangout.

Just start talking to her again and then ask if she wants to hangout sometime.

I know you say you're nervous around girls but if you know her a bit it would be much easier to start talking to her again than to say hello to a random stranger...

good luck.

Once you have hanged out with her a little more and started talking to her again ask her to prom.



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24 Mar 2015, 7:05 am

Outrider wrote:
Bentastic197 wrote:
Diningroom wrote:
Get to know her a bit better before asking her to prom. It'd be weird to just invite someone you barely know to a big deal event.


I know the girl, its just that I haven't talked her in a long time


How far IS prom?

If it's a few weeks I suggest talking to her again and maybe asking her out somewhere to coffee. It doesn't have to be a date but a hangout.

Just start talking to her again and then ask if she wants to hangout sometime.

I know you say you're nervous around girls but if you know her a bit it would be much easier to start talking to her again than to say hello to a random stranger...

good luck.

Once you have hanged out with her a little more and started talking to her again ask her to prom.


Ok, thanks



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24 Mar 2015, 10:34 pm

Just ask a girl out. What's the worst thing she can do?




Actually the worst thing she can do is say yes, you take her out and pay for her food, then you go to the prom and she leaves you for a taller more manly version of you and dances with him instead. This happened to my good friend on his prom night.

I didn't go to prom because I was too busy defending Reach from the Covenant. Just a normal day in the life of a Spartan.



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24 Mar 2015, 10:38 pm

darkphantomx1 wrote:
Just ask a girl out. What's the worst thing she can do?




Actually the worst thing she can do is say yes, you take her out and pay for her food, then you go to the prom and she leaves you for a taller more manly version of you and dances with him instead. This happened to my good friend on his prom night.

I didn't go to prom because I was too busy defending Reach from the Covenant. Just a normal day in the life of a Spartan.


I hope that doesn't happen with me. Wanna send me an friend request on Xbox? GT: Bentastic197



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26 Mar 2015, 7:34 am

Right now i'm on Spring Break. When I get back I will.