magicalmatthew wrote:
I really like someone in my (university) class, so much that it physically hurts, haha. And the thing is, I think he is interested in me, based off of our interactions. But I suck at interpreting people and fear that its all in my head and I'm just imagining that he likes me. But he stares at me a lot, and smiles at me, and talks to me a lot, and jokes around. And I want to hang out with him but IDK how to initiate something. Should I just go for it? How??? I'm scared of being too interested and scaring him away. I just don't know how to act normal but also find out if he's interested in me/tell him I'm interested in him. I have no idea what to do and no friends who I can talk to about this sort of thing. Any advice would be appreciated!!
Would it be weird to just be open and honest? As in "I've enjoyed being in class with you and I thought you might feel the same. No pressure, but if you would like to go out some time, I think it might be fun." (Where do you live? In the east coast of the US, "go out" is a casual way of saying "Date.")
That method wouldn't work with everyone, but it might set a really nice president if you end up having a relationship. You want to stop all the half-honest subtle hint stuff, anyways, right? The best relationship I ever had started like this. I was feeling really good and I just told her that I enjoyed her company and did she want to go on a date with me?" I was clear with the date thing. That made it a lot better. No nerves and looking for signals. Alas, it did not work out. She moved to France.