Single woman, 21, looking for boyfriend

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calandale
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29 Mar 2007, 9:26 am

Tequila wrote:
Hope you can swim!


Bah. I said Walk. I meant it too. I'm not going to get my clothing all wet.



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29 Mar 2007, 12:27 pm

I think that if you read the thread properly, It is I whom am not up to other's expectations...



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29 Mar 2007, 12:30 pm

you need to deal with your low self-esteem mandelbrot.... looks appeal to different people... its other qualities that are more fixed...


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29 Mar 2007, 12:59 pm

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I think that if you read the thread properly, It is I whom am not up to other's expectations...


No, love. I'm afraid you have it all wrong. It's not about expectations.

The reason why I, personally, am not really interested is because a) I live in the middle of Lancashire, much too far away for you and b) I can't be doing with and have no interest in sciences. We're most likely not compatible in the least and would probably drive each other up the wall if we met.

You keep looking because you will find someone who you're compatible with eventually. :)



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29 Mar 2007, 3:43 pm

Tequila you quite hansome for a fat middle aged geasa. I bet the NT love you.



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29 Mar 2007, 3:56 pm

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Tequila you quite hansome for a fat middle aged geasa. I bet the NT love you.



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29 Mar 2007, 4:24 pm

Er... that ain't me? That's Ricky Tomlinson's Jim Royle from The Royle Family. What I look like can be found easily enough elsewhere on the site! ;)



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29 Mar 2007, 8:09 pm

Aw, and here I was about to proposition you.



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31 Mar 2007, 11:16 pm

Mandelbrot wrote:
I think that if you read the thread properly, It is I whom am not up to other's expectations...


Come now; how could anyone with a forum name pertaining to a subset of the complex plane generated by iterated deg 2 polynomials not meet expectations, anyone who invokes notions of fractal geometry in the argand diagram can't be all that bad in my books.



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01 Apr 2007, 1:50 am

Too bad you live in England, I fit your interests well.



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06 Apr 2007, 7:18 pm

18, SE of England...


...damn



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06 Apr 2007, 8:57 pm

as i said before, what you say about yourself sounds like you are an interesting girl.
sad thing i am from germany... just meeting up for a coffee (tea for me) would have been really nice.

but seriously - i am sure it will benefit you to work on your self esteem. bland boys not hitting on you shouldnt be something to drag you down. who wants to be a mainstream product after all?
you are you. you are the only you there is. be proud of that. i am 100% sure there are people appreciating you the way you are. look out for those instead of trying to please (and being blue because of not succeeding in) the masses. you dont wanna be a pop star after all, do you?
(my former girlfriend had serious problems with her self esteem as well, so i know help is easier said than done. hang in there and work on small things first)



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07 Apr 2007, 3:11 am

Unfortuanatly I'm stateside as well, like Cal.

I'm an English Lit major, with a soon to have a CMCO minor.


but yah know child, why create these expectations for yourself, you are still but young.


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07 Apr 2007, 7:51 am

Good luck finding a man that's right for you.



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07 Apr 2007, 8:01 am

Bart21 wrote:
Good luck finding a man that's right for you.


Or, failing that, a right that's man for you.



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07 Apr 2007, 10:22 pm

You sound sound really interesting and I'm huge into the sciences but unfortunately I'm stuck over here in the good ole US. :(

If you still want to talk tho feel free to send me a PM.


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