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08 Sep 2007, 3:21 am

Aspie1 wrote:

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And use porn. The internet is for porn.

Porn, and escort listings. Search on Google under "[your city name] escorts", and see what comes up. However, the preferred option is to use an escort review site. I know a good one, but I think it's against the site policies to post a link to it.

And what if your main reason for wanting a girl-friend is easy access to a human opponent for games?

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08 Sep 2007, 8:05 am

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And what if your main reason for wanting a girl-friend is easy access to a human opponent for games?

Do you really care about gender then?

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08 Sep 2007, 6:40 pm

I'm almost 28 and have never been anything other than single. Trying to change that is getting boringly predictable, so I'm losing interest in the whole deal.

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08 Sep 2007, 6:47 pm

I never really had a bf....
but im not a virgin...
well i didnt give it willingly
Does that count?

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08 Sep 2007, 7:42 pm

smheath wrote:

calandale wrote:

Hmm...I've got to go dancing.

Seems a better solution to being
single than posting.

Tonight, dude? I gotta dance. What, chicks? No, no. f**k chicks, dude. I wanna dance.

Well... atleast I got the dane cook reference.

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08 Sep 2007, 8:30 pm

TheSoullessWhisper wrote:

I never really had a bf....
but im not a virgin...
well i didnt give it willingly
Does that count?

Damned hard call. This is something
that you have to decide. But, whomever
you give yourself to willingly, should realize
that it's something special, all the same.

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08 Sep 2007, 9:23 pm

Never had a girlfriend. Never even been hugged. Don't care.

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08 Sep 2007, 9:26 pm

I was hugged yesterday :oops:
it was awesome!

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08 Sep 2007, 9:27 pm

calandale wrote:

TheSoullessWhisper wrote:

I never really had a bf....
but im not a virgin...
well i didnt give it willingly
Does that count?

Damned hard call. This is something
that you have to decide. But, whomever
you give yourself to willingly, should realize
that it's something special, all the same.

I agree with you, Cal.

Tim

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09 Sep 2007, 10:05 am

Anubis wrote:

Many of us are in the same boat, or should I say, ship here, unfortunately. You have to take action yourself.

I have begun taking the initiative lately.

Tim

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09 Sep 2007, 10:21 am

I have been in two relationships in the past. My first girlfriend cheated on me, and there wasn't a lot of excitement in my second relationship.

I need excitement and fun in a relationship.

Tim

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09 Sep 2007, 2:15 pm

I have never had a girlfriend either. I don't know any girls.

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09 Sep 2007, 2:45 pm

Aspie1 wrote:

mmaestro wrote:

And use porn. The internet is for porn.

While it's refreshing to hear people talking about such pursuits openly and non judgmentally; I think both make a poor substitute for the emotional reciprocity and genuine intimacy that a loving relationship brings - which seems to be the holy grail for many of us here.

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09 Sep 2007, 3:25 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

I have been in two relationships in the past. My first girlfriend cheated on me, and there wasn't a lot of excitement in my second relationship.

I need excitement and fun in a relationship.

Tim

Cheating is definitely excitement.

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10 Sep 2007, 10:35 pm

I'm 24 years old and still a virgin. You can look over my old posts to see what a big deal I've made. Yes, we matter.

As far as self-esteem goes, I don't think it's about what you look like, but what you do.

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11 Sep 2007, 4:35 pm

Never had a girlfriend either. Welcome to the club.
But I feel that it's difficult trying to date when you're not attracted to a girl.
And I always felt that physical attraction isn't enough: a girl is attractive to you when you feel you really understand each other; and it's not easy to understand others, and when when people says you're an "unusual "guy, you feel it's like a wall between you and other people, not mention girls.

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