Beenthere wrote:
it's normally not the color that attracts me, it's normally the "spark"...if anyone knows what I mean.
Ya, but all my latest sparks fizzled out. Sparks have therefore come to mean nothing as far as an indicator; I've learned I can't go by them.
Not even "love at first sight" -- where me and her look at each other across a crowded room and lock eyes adoringly -- not even that works as an indicator. Which doesn't leave much left! I suppose that
spontaneous nudity would still work as an indicator of a girl's interest in me... but I do appreciate subtler hints, and WOULD HOPE I am still capable of reading them!
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