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BTW: I have no interest in dating right now since I'm trying to get into a good grad school and then a PhD.
I was used to think like that when I was in college. My whole concern was to focus on my career's future.
Big mistake , this was an unwise approach.
College is the best place for dating opportunities , you will never be in such place after you graduate and enter the professional life ...especially if you are autistic and don't like to go to crowdy places such as night clubs. I am not saying it's easy to get a date in college , it might be hard as hell but you definitely get more opportunities than when you become in the 'outside' world.
Once you finish your studies and start working . You social life will automatically shrink , the number of single girls around your age range will shrink too , your free time will shrink .....even your energy for such stuff will shrink too.
A colleague , whom I didn't like too much, was always used to tell me: " you have to get a gf during the years of university or it would be too hard for you afterward"
Unfortunately, he was so right.
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