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19 Dec 2008, 5:10 am

Kirska wrote:
I wish there was an easy way to stop them without having to take loads of hormones or having surgery.

I hate periods. Can't stand tampons and god those pads get so gross and stinky after like an hour for me...


periods suck majorly. i get quite sore the first day and bleed heavily the 1st couple of days.
i was told to take ponstan tablets. as the first sign of the pain as they are most effective then. i tried that and they worked great, also reduced the amount of blood too.


i hopes everyone finds something that works for them.



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19 Dec 2008, 7:46 am

There's a special pill you can take. It says on the box "4 periods a year" but really, when you take it you don't have to have any at all.



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19 Dec 2008, 10:35 am

Ana54 wrote:
There's a special pill you can take. It says on the box "4 periods a year" but really, when you take it you don't have to have any at all.


What kind of pill is this?


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19 Dec 2008, 2:01 pm

Here is one brand of the 4x per year

http://www.seasonale.com/



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19 Dec 2008, 4:40 pm

Nan wrote:
Here is one brand of the 4x per year

http://www.seasonale.com/


Thanks, my gyn never suggested that to me as an option.


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20 Dec 2008, 3:05 am

From what I knew the pill sort of regulates them. Or am I wrong.

One thing I do know is that severe anxiety effects them and makes them irregular. Get an anxiety disorder! (Joking).


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20 Dec 2008, 4:42 am

Don't fool yourselves - if you're on the pill you are NOT having a period. It's a bleed so it doesn't build up too much. NOT a period. Periods are the body getting rid of the womb lining and egg if it's not been fertilised, ready to try again next time. The bleed you get on the pill is caused by a temporary lack of the synthetic hormones you're feeding yourself.

And for those of you talking about not having one at all, you might want to make sure you haven't got the reasonably common hereditary disorder haemachromatosis, which causes the body to build up too much iron in the blood. Generally women don't suffer the effects as badly as men because of our monthly periods, so for those who have it - and most who have it don't know about it - stopping that monthly bleeding can have major consequences for your health. The condition can and does kill.


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20 Dec 2008, 12:29 pm

LeKiwi wrote:
Don't fool yourselves - if you're on the pill you are NOT having a period. It's a bleed so it doesn't build up too much. NOT a period. Periods are the body getting rid of the womb lining and egg if it's not been fertilised, ready to try again next time. The bleed you get on the pill is caused by a temporary lack of the synthetic hormones you're feeding yourself.

Until someone can point out a birth control option other than condoms or abstinence as effective as the pill, then a lot of us don't really have a choice but to "feed ourselves" hormones.


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20 Dec 2008, 1:13 pm

Condoms ARE as safe as the pill if used properly.

Condoms - 98% effective, more so if used with spermicide or used at a time other than ovulation (i.e. roughly the week before or after the period).

Contraceptive pill - 98% effective.

If condoms don't appeal, get a non-hormonal copper coil, which are virtually infallible.


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21 Dec 2008, 4:34 am

I have a Mirena IUD. It hasn't stopped my periods completely, but it has made them so light that they only last two or three days rather than an entire week. Plus, it's more effective birth control than condoms or the pill. Insertion isn't much fun, but I had a caring, understanding doctor who did everything in her power to put me at ease during the procedure; she knew I had AS and she knew enough about it to be able to help me. She was also very sympathetic to my desire never to have children. Doctors like her are out there, ladies!



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21 Dec 2008, 10:28 am

LeKiwi wrote:
Condoms ARE as safe as the pill if used properly.

Condoms - 98% effective, more so if used with spermicide or used at a time other than ovulation (i.e. roughly the week before or after the period).

Contraceptive pill - 98% effective.

If condoms don't appeal, get a non-hormonal copper coil, which are virtually infallible.

My husband can't use condoms.

As for the coil:
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Are there any side-effects?

There are a number of side-effects and you must be aware of these before you decide to have an IUD.

These devices generally:
* make your periods heavier
* make them longer
* may make them more painful.


Half the reason I'm on the pill is because I usually had to miss 2 days of school/work crumpled up in a corner crying because of my cramps. No thanks.


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21 Dec 2008, 2:27 pm

Exactly why I won't get a coil myself.

Can I ask why he can't use condoms? Medical reason, or just doesn't like the smell/feel/allergic to latex (there are other options...). You could always look into a diaphragm [used with spermicide] - they usually refuse to give them to anyone who hasn't had a child yet, but if you explain your reasons you can usually get one anyway, I know several friends who use them without any problems.


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21 Dec 2008, 5:30 pm

LeKiwi wrote:
Exactly why I won't get a coil myself.

Can I ask why he can't use condoms? Medical reason, or just doesn't like the smell/feel/allergic to latex (there are other options...). You could always look into a diaphragm [used with spermicide] - they usually refuse to give them to anyone who hasn't had a child yet, but if you explain your reasons you can usually get one anyway, I know several friends who use them without any problems.

I think he'd probably get mad at me for talking about it, but yeah I've examined all of my options and the pill is the best one. Just pointing out that someone taking the pill isn't necessarily foolish; sometimes it really is the best option.


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21 Dec 2008, 5:47 pm

Perhaps, I just don't think the benefits ever outweigh the risks. That said, if there really genuinely is no other option then perhaps... I wouldn't recommend an abortion to anyone, they're bloody awful.


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23 Dec 2008, 10:36 pm

Try Depo-Provera, if you don't mind shots. It's a birth control method administered 4x per year by a gynecologist. It's not usually too expensive and doesn't have more risks than other forms of birth control. I know someone who has been on it for more than a decade with no ill effects. You do, however, need to take calcium to prevent osteoporosis.



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23 Dec 2008, 11:29 pm

Kirska wrote:
My husband can't use condoms.



I am not sure why. They have large condoms for big penises and non-latex condoms for those with a latex allergy.