Well, let me give you a couple of tips. TMI ALERT! Don't read if you don't want specific details. I always appreciate specific details about what to expect in any strange situation, so I am going to give you some to help you out.
The first couple of times I did it, I found that it was easier 'doggy-style.' Especially if the guy is inexperienced too. The angle has a lot to do with things and if the angle is wrong it can hurt more. It's alot easier to get a straight angle via doggy. I've also heard 'girl on top' is good for virgins but I don't care much for it personally because it's awkward and takes a lot of thigh strength.
Second, be prepared for some pain and don't be surprised if you bleed quite a bit. It's normal and everyone has gone through it. It will hurt for the first few times that you do it but eventually you will get used to it.
Also something that happened to me when I first did it - for the next few days I felt like I had a giant hole in my body down there. Since it was now bigger than it used to be and I was not used to it. So if you get that feeling, don't worry, that too will go away with time.
Most of all, relax and enjoy yourself. It's almost guranteed not be the great sex you've always imagined but it will definately get better the more you do it. So try not to put too much pressure on yourself.
And of course, practice makes perfect! So don't give up
P.S. Be safe and use protection, k?
Thanks for being honest, I prefer to know/ have an idea about something thats going to happen, this in particular,lol
I'm pretty excited at the prospect of taking this step with my boyfriend, so I'll obviously live with any initial discomfort, its good to know the though what to expect