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Am I really that bad!?!
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violentcloud
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11 Jan 2006, 9:45 pm

Ok... is it just me, or am I not liked around here? Nobody seems to answer my posts until I get pissed and start complaining! I mean, I try to make bloody valid contributions... Would it hurt to even disagree!?!



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11 Jan 2006, 10:13 pm

I've gone through the same thing as have other users. People are just shy here thats all....

I know in my case I tend to put off saying anything unless I'm damn sure I have something useful to say. We all have AS, so its not always clear what sort of treatment people want from us :P


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11 Jan 2006, 10:14 pm

Good point... i wasnt really seeing it from other peoples point of view properly :oops:
just got upset very quickly cos i felt overlooked/unliked



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11 Jan 2006, 11:12 pm

Bland-Hey, Violentcloud, I've felt exactly the same way since I've started posting on this web site. I see you joined back in Dec. of 05!! ! I just joined a couple of weeks ago!At first I thought it was because I'm too boring. (Am I?) And then I thought that it was because people can tell how old I am and everyone else here is a teenager. (discovered that's not the case) Then, I thought that it's because I'm too neuro-typical. (God, help me now, because I'm too strange for the NTs and too normal for the ASs!! !!) But now I believe its because you're dealing with people who are AS, ADD, ADHD, OCD, and who knows what else!! Am I correct? Someone please tell me!! Will someone please respond!! !?????? (by the way, Violentcloud, you're one of the people I've responded to that hasn't responded to me! What does that make you???! !) I found that I've had more luck with private messages.



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11 Jan 2006, 11:23 pm

Ok, thanks for the advice :D



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12 Jan 2006, 2:48 pm

What attention-seekers (I'm just kidding). I wouldn't worry too much about people ignoring you on here. There are many, many, many people on here. Each with different agendas and personal goals. Like that cat who's trying to kill me. (no, no, that one's in my mind)

So good luck to you all in this crazy and wrong planet! (See I didn't NOT answer you.) (I dislike double negatives)



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12 Jan 2006, 2:59 pm

I get ignored on forums and in real life. Image


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12 Jan 2006, 3:20 pm

I'm not ignoring you now!

Sometimes I feel like a thread killer. All I have to do is post....



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12 Jan 2006, 4:35 pm

I'm just posting here to say I'm not going to a. post on this thread or b. post after Beebee.

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crap.

((I don't consciously avoid your topics, violentcloud, don't worry. I'm just flaky))



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12 Jan 2006, 6:37 pm

If people are ignoring you, then they aren't worth your time. Simple as that.



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12 Jan 2006, 7:16 pm

Hola.

Gracias.



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12 Jan 2006, 7:37 pm

How long do you wait before you start complaining about a lack of replies? Sometimes it just takes a while. Most of the time a thread has 10 views (or more) before a person replies.



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12 Jan 2006, 8:51 pm

Bec wrote:
How long do you wait before you start complaining about a lack of replies? Sometimes it just takes a while. Most of the time a thread has 10 views (or more) before a person replies.


You haven't replied to any of my latest posts. I hate you.

Sorry, but I did this only 4 teh lulz.