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Topic: Ever feel accepted and then it all crashes down? |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 25
Views: 780
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 1:30 am Subject: Ever feel accepted and then it all crashes down? |
I'll say it again- if that's their attitude, then they don't deserve you to begin with.
We aspies may expectedly be a disaster in the social arena, but that doesn't make us unlikeable by default; t ... |
Topic: To ALL fellow MALE members |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 22
Views: 1083
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 1:37 am Subject: To ALL fellow MALE members |
Yaaa....um...are you looking for Ms. September of '89 or something, cause seriously dude- yer lookin 'for a FANTASY chick that you'd find in Playboys and Porno flicks.
My girlfriend is very special ... |
Topic: Noise cancelling headphones...??? |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 24
Views: 1188
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 1:22 am Subject: Re: Noise cancelling headphones...??? |
| Okay, I have bad bad sensitive hearing, and i wear headphones everywhere i go, but their just my ipod headphones so they don't cancel a lot out. When I go to places with a lot of ppl, and a lot of noi ... |
Topic: Paranoia, do aspie's have this? NT's certanly do. |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 26
Views: 894
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 1:13 am Subject: Paranoia, do aspie's have this? NT's certanly do. |
I agree but they seem to be the majority.
Yes, well that majority also blacklisted, me when I lived in NJ, for absolutely no reason whatsoever- as I was probably one of the hardest workers you ev ... |
Topic: Ever feel accepted and then it all crashes down? |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 25
Views: 780
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 1:03 am Subject: Ever feel accepted and then it all crashes down? |
| Yeah, about that- lemme tell ya what that means: basically, those guys you were initially hanging out with really didn't care much about you one way or the other. Your true friends will stick by you- ... |
Topic: Can AS be passed down genetically? |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 36
Views: 1032
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 12:52 am Subject: Can AS be passed down genetically? |
My girlfriend posed this question to me- I'm already under the belief that she's on the same page with me, and thinks that I'm the one for her( yes, I think she's the one for me, too).
So, can it b ... |
Topic: mother of 9 year old aspie boy wants him to make friends any |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 26
Views: 915
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 6:41 am Subject: mother of 9 year old aspie boy wants him to make friends any |
The only learning that will come of it if you do force socialization on him is that HE'LL LEARN to RESENT YOU.
Oh, I was very lonely as a young kid, and believe me- I'm very thankful for the friend ... |
Topic: Need advice in re my AS son |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 10
Views: 531
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 6:30 am Subject: Need advice in re my AS son |
| Yeah see, by trying to get him to do things, NOW, the way "normal" people do them( I, of course, refer to socializing, of course), that may give him the indication of REJECTION of him. It's almost lik ... |
Topic: Sensitivity To Noise Query |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 32
Views: 1470
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 6:18 am Subject: Sensitivity To Noise Query |
it ain' loud music that drives my eardrums nuts- it's usually quick and loud sounds that do it: like gunshots, fireworks, and popping balloons. Plus, I'm jumpy, too.
Funny thing- back in 6th grade, ... |
Topic: Do you like the fact that most people cant read you? |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 32
Views: 1005
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 6:12 am Subject: Do you like the fact that most people cant read you? |
It helps being paranoid
Thanks for the advice. If I were more paranoid, I probably wouldn't be tricked or manipulaed as often. The only problem is, my former friend hated me when I would be paranoi ... |
Topic: mother of 9 year old aspie boy wants him to make friends any |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 26
Views: 915
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 5:57 am Subject: mother of 9 year old aspie boy wants him to make friends any |
| A couple of people have already said it, but I'll add in my 2¢. My mom always assumed that I needed friends, and was constantly pushing at me to go make them. Drove me ... and her ... nuts. I gener ... |
Topic: For those who have a hard time "coping" with AS- p |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 7
Views: 570
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 6:30 am Subject: For those who have a hard time "coping" with AS- p |
| thought I'd give this thread a lil' bump. Judging by the other threads I'm reading, maybe you folks could really use this inspiration. |
Topic: What do Aspies have that Nt's don't? |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 58
Views: 2142
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 6:23 am Subject: What do Aspies have that Nt's don't? |
JWRed: just face reality, there's no good way we could "change who we are" just as an NT can't change who they are, and a schizo couldn't possible change who they are.
WRONG.
I know, b ... |
Topic: An Interesting Find - The Gift of Asperger's Syndrome |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 3
Views: 510
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 5:58 am Subject: An Interesting Find - The Gift of Asperger's Syndrome |
| I KINDA already made a post about this, in another thread. I consider AS to be a "blessing in disguise". Feel free to check out my post- ya might also find it a lot more "down to earth", too. I believ ... |
Topic: How did you play with toys growing up? |
TheDoctor82
Replies: 68
Views: 1848
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 5:53 am Subject: How did you play with toys growing up? |
Anyone with diagnosed Asperger's line their toys up as children?
I asked a psychologist this who says I have AS over autism, but she seemed to deflect the question by saying it's common for people ... |
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