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 Topic: Could you be loved? |
ToadOfSteel
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 Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 4:33 pm Subject: Could you be loved? |
In the long run, not letting it loose will do you more harm.
It's not that I keep it suppressed forever and ever. I do let it out when I'm alone, but I can't let it harm anybody else...
I've never ... |
| Topic: Could you be loved? |
ToadOfSteel
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 2:30 pm Subject: Could you be loved? |
I think it all boils down to one point:
Letting your sex drive loose isn't going to turn you into a monster.
This is the #1 thing I'm afraid of more than anything else... I'm afraid that my sex ... |
| Topic: 5 movie romances that won't last according to science.... |
ToadOfSteel
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 1:33 pm Subject: 5 movie romances that won't last according to science.... |
I'd say #3 is the most aspie-related one, just because of the similarities between aspies and vulcans... but that's just me.
Then again, I am a trekkie... |
| Topic: Could you be loved? |
ToadOfSteel
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 12:21 pm Subject: Could you be loved? |
| Well, if you ever think about sex, and if you masturbate, then you feel physical attraction. It can be suppressed, though, via emotions. But it's still there.I have to suppress it... the sex drive i ... |
| Topic: Friend Zone... |
ToadOfSteel
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 12:10 pm Subject: Friend Zone... |
| Then how is someone like me supposed to get a girlfriend? I don't even feel attracted to a woman at all until long after I've been put into the friend zone. Am I supposed to just fake interest or some ... |
| Topic: Could you be loved? |
ToadOfSteel
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 1:29 am Subject: Could you be loved? |
Toad, your problem is that you have no foundation underneath your desire for a woman, or more importantly, you might have a foundation, but not believe that you do.
For example, I have a great fami ... |
| Topic: Could you be loved? |
ToadOfSteel
Replies: 194
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 1:24 am Subject: Could you be loved? |
| Among younger crowd, nowadays especially, physical attraction(and therefore the desire for sex) usually sets in before love. Supporting this, you wont know someone very well from the start, and thus ... |
| Topic: Could you be loved? |
ToadOfSteel
Replies: 194
Views: 3969
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Thu Mar 18, 2010 10:52 pm Subject: Could you be loved? |
First of all, you're good at making friends with women. That's another one for the list!
Well, okay I guess. That will be my item for the day, because honestly I'm too tired from a 3 hour rehearsal t ... |
| Topic: Friend Zone... |
ToadOfSteel
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Thu Mar 18, 2010 10:40 pm Subject: Friend Zone... |
I think the answer is just to be friends with lots of girls and have no expectations...
That's what I tend to do (on a case by case basis anyway), and it works to get a ton of female friends... The ... |
| Topic: As an NT female... |
ToadOfSteel
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 8:52 pm Subject: As an NT female... |
| Do they find us attractive enough to approach us? Or at least give us signals we can actually understand that let us know that it's perfectly okay to make an approach ourselves? Because most aspie guy ... |
| Topic: Could you be loved? |
ToadOfSteel
Replies: 194
Views: 3969
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 5:43 pm Subject: Could you be loved? |
| I feel like you're trying to hook me on a drug or something... |
| Topic: Could you be loved? |
ToadOfSteel
Replies: 194
Views: 3969
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 5:15 pm Subject: Could you be loved? |
| @thom: Making friends with women is easy... I usually end up on friendly terms with almost all of the women I meet. That's not the problem. On the other hand, following your post, I guess I'm just not ... |
| Topic: Could you be loved? |
ToadOfSteel
Replies: 194
Views: 3969
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 4:47 pm Subject: Could you be loved? |
| but if I can't even attract women now, when I'm already getting past the prime of my life, how am I supposed to be able to pull it off years down the road? I'm just going to be older and less appealin ... |
| Topic: Am I unnatural? |
ToadOfSteel
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 2:41 pm Subject: Am I unnatural? |
| If that's the case, where is this "right person"? I'm now at a point in my life where there is no possible candidate for "right person" in my life at all, and that's driving my psychosis now... |
| Topic: Am I unnatural? |
ToadOfSteel
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Forum: Love and Dating Posted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 1:40 pm Subject: Am I unnatural? |
| I'm not intending to put the cart before the horse at all... I'm just trying to figure out everything... If my claim to being unlovable is invalid, then there has to be a reason for my constant string ... |
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