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Message |
 Topic: "You people" |
nara44
Replies: 23
Views: 657
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 Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Thu Nov 19, 2009 11:03 am Subject: Re: "You people" |
The AS here (Israel) also grouped together and no NT is allowed
Though I'm too autistic to attend any group at all i think it is the only way to get real support for people like us
At another thre ... |
| Topic: Marriage partner with Asperger's |
nara44
Replies: 16
Views: 360
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Thu Nov 19, 2009 2:24 am Subject: Marriage partner with Asperger's |
| My husband won't even come here. He has registered here, I think twice and only posted once. I think it's his poor spelling that keeps him from coming here. He doesn't post often online because of it. ... |
| Topic: Marriage partner with Asperger's |
nara44
Replies: 16
Views: 360
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Thu Nov 19, 2009 12:12 am Subject: Marriage partner with Asperger's |
Hmm. Someone who understands my moods and obsessions - impossible, even *I* don't understand them  
that why u need someone else to do it for you
a true partner can reflect you in a way that ... |
| Topic: Marriage partner with Asperger's |
nara44
Replies: 16
Views: 360
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Wed Nov 18, 2009 10:02 pm Subject: Marriage partner with Asperger's |
| That's a broad brush you paint with there, Nara44. I am (recently-diagnosed) AS and while my husband is (undiagnosed) OCD he is otherwise neurotypical. We've been living together for 9 years and mar ... |
| Topic: Marriage partner with Asperger's |
nara44
Replies: 16
Views: 360
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Posted: Wed Nov 18, 2009 9:09 pm Subject: Re: Marriage partner with Asperger's |
Are there any chats or forums focused on the
marriage partner of someone with Asperger's?
I would like to talk with others in this situation.
I have never tried to discuss anything using
techn ... |
| Topic: a world of infinite sadness |
nara44
Replies: 12
Views: 294
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Forum: The Haven Posted: Wed Nov 18, 2009 9:31 am Subject: a world of infinite sadness |
| It is all about perspective. If you believe the world to be a sad place, so shall it appear. While technically true, simply analysing one's beliefs is unlikely to change this. Personal beliefs of this ... |
| Topic: a world of infinite sadness |
nara44
Replies: 12
Views: 294
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Forum: The Haven Posted: Wed Nov 18, 2009 3:21 am Subject: a world of infinite sadness |
So? What if the world is really really sad?
What then? Sorry, but as an aspie I just can't ignore the obvious: There's no easy fix.
Humans, in and of themselves are...ahem..horrid creatures...
Bu ... |
| Topic: a world of infinite sadness |
nara44
Replies: 12
Views: 294
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Forum: The Haven Posted: Wed Nov 18, 2009 2:46 am Subject: a world of infinite sadness |
| It is all about perspective. If you believe the world to be a sad place, so shall it appear. If you believe the world to be a happy place, then you will see happiness everywhere. Your beliefs form you ... |
| Topic: a world of infinite sadness |
nara44
Replies: 12
Views: 294
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Forum: The Haven Posted: Wed Nov 18, 2009 12:26 am Subject: Re: a world of infinite sadness |
| Does anyone else see the world as a world of infinite sadness? Maybe it is my AS inability to ignore the obvious. When I am out in the world I see 90% sadness and 10% beauty. There is so much suffe ... |
| Topic: Should we change? |
nara44
Replies: 11
Views: 213
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 10:56 pm Subject: Should we change? |
it may invoke fear on the more uptight and conforming NT types but i refused to subject my soul to the primitive and dark perception of the NT environment
Now that attitude I just can't understand, ... |
| Topic: Should we change? |
nara44
Replies: 11
Views: 213
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 9:49 pm Subject: Should we change? |
So if you choose to pace and mutter in public, you are choosing the consequences that it might frighten and alienate people. If you choose to only do it in private or not at all, you get around ... |
| Topic: Should we change? |
nara44
Replies: 11
Views: 213
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 9:34 pm Subject: Re: Should we change? |
| Ive been reading these forums a lot lately and I see fair amount of depressed people, about their situation, there is partial "solution" to this which involves social therapy. If you choose to take th ... |
| Topic: I hate having aspergers and I hate almost hate everyone. |
nara44
Replies: 19
Views: 579
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Forum: The Haven Posted: Fri Nov 13, 2009 6:14 am Subject: I hate having aspergers and I hate almost hate everyone. |
"You hate the world because you hate the way they see you." Patient from the Pilot of House M.D
ditto
and in relation to the last post I am not actually sure what you're getting at? You mean love ... |
| Topic: I hate having aspergers and I hate almost hate everyone. |
nara44
Replies: 19
Views: 579
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Forum: The Haven Posted: Fri Nov 13, 2009 5:41 am Subject: Re: I hate having aspergers and I hate almost hate everyone. |
why don't i try to dedicate your bright mind to the question of love instead to some lousy career
many AS tend to not separate self expression or a career from the need of meaningful relationship
ma ... |
| Topic: I hate having aspergers and I hate almost hate everyone. |
nara44
Replies: 19
Views: 579
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Forum: The Haven Posted: Fri Nov 13, 2009 5:33 am Subject: Re: I hate having aspergers and I hate almost hate everyone. |
same here
with the exception that i can't stand my family
and never cared for my career |
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