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ayra
Tufted Titmouse
Joined: Feb 22, 2008
Posts: 26
Location: My invented world, ie Kalia (kuh-lee-uh) or just stuck in Texas heat
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 Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 2:37 pm Post subject: |
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Personaly, I dont see why people need to have gf/bf's. I have never had one and probaly never will. And I am not even 17. Of course some here hwo are younger have had some gf/bs and I have nothing against that.
I do not like to talk to people I don't know, and I can't seem to start or continue a conversation. It's not something I am proud of or upset about.
I like me the way I am, which is single.
I don't even have friends that are the opposit sex of me. It doesn't bother me, probaly b/c I am not public schooled.
Don't take me wrong, I am not against dating or such, I just don't care about it or do it. |
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black_legion
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: Sep 22, 2007
Age: 14
Posts: 73
Location: united kingdom
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| Posted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 12:55 pm Post subject: meh |
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| Quote: | I feel this way. I guess I'm too quiet and too shy or something, because I just seem to intimidate guys. Girls I'm definately okay with since they are my gender, but I'm really not a lesiban or even a bi.
So, does anyone feel like this?
Maybe we won't get our relationships we want until our teen-hood is over...I'm just guessing though... |
i'm exactly the same except i'm a dude  |
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matrix
Phoenix
Joined: Oct 07, 2007
Age: 18
Posts: 585
Location: between glitches
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| Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 12:21 am Post subject: Re: meh |
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| black_legion wrote: | | Quote: | I feel this way. I guess I'm too quiet and too shy or something, because I just seem to intimidate guys. Girls I'm definately okay with since they are my gender, but I'm really not a lesiban or even a bi.
So, does anyone feel like this?
Maybe we won't get our relationships we want until our teen-hood is over...I'm just guessing though... |
i'm exactly the same except i'm a dude |
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There's money in it!!! Why have deep, meaningful relationships to commitment when you could just go along for the ride. When the ride is over, get another.
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SierraBell
Velociraptor
Joined: Aug 24, 2007
Age: 16
Posts: 447
Location: On the mother earth in the USA
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| Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 12:43 pm Post subject: Re: meh |
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| matrix wrote: | | black_legion wrote: | | Quote: | I feel this way. I guess I'm too quiet and too shy or something, because I just seem to intimidate guys. Girls I'm definately okay with since they are my gender, but I'm really not a lesiban or even a bi.
So, does anyone feel like this?
Maybe we won't get our relationships we want until our teen-hood is over...I'm just guessing though... |
i'm exactly the same except i'm a dude |
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There's money in it!!! Why have deep, meaningful relationships to commitment when you could just go along for the ride. When the ride is over, get another. |
I guess it's different for a guy such as yourself, but just from a girl's POV, if I just "go along for the ride" my spirit will be shattered very quickly, beside I could never ever use someone just for my desires. It would just be wrong and we would both get hurt. |
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Zequr
Tufted Titmouse
Joined: Feb 24, 2008
Age: 18
Posts: 44
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| Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 8:47 am Post subject: |
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| I've always prefered to spend my time with guys. Girls scare me somewhat, both because of experience, and because they are more about underlines and things you just should know. I am not so what do you say... "pretty" eigther, and can wear clothes long time, ignore showers, eat food that's been on the table all day and fart in public if no one minds it. If somone do I ofc stop it when I'm around them. I like games a lot though and I'm a bit of born games, and I never follow the current fasion or wear tiresome shooes. I do have a style though, but it's not that girly. But I seem to act like a girl otherwise (sadly..) and that makes it hard to get male friends.. Also I discover that a lot of my male "friends" end up wanting me on my back, and I don't really mind that.. But then the friendship is kind of ruined an reverts to something else. I have gotten relationships I didn't intend to create this way, as they suddently start to call me honey and get jealus of other guys. But girly girls are scary, and I will not spend my time trying to befriend them if they don't insist on it themself. Strage this is though that I'm bisexual... But as I don't like beeing around most girls it dosen't matter . |
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rockbandrocks
Emu Egg
Joined: Mar 18, 2008
Age: 15
Posts: 8
Location: USA
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| Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 7:24 pm Post subject: |
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Yes, I feel that way all the time. The only time I got a GF was last year.
It was great! But, the thing was, I was 2 years older then her, and her
parents did not like me becouse of it. so now every time I call her, she
does not call back.
So now I'm friendless, and it is upsetting for me.  |
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Whivit
Raven
Joined: Mar 07, 2008
Age: 18
Posts: 120
Location: MIA
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| Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 7:55 pm Post subject: |
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Yes, I definitely feel the same way. I'm anti-social irl, for one, but online too. There's practically no where that I'd meet anyone, and no reason for anyone to be interested in me anyhow. And the fact that I find it very hard to become emotionally attached to anyone significantly increases the problem.
I'm not the kind of person that can't handle not having a boyfriend, though, so I'm pretty good. If someone does turn up, that's nice, but it's not the end of the world just because I'm single. |
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petal
Sea Gull
Joined: Oct 21, 2007
Posts: 236
Location: Sydney
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| Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 2:07 am Post subject: |
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I have had a few guys interested in me, but to be honest I keep thinking that no one would want to be with me unless it was for sex or something. There was another guy that really liked me, but all of my friends thought he was weird (he was quiet and not really social, perhaps AS, but i couldn't be sure) and kept bugging me about him, so I got all self conscious and when he asked me out I said no.
The other problem is that I am only really interested in the shy/quiet/nerdy guys (like mentioned above), but they are always the hardest to get to know, and I am just as hard to get to know myself, so until I can hold a proper conversation or go with a guy im not typically into ill just wait . I am also bi, but I think when girls are in relationships they get really annoying, so there goes that option. |
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innov79
Blue Jay
Joined: Jul 11, 2007
Age: 17
Posts: 80
Location: michigan...
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| Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 10:54 pm Post subject: |
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| Im 17, and the only "gf" I have ever had was a girl from Brazil over msn. Alot of girls have added me on myspace and told me I was "cute" or "hot" but when they saw what Im like in real life they dont like me anymore. It kills when its not your looks but your socail skills, personality and "school social group" turns girls off |
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HarrySutcliffe
Hummingbird
Joined: Feb 25, 2008
Posts: 23
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| Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 1:21 pm Post subject: |
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| My problem is that i'm too nervy- if someone asks me out it's a no, by reflex. One thing about dating is that even the most hated people in my year have had about 30 GF's- i've had none, and i've been mocked in the past just because of this. |
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LazyLara
Blue Jay
Joined: Mar 14, 2008
Age: 16
Posts: 96
Location: Nowhere
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| Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 2:56 pm Post subject: |
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| I nt think dating is that important. |
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FigginOfDeath
Hummingbird
Joined: Feb 28, 2008
Posts: 20
Location: Berkeley, California
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| Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 8:29 pm Post subject: |
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I've never had a girlfriend, but I have plenty of friends who are girls. With one of them, I'm currently in a relationship that is best described thusly:
"We're just friends . . . who kiss . . . a lot . . . with our tongues." |
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ebec11
Missing In Action: Innocence
Joined: Jan 18, 2008
Posts: 5251
Location: A Bubble in the Ocean
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| Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 9:59 pm Post subject: |
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I just can't talk to guys I have a crush on this guy, but I don't see him all that often, so it's not working out.
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ebec11
Missing In Action: Innocence
Joined: Jan 18, 2008
Posts: 5251
Location: A Bubble in the Ocean
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| Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:00 pm Post subject: |
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| petal wrote: | I have had a few guys interested in me, but to be honest I keep thinking that no one would want to be with me unless it was for sex or something. There was another guy that really liked me, but all of my friends thought he was weird (he was quiet and not really social, perhaps AS, but i couldn't be sure) and kept bugging me about him, so I got all self conscious and when he asked me out I said no.
The other problem is that I am only really interested in the shy/quiet/nerdy guys (like mentioned above), but they are always the hardest to get to know, and I am just as hard to get to know myself, so until I can hold a proper conversation or go with a guy im not typically into ill just wait . I am also bi, but I think when girls are in relationships they get really annoying, so there goes that option. |
Agreed! I need shy guy tips!
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VioletClementine
Snowy Owl
Joined: Mar 24, 2008
Age: 20
Posts: 127
Location: New England, USA
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| Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:20 pm Post subject: |
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I felt that I would never get a boyfriend for years! All during high school, I was that "weird, awkward girl" that nobody wanted to date. I felt incredibly miserable, and wondered if I was just plain unlovable.
But suddenly one day in my freshman year of college, I caught a guy checking me out. And then I started to see more and more of them who were interested in me. I'm at a fairly arty university, so there are a lot more guys who are my "type" here. By the start of my sophomore year I had had my first "real" kiss and had actually gone out on a real date with a drummer from one of the on-campus bands! Things eventually fizzled out with him, but just as they were fading off I met my current boyfriend, Mark. We've been together for a little over six months now, and I couldn't be happier.
So don't give up hope--all it takes is time.
My best,
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