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zee
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 9:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You were in a long-term relationship and then you suddenly left that woman for someone else? And proposed to this stranger after only 2 months? And lied to her about your past?

I'm sorry, but I have a very hard time sympathizing with you. You sound like an extremely unstable person, not ready for a serious relationship.

If you want my advice, set your current wife free.
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey dear.

Don't worry, you aren't alone. My previous marriage sounded exactly like this with the communication problems, and my current relationship with my fiance does too. I think since a lot of us Aspies are eager to compensate for our differences in a relationship with a NT, we overdo it (doing anything to make them happy), and that makes us SO easy to take advantage of.

Yes, divorce sucks. Don't get me wrong. But it is well worth it if you can pick yourself up off the floor and start living again. Smile I promise you can.

If you need any help or advice, PM me or e-mail. Smile I will help any way I can.
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