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black_legion
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 3:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

atm i think girls are evil, well actually only two girls one of them i find super hard to talk to even though she's one of my best freinds that ive wanted to be with since i was in my 4th year in school (just starting my tenth year in a few months) btw so here's the story i went paintballing with a large group of my freinds, and i ran out of money to buy paint with so, i had to sit out and one of my freinds and my best friend's sister (the evil girls) decided to put my drinks and oreo's down their tops and i was like "ARGH GIMME BACK MY OREOS" so i was chasing them around demanding my food back then when i finally got given my stuff back i went to go sit down on a bench away from them both of them walk over and grab me then start drawing on my face, after that they decided to write i <3 "my name" + and their bf's names on their jeans and start calling me hotyeah and then the girl who i s my friend decides to take a picture of me and put it as their phone background i'll probably grab a large stick tommorow and drive girls away from me Twisted Evil
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 6:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

we all say in our minds but we never do because we are too afraid to talk and you never know why and i guess thats how we live our lives so we should follow our dreams and forget about stupid things
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ebec11
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 9:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Never. I love shy guys, and both of us are too shy to talk to each other Razz
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POKEMONMASTER260
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 3:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I actually don't feel like I have anyone I want to be my gf.......yet.......
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MartyMoose
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 4:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Paladin_Cecil wrote:
SierraBell wrote:
Hmm, is he for real do you know?


I dunno... It's hard so hard for me to tell if people are for real online. I've dated around six guys online, and I still don't know if any of them were real...
You ask them "Are you for Real?"
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dwynotRuns
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 11:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If I ever got a gf it would be because she made the first move or I stopped being lazy and got rid of my acne, monotone voice, and social awkwardness, which would give me the confidence to make a move.

I'll be waiting...
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 5:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had one, we didn't understand each other, and this resulted in a LOT of jealousy (never found out whether it was justified) on my behalf. Then I stopped overanalyzing and got sad instead of angry when things went wrong. Now we're just friends. I want to date someone but I get really impatient if I'm bored. I wouldn't really mind online dating. I've heard so much though about when someone you love online suddenly stops talking.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 6:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Nope, never have, and going into college did not seem to increase my prospects. There's always a little voice in my head saying I never will, and I have a sort of selfish desire to extinguish it which has always been there. I do know that I wasted at least one and perhaps more than one opportunity that I didn't have the cop-on at the time to see, but that's all part of the experience isn't it. At least I can say I have plenty of experience with getting rejected and screwing things up.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 6:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

MartyMoose wrote:
Paladin_Cecil wrote:
SierraBell wrote:
Hmm, is he for real do you know?


I dunno... It's hard so hard for me to tell if people are for real online. I've dated around six guys online, and I still don't know if any of them were real...
You ask them "Are you for Real?"

Pretty sure that's not how you do it.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 5:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I feel like that. My ex is impossible. I miss and still love him but he keeps changing his personality towards me. I have no one else to look for since no guy looks at me as more than a werid chick or at most close friend. I've been single for almost a year. My freshman year, I had a lot of people who liked me, now it's like I lost whatever I had then to keep people looking my way. Everyone around me is getting someone but me *sigh*
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 2:39 pm    Post subject: Hi Reply with quote

I feel that way too but I guess why I haven't tried to ask boys I like out is because I appearently have a fear of abandonment so I guess when people try to get close to me I get scared and push them away but the people who talked with me about it said that a way to combat that is to let them comfort me which scares me but it's get better it doesn't make me feel uncomfortable anymore.
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 9:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I increasingly feel it's just not worth the trouble; I don't need the drama, and don't really expect anything from dating and romance anymore. My recent experiences are: a girl was flirting with me, and then decided I was not good enough to introduce to her friends; a girl I really like rejected me when I asked her out, and it cost me a good friendship; another girl I like is moving to the other side of the world soon, so no point in asking her out; of the few remaining single girls I know here (single girls in this town are almost non-existent), one of them seems to loathe me for absolutely no reason and my very existence seems to offend her, and another is a slut who however would never degrade herself to dating me.
In any case, here I'm at the bottom of the barrel - a Third World passport, a non-white, a student, an introvert. Yes, I have things to offer, like fidelity, commitment, caring; but these are neither flashy nor in fashion. I have no intention of staying here for good, and what British girl would follow me back to the Third World?
A funny thing, until fairly recently I viewed romantic love as the only type of connection, apart from parent-child, worth pursuing at all; friendship seemed worthless. Now, I value friendship and, because I either know for a fact I would be rejected or I'm not interested, I don't know anybody there would be a point in asking out.
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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 4:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I feel the same waty because I am a guy and I feel weird when talking to girls because I am shy and I want to watch my tounge dont want say anything brash or rude that because I dont want to come off creepy. So I maybe a man but it understand your trouble and how you feel.I feel much better when talking to guys but I am definatly not gay because other men don't do it for me. and I am not sure about bi.
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PostPosted: Sun May 11, 2008 2:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I do feel that currently. I was with a girl for about 8 months and well, it ended horribly. I somewhat can't move on from it either.
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PostPosted: Sun May 11, 2008 3:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a crush on a guy, but I don't think he likes me back...I've already have had many unsuccessful crushes...so I'm not all that hopeful...
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