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matsuiny2004
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 Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 9:04 am Post subject: implied meanings |
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My dad got frustrated with me yesterday for not assuming he needed me to do things  He appoligized, but it is still bothering me  I do not mind helping people, but I am not psychic, I would still not assume people should psychically know me needs even if I was in as much pain as he was. |
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Jeyradan
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I know how you feel - my father calls me on the carpet for not "doing things around the house." Well, what things? Yes, I do need it spelled out for me! I do what I'm asked to do. And half the time I don't even live in his house, saving him money as well as trouble.
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matsuiny2004
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| Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 10:30 am Post subject: |
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| Jeyradan wrote: | | I know how you feel - my father calls me on the carpet for not "doing things around the house." Well, what things? Yes, I do need it spelled out for me! I do what I'm asked to do. And half the time I don't even live in his house, saving him money as well as trouble. |
yeah if he had told me I would have done them. t is not like it is my mess, I can not read minds  |
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Icheb
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| Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 11:54 am Post subject: |
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| matsuiny2004 wrote: | | Jeyradan wrote: | | I know how you feel - my father calls me on the carpet for not "doing things around the house." Well, what things? Yes, I do need it spelled out for me! I do what I'm asked to do. And half the time I don't even live in his house, saving him money as well as trouble. |
yeah if he had told me I would have done them. |
Apparently not if it's a question of doing the dishes... |
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matsuiny2004
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| Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 11:59 am Post subject: |
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| Icheb wrote: | | matsuiny2004 wrote: | | Jeyradan wrote: | | I know how you feel - my father calls me on the carpet for not "doing things around the house." Well, what things? Yes, I do need it spelled out for me! I do what I'm asked to do. And half the time I don't even live in his house, saving him money as well as trouble. |
yeah if he had told me I would have done them. |
Apparently not if it's a question of doing the dishes... |
I complete them eventually it jsut takes some reminders. On my own I forget or ignore them. |
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