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Wise Decision
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Maybe
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JerryHatake
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:13 pm    Post subject: Finding Love Reply with quote

I made the decision to let love find me while I'm working on my education at Mason. I believe its a smart move on my account for many good reasons. I can also talk with my friend Michelle if I need advice since she recently got back together with her ex and she very helpful and understand what I'm going through sometimes. Education first love second is the best decision I went with in my love life ever. Don't you all agree?
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:17 pm    Post subject: Re: Finding Love Reply with quote

JerryHatake wrote:
I made the decision to let love find me while I'm working on my education at Mason. I believe its a smart move on my account for many good reasons. I can also talk with my friend Michelle if I need advice since she recently got back together with her ex and she very helpful and understand what I'm going through sometimes. Education first love second is the best decision I went with in my love life ever. Don't you all agree?


Perhaps you can find someone doing the same thing and both make a crapload of cash.
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:19 pm    Post subject: Re: Finding Love Reply with quote

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JerryHatake wrote:
I made the decision to let love find me while I'm working on my education at Mason. I believe its a smart move on my account for many good reasons. I can also talk with my friend Michelle if I need advice since she recently got back together with her ex and she very helpful and understand what I'm going through sometimes. Education first love second is the best decision I went with in my love life ever. Don't you all agree?


Perhaps you can find someone doing the same thing and both make a crapload of cash.


Maybe, It will happen when I least suspected.
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 12:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Here I am, an abysmally lonely grad student on the verge of suicide and you're talking about how it's a wise choice not to see anyone while you're getting an education.
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 12:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It would only work if you go to a place where women outnumber men by at least 3 to 1...
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 1:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am weird. It doesn't matter if there are a bunch of girls around. Somehow I'll manage to scare them off.

There's someone in my lab who actually seems interested in me. She has shown interest for several months now, on and off. (I think she might have a child or something and is three years my senior.) She usually looses interest when she thinks I'm not really interested in her anymore. In reality, I just don't know what to do. I think she has realized this the last month or so and know I don't know what she's thinking exactly.

I don't know what to do. I usually don't do anything.
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 5:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Here I am, an abysmally lonely grad student on the verge of suicide and you're talking about how it's a wise choice not to see anyone while you're getting an education.


Well I'm a sophomore here and I still have plenty of time to find someone or visa versa. Patience is a key in my situation. You always have to a balance in life and thats what I'm doing now.
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 6:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Your 20, I don't think you can say much of education or love. You don't know down the road, you may have a great job and no wife. You do what you need to, if a chance comes along take or don't there is no wrong way.
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 7:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Your 20, I don't think you can say much of education or love. You don't know down the road, you may have a great job and no wife. You do what you need to, if a chance comes along take or don't there is no wrong way.


I agreed because I'm inexperienced with relsationships. That fact is due to my first and only relationship in my life so far which failed in the end.
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PostPosted: Fri May 02, 2008 6:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey Jerry.

Good choice.
I too made a similar decision to wait to let love find me.
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PostPosted: Fri May 02, 2008 7:00 pm    Post subject: Re: Finding Love Reply with quote

JerryHatake wrote:
I made the decision to let love find me while I'm working on my education at Mason. I believe its a smart move on my account for many good reasons. I can also talk with my friend Michelle if I need advice since she recently got back together with her ex and she very helpful and understand what I'm going through sometimes. Education first love second is the best decision I went with in my love life ever. Don't you all agree?


Rationally thats a Very good plan JerryHatake, but I personally am just NOT patient enough to go about it that way.
IME as an undergrad I tried for several years to go about it that way, and I ended up with NOTHING.
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PostPosted: Fri May 02, 2008 7:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Somewhat related....

I'm not sure what your major is, but if you take an economics course with Prof. Rustici, he will tell you what love is what you should do Wink
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PostPosted: Fri May 02, 2008 7:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sargon wrote:
Somewhat related....

I'm not sure what your major is, but if you take an economics course with Prof. Rustici, he will tell you what love is what you should do Wink


Um actually I'm in his Econ 104 class this semester. He talked about early in the semester and everyone had a laugh at it. My major is BA in Integrative Studies in Social Science for Education. I'm in New Century College.
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PostPosted: Fri May 02, 2008 7:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Um actually I'm in his Econ 104 class this semester. He talked about early in the semester and everyone had a laugh at it. My major is BA in Integrative Studies in Social Science for Education. I'm in New Century College.


If he mentioned something about "reverse valuation", then he was serious, and by and large correct. I would heed his advice.
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PostPosted: Fri May 02, 2008 7:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Now I'm curious. What did this professor say?
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