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Tim_Tex
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Sure.
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slowmutant
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| Yes, I find you attractive. |
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tcorrielus
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| KatieMiller wrote: | I really believe social skills are more important than looks. If you can make someone feel comfortable and carry a conversation, you will go farther than just sitting there and looking pretty. Pretty doesn't cut it.
So don't worry about what you look like. (You look good, by the way.)You can't change the basics of that. You can learn to talk to people, make friends, and even flirt. It's a hell of a lot harder than getting a new haircut or whatever, but its what really matters. |
I agree. I think a person's personality counts more than his/her looks.
Have you seen that Eddie Murphy movie "Coming to America"? Murphy plays an African prince who is compelled by his parents to marry a young woman who he has never me before and merely intends to obey his every command. He didn't care if the woman was pretty/sexy or less attractive, but he wanted a woman that can love and respect him for who he is.
When I was in high school, I wanted a girlfriend just like other guys did but didn't have the proper social skills necessary to get one then (EVEN THOUGH I WAS HANDSOME). As a college student today, I have the ability to socialize with people especially young women. So Poeticromance, you may want to focus more on your social skills than your looks when searching for guys to socialize or date with. So don't give up!!! |
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agmoie
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Poeticromance
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| riverotter wrote: | | You look cute, but a little intimidating. Maybe guys are scared of you. Or maybe they think you are stuck up. I think a lot of us (Aspies) might have that problem. |
How do I look intimidating? I'm really not. I get put down easily. |
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KingofKaboom
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:29 pm Post subject: |
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I think your cute and love your eyes 
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Caravaggio
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:32 pm Post subject: |
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| Very cute, I'd have no problem dating you on looks alone. However I could easily see many others finding your look unappealing. |
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Poeticromance
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| Caravaggio wrote: | | Very cute, I'd have no problem dating you on looks alone. However I could easily see many others finding your look unappealing. |
Yeah, people seem to love girls who wear shirts that say "Abercombie" or see Coach stuff on them. Why date girls who spend a lot of money is what I always say, lol. |
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Daewoodrow
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:44 pm Post subject: |
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You're in the company of Aspies now. Most of us guys see "Abercrombie" as an 11 letter word.
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Poeticromance
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| Lol. I see "Abercombie" as a proaganda mind control. It's the media just trying to tell you that clothes with just words on it are better than clothing with jokes, an image, or even a wide varity of colors. I generally do the opposite of what the media says. |
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caanilorac
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I like your purple hair.
And yeah, Abercrombie (among other brands) and MTV control what most young people like, I think. |
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Social_Fantom
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:56 pm Post subject: |
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You are attractive, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. 
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GoatOnFire
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You're cute, nice eyes, the purple works well. Maybe it's because you're 17.
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tailfins1959
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| Poeticromance wrote: | | tcorrielus wrote: | | To be honest with you, you absolutely look fine the way you look. But why do you ask? Is anyone making fun of you or criticizing the way you look? |
I have very hard times finding someone to date me. Like, it is hard to get someones attention but my other more attractive friends always have people comming up to them telling them how nice they look. |
Let me put it this way, if you competed against women twice your age, it wouldn't even be a contest. Get legal (eighteen), and you could have a different date every night if you wanted.
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MissConstrue
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I think you look good. However if you're wanting a date, it's always appealing to make yourself up a little. When I say make yourself up, I don't mean you need a celebrity makeover. Wear something that's a little flattering that you like and add just a little makeup. I think this subconsciously hints to guys that you're available or interested.
I also think the biggest attraction in a person is their personality. A little charisma possibly gets you further in dating and with people in general. It sounds cliche but I definitely believe it has a depth of truth to it. It's probably hard for a lot of us aspies to express that personality externally. I do however see charisma and a little vavaboom in the way your eyes are looking up at the camera. Even though I'm a girl, it definitely comes across as dead sexy.
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