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Trugen
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 Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 11:57 am Post subject: HOLY CRAP! I NEED A RESPONSE TONIGHT |
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What do i do
a girl is being extremely nice to me,
onbe day in October (26, 2007) i ran across the street and she hit me
she baked me brownies (for hitting me with the car)
and we say hi every so often when we pass by in the halls
all of a sudden,
today she walked up to me (as i was in her classroom)
and insisted on making me cookies
i refused at first but anyhow, i eventually gave in
it was actually painful to be there
such niceness from a human
out of nowhere
never from anyone have i experienced something like that
i have no clue what to do in that kind of situation
it was actually painful, for i didn't know what to do
please i need help
i need to know what to do
PLEASE GIVE A RESPONSE SHE'LL BRING THEM IN TOMORROW
I NEED TO KNOW HOW TO ACT
i know be yourself, but myself may be a bit much,
might need to be considerate and tone down a little
be my calm,cool, funny self
not my manic, funny self
A NOTE: SHES VERY GORGEOUS
I ADMIT I'M VERY SHY AROUND THE CHICAS
ESPECIALLY THE PRETTY, GORGEOUS ONES
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computerlove
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 12:20 pm Post subject: |
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go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Invite the chica to come in, go out and rent a movie like Simon Birch (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simon_Birch), talk, laugh, 
GOOD LUCK!!!
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deadeyexx
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 12:35 pm Post subject: |
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| Just accept her gift, sit down, and invite her to eat the cookies with you. This is no big deal. The best way you can act is like it's no big deal either. Don't try to put on an act or anything. |
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Trugen
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 12:42 pm Post subject: |
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I dont have her for class
i see her as first period ends
before second period
i have no clue what time she has lunch
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kip
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 12:46 pm Post subject: |
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Seems like shes got the hots for you somehow! Maybe she just wants a friend, maybe she sees you as BF material? Hard to tell.
Accept her gift, and be friendly with her. Ask her how her week's been, how work/school/whatever is going, stuff like that. Basically the same crap parents ask you, but be happy about her answers. Unless it's been bad, then don't be happy!
Oh, and if the cookies suck, don't let AS honesty kill you! Tell her they are great anyway  |
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Trugen
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 12:51 pm Post subject: |
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| kip wrote: | Seems like shes got the hots for you somehow! Maybe she just wants a friend, maybe she sees you as BF material? Hard to tell.
Accept her gift, and be friendly with her. Ask her how her week's been, how work/school/whatever is going, stuff like that. Basically the same crap parents ask you, but be happy about her answers. Unless it's been bad, then don't be happy!
Oh, and if the cookies suck, don't let AS honesty kill you! Tell her they are great anyway |
holy, gosh
i think you are right
she asked if im going to prom
and said she wasnt
i'm a sophomore
shes a junior
so i couldnt have gone unless asked out
i told her im going to after prom
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kip
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 12:54 pm Post subject: |
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| If she asks about prom again, tell her you caint go unless an upperclassman invites you. Perfect oppertunity for her to step in and ask! |
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sinsboldly
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 1:05 pm Post subject: |
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| deadeyexx wrote: | | Just accept her gift, sit down, and invite her to eat the cookies with you. This is no big deal. The best way you can act is like it's no big deal either. Don't try to put on an act or anything. |
Be a man, and bring the milk!
good luck, sweetie! we are pulling for ya'!
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slowmutant
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 1:51 pm Post subject: |
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Kip, don't think of this as the entrance exam for a relationship. When you're with this chica tonight, resist the urge to impress her with any mad skillz. Sounds like she almost ran you over with her car, and is hoping you won't be mad at her for it.
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Trugen
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 3:50 pm Post subject: |
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| slowmutant wrote: | Sounds like she almost ran you over with her car, and is hoping you won't be mad at her for it.
Good luck! |
she did hit me with her car
i hear she probably wants forgiveness
i forgave her a while back
but i must voice this to her
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larsenjw92286
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slowmutant
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 4:21 pm Post subject: |
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Such niceness from a human? We are all human here! Including me, you, everybody on WP. I understand why some might want to distance themselves from other people by pretending they are not of the species Homo sapiens, referring to others as "humans" to imply that they are not.
Obviously this is a silly thing. |
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Trugen
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 4:43 pm Post subject: |
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| slowmutant wrote: | Such niceness from a human? We are all human here! Including me, you, everybody on WP. I understand why some might want to distance themselves from other people by pretending they are not of the species Homo sapiens, referring to others as "humans" to imply that they are not.
Obviously this is a silly thing. |
i know humans are nice
andf that people with aspergers are humans
i jsut like to pretend im not human
and often times most people aren't too kind to me
therefore
i like to refer to humanity
to people as humans
to sound deep
and sound weird
its my way
i guesse you could say i definately have other world syndrome (aspergers)
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Trugen
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| Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 4:48 pm Post subject: |
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| larsenjw92286 wrote: | | Why would she hit you? |
i ran across the street,
however i was looking down at the ground (very aspiesque move huh?)
her car accidently hit me
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(i suppose part of her doing this stuff, making food and talking, could be for an apology)
but i can sense
genuine kindness
and this whole thread just kinda could be about what to do when treated kinfdly by girls
not only be about this incident
but another girl is kinda flirting
(i dont know if Alex[the girl who hit me] is flirting, or hitting on me, or just being really nice)
i have no clue what to do around girls
remember
im shy around the chicas
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Drive to Madness: Love..........and power!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Omni: Potent
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