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amaren
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Jaydog, I find your comment irrational. What is the difference between men and women which makes it ok for one gender to be homosexual, but not the other?
Do you think male homosexuality is wrong simply because you feel disgust or offense when you see signs of it, or do you have a deeper reason?
If you simply mean you find male homosexuality disgusting, I think it is better to simply say so, and not add that you think it is wrong, which I think implies that you think people should stop acting in this way.
To give an example, I find mushrooms disgusting, but I do not find them wrong, nor do I think all mushrooms should be destroyed, or changed into non-mushrooms, so wrongness and disgustingness are different.
If you think wrongness does not imply that people should not do it, then I would be a little surprised, as people seem to use the word in this way, but I would be interested to hear your reasons for this use of the word. |
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matrix
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| Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 8:50 am Post subject: Re: hmm |
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| jaydog wrote: | what they hell i would never go gay for anyone, To be honest I find being gay offensive and wrong, I just don't believe in it, I don't have a problem with lesbians at all, but if your male and gay is completely wrong. I don't have a problem with the term gay or gay couples but I find it sick seeing gay males exposing there homosexual on the streets. now if they would act like brothers or not have any sexual contact then it's ok. to be honest I have no problems with lesbians (as I do see porn  ) and females seem to be more attractive to the male guy.. just my thoughts on this. And just so everyone knows I'm single, straight and I wouldn't go gay for anyone.. |
Gay men have pr0n too, but it may not be to you or my liking.
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Alaspi
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| FleaCircus wrote: | here, i'll go first...
i'll turn gay for ummmmmmmm
angelica from rugrats(all grown up) and that girl from the old freaky friday movie(not lindsey lohan). |
I think that is Jodie Foster. 
I dont know how turning from straight to gay or gay to straight works...or if it's possible.
but if it was a choice then I could probably say I would go straight for Hugh Laurie. |
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NoOnesBoy
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Location: Vancouver BC (Canada)
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Well, since I'm already gay....gay for me would be straight  soooooo....who would I go straight for? Let's see.....I wouldn't "turn straight" ever since I don't think it's possible to change your sexuality but who would I maybe possibly be turned on by who wasn't a man? Avril Lavigne.
And guys, what's up with the homophobia? Jaydog there IS no difference between being a gay female and being a gay male. Whenever I hear a man say that lesbians are fine because they think it's hot to watch or fantasize about two girls having sex together I get the feeling that bugs are crawling up my spine because that's sexist and suggests that the guy saying that is basing his judgements on what is or is not acceptable for other people to do or to BE on whether or not the behavior of others satisfies his own sexual desires. I'm not saying that's for sure the way it works for such a guy, but that's what it SEEMS like to me. And conformity with personal sexual desires is an extremely inappropriate way to judge the value of another person's sexuality.
Being gay is like having five fingers. You have no absolute choice in your attraction (sure, in your behavior, but if the attraction is natural and hurts NOBODY then why should acting on the attraction with related behavior be "wrong"??). It's a natural part of how you are born. |
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MissPickwickian
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Anyone intelligent and lovable.
I am very lonely. very.
Also, I'm probably bi anyhow.
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spudnik
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Rose McGowan, I would be the biggest lesbian, almost as big as Rosie O'Donnell, who am I kidding she's the biggest one 
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Nico
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I'm bisexual so it wouldn't be a change for me 
Angelina Jolie and Courtney Love for me.
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A bright red haired, green eyes sweetheart who likes honesty like me
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helene
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| Nico wrote: | | I'm bisexual so it wouldn't be a change for me |
ditto that except I am pansexual(basically the same but not limited to two genders) |
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MissPickwickian
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| helene wrote: | | Nico wrote: | | I'm bisexual so it wouldn't be a change for me |
ditto that except I am pansexual(basically the same but not limited to two genders) |
There are more than two?
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helene
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| intersex, trans... |
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MissPickwickian
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| helene wrote: | | intersex, trans... |
I know what transgendered is, but what's intersex?
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helene
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| people who are biologically neither male nor female (wikipedia has a good article it is pretty complicated (I have never met someone who is intersex but I have dreamt that I am dating an intersex person)) |
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