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Joshandspot
Blue Jay
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 Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 11:57 pm Post subject: Does anyone on here ever question their sexuality? |
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| and if so, how do they know or figure it out? |
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MR_BOGAN
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Location: The great trailer park in the sky!
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No.
I think if you are you might be gay or bi, which is cool. |
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Tim_Tex
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| Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 12:28 am Post subject: |
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I have before, but not lately.
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sgrannel
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youknowandy
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Age: 31
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Location: Twin Cities, Minnesota
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| Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 12:58 am Post subject: |
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| heh, some will if they don't know me much but know me well enough to know that i haven't dated anyone. |
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Praetorius
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| Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 1:08 am Post subject: |
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| Lol. No. |
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youknowandy
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| Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 2:18 am Post subject: |
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| oops, i read the title of this post wrong... i thought it was asking if anyone ELSE questioned my sexuality. me questioning my own has never happened. |
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helene
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I am pansexual (really similar to bi)
until March I thought I was straight
March and April I was questioning
now I am mostly closeted |
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Social_Fantom
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I did years ago as a teenager but I learned what mine truly is.
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iceb
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Yes somewhat, I don't think I really got it right until I was about 30 and the only thing to tell you is your own instinct.
I would say "If it feels good, do it".
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techstepgenr8tion
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they say that most people - guys and girls, aren't particularly or fully one or the other; in that case it really just ends up being your personal choice on what matters most to you.
If you have any obsessive fears or 'what does this mean about me?' thoughts racing around in your head, that ends up most of the time being the only real problem; those are only killed off by defanging them and taking away their power to trip you out thus having them stay on your mind.
If it makes you feel any better, many many ancient societies had bisexual behavior as being an everyday thing; its there in the animal world, was there with the Egyptians, there with the Mayans and Aztecs, there with the Romans even. The standards we have now are more set by religion, neither good nor bad but you just have to remember whatever you do that as much as people can deny things up and down, its part of reality. Just like when it was the biggest sin to admit that you masturbated back in jr. high and people ripped on each other about it (the same people talk about it openly sometimes in their 20's - go figure). |
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Hector
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Yes, occasionally. But then I imagine what it'd be like with a guy as opposed to one of my many opposite-sex crushes, and it's not the same.
If you're usually attracted to girls I think it's best to just stop worrying about your own doubts and what they mean. I disagree with the assertion that it necessarily means you're "gay" or "bisexual". Some people are just curious, some are even just obsessed with the fear of being gay. Maybe you are bisexual, but maybe not. |
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nekowafer
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I think it's important to think about how you feel about it. Try to erase any feelings of "this is how they expect me to be" or "my family will disown me if I'm gay" or anything like that. Think about what you like, what makes you happy.
Also I have to say that experimentation is helpful. Make sure to find someone who understands your situation and won't be offended if you change your mind, though. |
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five_squared
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Like... all the time  (Seriously, I'm obsessed.) |
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MrSinister
Sanity Is Madness
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| Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 8:21 pm Post subject: |
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Yes, I do that quite often.
It's a habit of mine 
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