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Dollypony
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 Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:35 pm Post subject: advice please! |
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Where I go riding (horses), there is a guy (17 or 18 ) I'm intrested in. We talk and he seem sort of intrested in me. Sometimes, he acts silly around me and follows me arouns. Am I'm reading too much into it? How do I go to the next level? Ethier just as friends or GF/BF.
Help!
Thanks,
Allyson
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Detren
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| Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 9:21 pm Post subject: |
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Your age would be a big deciding factor in a lot of things here, but regardless, I say talk to him about common interests (assuming you are riding horses?) then horses might be a great topic.
Be yourself, if your conversation seems to be going well then see if he wants to "get together" for a drink or lunch or something. Try the "hey, I'm kind of hungry. Feel like grabbing a bite to eat?" line, then head down to Mc D's, keep it light at first. Things will or won't happen in their own time. (this also depends on your age too, and if you would need a chaperon... which could get kind of weird. If you are supposed to have a chaperon, just try to hang back a little chat a little longer.) |
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Dollypony
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| Yes, I rode horses. Unfortantly, we live in a rural area so we can't go anywhere together unless we really plan it out. |
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HD3H
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Ask for he's phone number. I think that is the frist step then you can plan things afterwards  |
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Dollypony
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| Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 2:28 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks. Will do...eventually. |
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HD3H
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Did you actually ever get his number......
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Dollypony
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| Posted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 9:56 am Post subject: |
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| No. Kind of given up on it *stares at my post's date* Been a while... |
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| Posted: Fri Nov 21, 2008 7:47 pm Post subject: |
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| Leave your name and number on his windshield, saddle, where ever. That's what my husband did. |
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HD3H
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| zghost wrote: | | Leave your name and number on his windshield, saddle, where ever. That's what my husband did. |
He did...Nice  but...Im not sure how to put this.....nah im just going to say that I doubt she will do that....not that she cant or dont dare...Its a completely different reason......And thats the truth....
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