Wing Man Theory

MDD123 · Phoenix Joined: May 07, 2009 Age: 26 Posts: 555

I can't say I know the entire definition of the term, "Wing man", but I know my meaning for it. To elaborate, I've just made the trip to Colorado Springs, this highlights a change in living situation, friends, and perpective for me.

My old friend was married and never disagreed with his wife. They had no ambition in life other than living off of government money and taking rent from me. I won't go into the details of the fallout.

My other friend who I won't name is an opposite. He's very outgoing and loves picking up women (in spite of his looks, he's very good at it). Unfortunately for him, after a certian point, he fails in his relationships (he recently got divorced). I'm a terrible pickup artist, but I have a better track record of not coming off as a complete ass to women (he'll admit he's an ass most of the time).

Here's where the theory begins. He has a house and all the skills to bring women there, I have all the skills to get them to enjoy staying around. He really seems to want a real relationship out of life (he has a son that he wants to raise). So the wing man theory to me is symbiosis, working on eachother's strengths to get what we want. I'll show him the church-girl type and he'll show me how to present myself better.

I have this habit of thinking that if I'm onto something, then I should come back here to report. So if you're a guy who has the patience to read this, feel free to argue about why this wouldn't work for you, in fact if this idea is completely bad, then don't hesitate to call bs, I'll just try to prove myself right again.