AmeliaJane Blue Jay


Joined: Mar 16, 2006 Age: 39 Posts: 89 Location: UK
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Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 4:56 am Post subject: |
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Not a really big mind shift actually... just that everything fell into place as soon as I knew about AS. It had been hard to match up the way he was acting with the person I thought I knew. As soon as I had a reason for the problems we had they all disappeared. It's very easy now.
As an NT I assumed, as we all do, that people basically think the same and know all the 'rules'. Les knew that he was different and not 'getting' it, but not why. Now we understand that we think completely differently we know that we can never assume anything. Always best to check, because whatever we think the other person is thinking, we're probably wrong! |
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