WrongPlanet.net
WP Members: > 70,000

Aspie Affection

New Today: 9
New Yesterday: 30

Lessions in Dating and Relationships Previous  1, 2, 3  Next  
Post new topic   Reply to topic    Wrong Planet Autism Forum Index -> Love and Dating     
CrinklyCrustacean
Phoenix
Phoenix


Joined: Mar 23, 2009
Posts: 1223

PostPosted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 8:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Who_Am_I wrote:
Well, this one time, I started an interspecies dating service, but it just didn't work out. Sad You would not believe what incredible jealousy issues tsetse flies have.
All of my efforts to help the animal kingdom overcome its terrible loneliness always amount to failure... Crying or Very sad


Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Who_Am_I
almost human
Phoenix


Joined: Aug 28, 2005
Age: 29
Posts: 10520
Location: My body is in Brisbane and my mind is in the gutter. :D

PostPosted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 8:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

CrinklyCrustacean wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Well, this one time, I started an interspecies dating service, but it just didn't work out. Sad You would not believe what incredible jealousy issues tsetse flies have.
All of my efforts to help the animal kingdom overcome its terrible loneliness always amount to failure... Crying or Very sad


Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing


...and ridicule... Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad



Laughing
_________________
Music Theory 101: Cadences.
Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I !!!!
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I! I! I! I I I
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Send e-mail Visit poster's website Yahoo Messenger MSN Messenger
nick007
old-skewl fan-boy
Phoenix


Joined: May 05, 2010
Age: 30
Posts: 9737
Location: was Louisiana but moved in with my girlfreind in Vermont

PostPosted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 1:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Love may be very powerful but it is NO match for chemical addictions
_________________
For info about where I've been & what's up with me check this post~
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp5105431.html&highlight=#5105431
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Visit poster's website
Erisad
More like Erihappy, amirite?
Phoenix


Joined: Jul 06, 2010
Age: 23
Posts: 13040
Location: United States

PostPosted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 2:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If an NT beats and/or cheats on you, don't be surprised. It's in their nature. :/
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
RainSong
Love Forever
Phoenix


Joined: May 02, 2006
Posts: 4879
Location: Ohio

PostPosted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 3:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Erisad wrote:
If an NT beats and/or cheats on you, don't be surprised. It's in their nature. :/


No more so than anyone else. It's exceptionally unfortunate that the view of NTs here is that they're meant to be evil. A person on the spectrum is just as likely to be abusive as someone who is not. Cheating might be a bit harder (simply due to lack of social skills), but it's not impossible and doesn't mean the desire won't be there for some people.
_________________
"Nothing worth having is easy."

Three years!
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Visit poster's website
KaiG
Phoenix
Phoenix


Joined: Jul 11, 2010
Age: 25
Posts: 1045
Location: Berkshire, UK.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 7:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Erisad wrote:
If an NT beats and/or cheats on you, don't be surprised. It's in their nature. :/

Nonsense.
_________________
If songs were lines in a conversation, the situation would be fine.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Erisad
More like Erihappy, amirite?
Phoenix


Joined: Jul 06, 2010
Age: 23
Posts: 13040
Location: United States

PostPosted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 8:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

So it's not just natural NT's but for people in general to berate their significant other for no reason? Not much hope there. D:
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
astaut
Phoenix
Phoenix


Joined: Sep 03, 2009
Posts: 1777
Location: Southeast US

PostPosted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 8:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

People can (and will) change, so know that before majorly committing yourself to a relationship.
_________________
After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing, after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.
--Spock
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
KaiG
Phoenix
Phoenix


Joined: Jul 11, 2010
Age: 25
Posts: 1045
Location: Berkshire, UK.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 9:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Erisad wrote:
So it's not just natural NT's but for people in general to berate their significant other for no reason? Not much hope there. D:

More like it's natural for assholes, irrespective of their neurological phenotype.
_________________
If songs were lines in a conversation, the situation would be fine.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Erisad
More like Erihappy, amirite?
Phoenix


Joined: Jul 06, 2010
Age: 23
Posts: 13040
Location: United States

PostPosted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 9:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

KaiG wrote:
Erisad wrote:
So it's not just natural NT's but for people in general to berate their significant other for no reason? Not much hope there. D:

More like it's natural for assholes, irrespective of their neurological phenotype.


Just wish there was a way to test if someone was an as*hole without talking to them. D:
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
CrinklyCrustacean
Phoenix
Phoenix


Joined: Mar 23, 2009
Posts: 1223

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 2:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

RainSong wrote:
It's exceptionally unfortunate that the view of NTs here is that they're meant to be evil.

Yes.
Erisad wrote:
Just wish there was a way to test if someone was an as*hole without talking to them. D:

Watch how they treat other people. It's not 100% foolproof, but it's a start. Smile
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Erisad
More like Erihappy, amirite?
Phoenix


Joined: Jul 06, 2010
Age: 23
Posts: 13040
Location: United States

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 9:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

CrinklyCrustacean wrote:
Watch how they treat other people. It's not 100% foolproof, but it's a start. Smile


Yes! I will be a social ninja. Ninja
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Moog
Pussycat
Forum Moderator


Joined: Feb 26, 2010
Age: 34
Posts: 17637
Location: Untied Kingdom

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 10:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

nick007 wrote:
Love may be very powerful but it is NO match for chemical addictions


What? Are you advocating drug use over love? Laughing Drugs might feel good, but I think love is (mostly) healthier.
_________________
Not currently a moderator
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
nick007
old-skewl fan-boy
Phoenix


Joined: May 05, 2010
Age: 30
Posts: 9737
Location: was Louisiana but moved in with my girlfreind in Vermont

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 10:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Moog wrote:
nick007 wrote:
Love may be very powerful but it is NO match for chemical addictions


What? Are you advocating drug use over love? Laughing Drugs might feel good, but I think love is (mostly) healthier.


I think you misunderstood. I'm NOT advocating drug use at all. What I'm saying is that loving someone with a drug addiction is bad because love is NOT strong enough to deal with it. I'm straight-edge & I'm better off alone & lonlely than in love with someone who has an addiction. Unfortunately thou lots of the women around me do drugs & women have to be on something to even be remotely interested in me Crying or Very sad
_________________
For info about where I've been & what's up with me check this post~
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp5105431.html&highlight=#5105431
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Visit poster's website
RICKY5
Phoenix
Phoenix


Joined: Dec 28, 2009
Posts: 1175

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 9:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Erisad wrote:
So it's not just natural NT's but for people in general to berate their significant other for no reason? Not much hope there. D:


Romantic relationships are a power struggle. Men have the Madonna/Whore complex for women. women have the Lover/Provider complex for men.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Post new topic   Reply to topic    Wrong Planet Autism Forum Index -> Love and Dating   
Previous  1, 2, 3  Next  

 
Read more Articles on Wrong Planet



Wrong Planet is a Registered Trademark.
Copyright 2004-2013, Wrong Planet, LLC and Alex Plank. Alex does public speaking for Autism.

Advertise on Wrong Planet

Alex Hotchalk / Glam 

Alex Plank  Aspie Affection 

Terms of Service - You must read this as a user of Wrong Planet | Privacy Policy

Subscribe: RSS Feed  Wrong Planet News  Wrong Planet Forums




fine art