nick007 wrote:
There could be a few rezones. They may be strongly infatuated & think it's love(lots of people make that mistake). They may also want a relationship with some security; the may not want to waist their time chasing someone if the person is not interested in anything long term. Some people also tend to get obsessed or take things fast
These are good. Add to the list that they're getting older/interesting in having children, they think marriage will complete their lives somehow, they think that's what you're supposed to do, they believe in "love at first sight", or they have an ulterior motive (which is closely tied to the secure relationship premise).
I had several people propose in the past to prevent me from terminating the relationship (which was insulting).