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MidlifeAspie
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Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 11:55 pm Post subject: Re: Learn the BASIC rule: If she likes you, she WILL go out

nick007 wrote:

computerlove wrote:

Learn one of the BASIC rules: If she likes you, she WILL go out.

EDIT: Aspie1 said it better:

Aspie1 wrote:

I think the OP meant this: is a woman is truly interested in you, she will make time to see you any way she can. It doesn't matter how busy her schdule is; if she can make time to drive across town for a half-hour coffee date with you, she'll do it. Conversely, if tells you she's busy more than once, maybe twice, it's a code word for "I'm not interested in you". So, don't waste your time waiting around until her time frees up, and move on to a woman who's "not busy".

sticky this please.

What if the person is playing hard-to-get Question

Grown-ups don't do this.
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 12:21 am Post subject:

Yes, yes they do. The "higher status" a woman has, the harder it is for guys to "get" her. I'm not sure if that makes sense or not, but if I woman literally has hundreds if not thousands of guys that would instantly go out with her at the drop of a hat, wouldn't that make her be more selective? If she is so incredibly attractive, she can choose anyone she wants, so why would she go out with someone unless they proved themselves to be worthy? This is how mating works in the animal kingdom, and it is how we work too. _________________ Your Aspie score: 135 of 200 Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 61 of 200 You are very likely an Aspie

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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 12:28 am Post subject: Re: Learn the BASIC rule: If she likes you, she WILL go out

MidlifeAspie wrote:

nick007 wrote:

computerlove wrote:

Learn one of the BASIC rules: If she likes you, she WILL go out.

EDIT: Aspie1 said it better:

Aspie1 wrote:

sticky this please.

What if the person is playing hard-to-get Question

Grown-ups don't do this.

A grown up but be someone who's in their 40s or older then
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 12:58 am Post subject: Re: Learn the BASIC rule: If she likes you, she WILL go out

nick007 wrote:

MidlifeAspie wrote:

nick007 wrote:

computerlove wrote:

Learn one of the BASIC rules: If she likes you, she WILL go out.

EDIT: Aspie1 said it better:

Aspie1 wrote:

sticky this please.

What if the person is playing hard-to-get Question

Grown-ups don't do this.

A grown up but be someone who's in their 40s or older then

Some people never grow up. Being a "grown-up" isn't necessarily a factor of one's age, only one's maturity.
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 2:55 am Post subject:

many successful couples got together because the guy was persistent i'm sure all of us have heard a woman describe their husband/boyfriend as "i didn't really like him at first but he eventually won me over" women can be talked into liking almost any guy

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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 3:07 am Post subject:

albertwesker wrote:

many successful couples got together because the guy was persistent

i'm sure all of us have heard a woman describe their husband/boyfriend as "i didn't really like him at first but he eventually won me over"

women can be talked into liking almost any guy

This is just talk.

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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 4:11 am Post subject:

well I didn't think I liked a guy at first then I fell for him, but I think it was more I was denying to myself to believe I liked him at the start.

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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 11:09 am Post subject:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

albertwesker wrote:

This is just talk.

More like the plot to a bad chick-flick.
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mv
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 11:28 am Post subject:

MidlifeAspie wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

albertwesker wrote:

This is just talk.

More like the plot to a bad chick-flick.

There are *good* chick-flicks?

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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 11:39 am Post subject:

mv wrote:

MidlifeAspie wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

albertwesker wrote:

This is just talk.

More like the plot to a bad chick-flick.

There are *good* chick-flicks?

My wife insists there are, but I have yet to see one.
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 12:19 pm Post subject:

mra1200 wrote:

Yes, yes they do. The "higher status" a woman has, the harder it is for guys to "get" her. I'm not sure if that makes sense or not, but if I woman literally has hundreds if not thousands of guys that would instantly go out with her at the drop of a hat, wouldn't that make her be more selective? If she is so incredibly attractive, she can choose anyone she wants, so why would she go out with someone unless they proved themselves to be worthy? This is how mating works in the animal kingdom, and it is how we work too.

That isn't playing hard to get. That's actually being hard to get. It's not the same thing.

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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 12:24 pm Post subject:

albertwesker wrote:

No. A woman can not be talked into liking almost any guy. You've taken the wrong lesson from these anecdotes. The anecdotes aren't illustrating how any man can win any woman if he just tries hard enough. The anecdotes are illustrating that compatibility between two people isn't always obvious at first, or even second or third meeting. Persistence from a man who is compatible can end in coupledom. Persistance from a man who is incompatible with her will just inspire annoyance.