Has Asperger's and is mad at the world rant!

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18 May 2011, 2:11 am

He/she can not interact with people in an appropriate manner, hates people and hates the world. He/she has a very nasty violent streak and his Aspergers is the reason he is the way he is. He had a bad childhood and dropped out of school because everyone bullied him/her because of their Aspergers. He/she is now a long term unemployable adult. He/she has spent time in and out prison and psychiatric institution because of Aspergers.

He/she is mad at the world. It will not take much for him/her to act up in a violent manner because it is a way of getting back at the demons of the past that drove him/her to despair.

Can anyone relate to the above typical story of a person with Aspergers? Feel free to discuss!



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18 May 2011, 2:14 am

Dark_Lord_2008 wrote:
He/she can not interact with people in an appropriate manner, hates people and hates the world. He/she has a very nasty violent streak and his Aspergers is the reason he is the way he is. He had a bad childhood and dropped out of school because everyone bullied him/her because of their Aspergers. He/she is now a long term unemployable adult. He/she has spent time in and out prison and psychiatric institution because of there Aspergers.

He/she is mad at the world. It will not take much for him/her to act up in a violent manner because it is a way of getting back at the demons of the past that drove him/her to despair.

Can anyone relate to the above typical story of a person with Aspergers? Feel free to discuss!


Don't get angry get even!

PS I would not fancy the survival chances of an Aspie in jail.



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18 May 2011, 2:37 am

People with Aspergers continue to blame their childhood for most of their problems. Not my fault that I was born this way. The world is to blame for not accepting me for being different. Discrimination against Aspergers/Autistics: I am like any other person who has been a victim past and present.



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18 May 2011, 2:38 am

Dark_Lord_2008 wrote:
typical story of a person with Aspergers


I'd like to see your evidence that this is a typical story of a person with Aspergers please.



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18 May 2011, 2:39 am

Dark_Lord_2008 wrote:
He/she can not interact with people in an appropriate manner, hates people and hates the world. He/she has a very nasty violent streak and his Aspergers is the reason he is the way he is.


Aspergers does not cause people to be violent or nasty. There are plenty of people with AS who are not violent at all, and who are pleasant people to be around.

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He had a bad childhood and dropped out of school because everyone bullied him/her because of their Aspergers.


The reason for any violent/behavioral problems could be partially from a difficult childhood. It'

Dark_Lord_2008"
He/she is now a long term unemployable adult. He/she has spent time in and out prison and psychiatric institution because of there Aspergers.[/quote]

No, he has spent time in and out of prison and psychiatric institutions because of the choices he has made. Granted, he may have been in a poor state of mind when he made those choices, but there are people with AS who don't make such choices even when they are in what would be considered to be a poor state of mind.

[quote="Dark_Lord_2008"]
He/she is mad at the world. It will not take much for him/her to act up in a violent manner because it is a way of getting back at the demons of the past that drove him/her to despair.

Can anyone relate to the above typical story of a person with Aspergers? Feel free to discuss![/quote]

Why spend your time trying to hit a ghost or get back at an innocent person when you can spend your time doing more positive things in life? No one is stopping him from moving on with his life but himself.

[quote="Dark_Lord_2008 wrote:
People with Aspergers continue to blame their childhood for most of their problems. Not my fault that I was born this way. The world is to blame for not accepting me for being different. Discrimination against Aspergers/Autistics: I am like any other person who has been a victim past and present.


The world is not to blame for much of anything. It is not composed entirely of those who bullied you. You do not carry the stigma of being different or being bullied with you into new social situations unless you willingly drag it in with you.

If you have AS you probably are different, and it's not that this doesn't present obstacles on some occasions, but I don't think it's warranted to assume that the world and all people in it are your enemy.

I hear others with AS occasionally complain about NT's not accepting them as they are or respecting their needs, but at the same time, one frequently finds that these same people don't respect the needs of NT's. It isn't fair to ask NT's to completely bend to one's needs and accept one as is. A person with AS needs to meet NT's half way. It's only fair to the NT that the person with AS learns to follow certain social conventions, much as it is only fair to the person with AS that the NT learn to be considerate to things like hypersensitivity issues and so on.

It is not fair to expect one side to bend unilaterally to the needs and wishes of the other.



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18 May 2011, 2:41 am

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People with Aspergers continue to blame their childhood for most of their problems. Not my fault that I was born this way. The world is to blame for not accepting me for being different. Discrimination against Aspergers/Autistics: I am like any other person who has been a victim past and present.


Not me mate!

Aspergers is a gift and I use it to my advantage.

You just have to develop a thick skin!



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18 May 2011, 2:49 am

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He/she can not interact with people in an appropriate manner, hates people and hates the world. He/she has a very nasty violent streak and his Aspergers is the reason he is the way he is. He had a bad childhood and dropped out of school because everyone bullied him/her because of their Aspergers. He/she is now a long term unemployable adult. He/she has spent time in and out prison and psychiatric institution because of there Aspergers.

He/she is mad at the world. It will not take much for him/her to act up in a violent manner because it is a way of getting back at the demons of the past that drove him/her to despair.

Can anyone relate to the above typical story of a person with Aspergers? Feel free to discuss!


I've made friends before. I've done inappropriate things socially, but I've learned from my mistakes and I'm getting so much better. I don't hate people or the world. I do not have violent streaks. I had bad childhood that had nothing to do with my disorder and everything to do with the condition my country was in. I did not drop out of school and I have few semesters left before I graduate. Never spend time in prison or psychiatric institution. I've got an interview soon.

You blame Aspergers. I blame you because you made the choices that you did. Your disorder did not "make" you do it. All you're doing is enforcing the negative stereotype that people with Asperger's are full of hate, who are uneducated, unemployed, violent criminals. To me, that sounds more like conduct disorder and less like Aspergers.



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18 May 2011, 3:07 am

I hate the world, hate people especially authority figures like: judges/lawyers and police because they have it in for me. There are people out there, who just have it in for you and try to frame you or set you up for things you did not do or do not remember doing.

"It was not me, Aspergers made me do it." (Aspies could easily slip up under pressure from police).
People with Aspergers usually have no control over their thoughts and actions. They simply react to situations and never think of the consequences. people with Aspergers have the immature undeveloped brain of a child.

You are better off not commenting(silence) or simply denying the accusation against you. I did not do it. You have no proof/evidence of those alleged accusations against me.

People with Aspergers can easily be set up as the fall guy and framed by people who take advantage of them due to the Aspie's naive personality similar to that of a child. Aspies too trusting nature can be their downfall.



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18 May 2011, 3:15 am

Dark_Lord_2008 wrote:
People with Aspergers continue to blame their childhood for most of their problems. Not my fault that I was born this way. The world is to blame for not accepting me for being different. Discrimination against Aspergers/Autistics: I am like any other person who has been a victim past and present.



Well I doubt it's really my fault I was born with aspergers.....as for blaming my childhood for everything that would be ridiculous, obviously it plays a role because peoples genetics and environments influence behavior but to blame everything on it would be psychologically incorrect.



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18 May 2011, 3:18 am

I eat babies because I do not understand that its not usually considered appropriate to steal peoples children, kill them and make pies out of them.......so I must have aspergers. lol



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18 May 2011, 3:32 am

Doesn't sound like typical Aspergers to me. More like sociopath.



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18 May 2011, 3:34 am

Dark_Lord_2008 wrote:
I hate the world, hate people especially authority figures like: judges/lawyers and police because they have it in for me. There are people out there, who just have it in for you and try to frame you or set you up for things you did not do or do not remember doing.


Most cops, and judges don't have it in for you. Most of them don't even know you, and only make your acquaintance when you break the law or cause some type of disruption, and in that event, they usually perform their job, which is to enforce the law.

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"It was not me, Aspergers made me do it." (Aspies could easily slip up under pressure from police).
People with Aspergers usually have no control over their thoughts and actions. They simply react to situations and never think of the consequences. people with Aspergers have the immature undeveloped brain of a child.


That's not true at all. In fact many of us were considered to be quite mature as children, and spend a significant amount of time thinking through situations and planning how to navigate them.

Perhaps you are confusing AS with fetal alcohol syndrome.

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You are better off not commenting(silence) or simply denying the accusation against you. I did not do it. You have no proof/evidence of those alleged accusations against me.

People with Aspergers can easily be set up as the fall guy and framed by people who take advantage of them due to the Aspie's naive personality similar to that of a child. Aspies too trusting nature can be their downfall.


Sometimes people with AS can be very trusting and naive, sometimes they aren't. It depends on the individual and the circumstances.



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18 May 2011, 3:50 am

Mummy_of_Peanut wrote:
Doesn't sound like typical Aspergers to me. More like sociopath.


That's what Dark Lord 2008 is probably is. Check some of his posts. His obviously a troll and has admitted to being banned from several websites.



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18 May 2011, 3:57 am

A person with Aspergers living in a world dominated by people who do not have Aspergers. Life is very frustrating for the minority group of Aspergers. Aspergers get along better with other people with Aspergers who will not judge, criticise, threaten, bully, intimidate or harass them.

Some people with Aspergers continue to have nightmares and flash backs to the trauma of their childhood and work place traumas where cowardly bullies threatened and intimidated the poor victim with Aspergers. If only the person with Aspergers stood up to the non-Aspergers bullies and they would of paid him/her more respect.

Some people with Aspergers go through life being the victim and the world is usually against them. Aspergers need to get mad, get angry and get even with their bullies by turning the tables around. It feels much better being the aggressor and the bully than being the victim.



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18 May 2011, 4:01 am

Dark_Lord_2008 wrote:
A person with Aspergers living in a world dominated by people who do not have Aspergers. Life is very frustrating for the minority group of Aspergers. Aspergers get along better with other people with Aspergers who will not judge, criticise, threaten, bully, intimidate or harass them.

Some people with Aspergers continue to have nightmares and flash backs to the trauma of their childhood and work place incidence where cowardly bullies threatened and intimidated. if only the person with Aspergers stood up to the non-Aspergers bullies and they would of paid me more respect.

Some people with Aspergers go through life being the victim and the world is usually against them.


Are you describing yourself? trying to troll? or what exactly......I'm to much of a social failure to tell.