 
Support Wrong Planet Awareness!
| View previous topic :: View next topic |
| Author |
Message |
RTSgamerFTW
4th Espada
Joined: Sep 28, 2006
Posts: 4793
|
 Posted: Fri Jan 12, 2007 4:38 pm Post subject: |
 |
|
| KBABZ wrote: | | ignoring never works |
I couldn't agree with you more,oh wait yes i could i agree with you INFINITY TIMES over,KBABZ.
I GET ANOTHER AWARD!!!!!
_________________
My sig pwns. |
|
| Back to top |
|
Anubis
Your thoughts are mine...
Joined: Sep 07, 2006
Age: 18
Posts: 13400
Location: The Kremlin
|
| Posted: Fri Jan 12, 2007 5:15 pm Post subject: |
|
|
I used to counter insult bullies, but that very often backfired. I take things too literally. Now the best policy, I think is just laughing it off dubiously if it's an insult. I have not been bullied at sixth form, so I have had no chance to experiment with such. However, the new wave of bullying in high schools is disturbing. More failures than ever, abusing technology, and being warped into pieces of worthless trollop. The bullies of today are even more disturbing than the bullies I faced up until the middle of 2006. They made me feel horrible, and tested my sanity and integrity. I would love revenge, and to put the new generation of bullies in place. I've escaped the misfortune of happy slapping, but still my own and the next generation send a shiver down my spine in so many ways.
In my 9 year old sister's class, someone said that Jade Goody was their role model. It sickens me to think what is going on in some kids' minds..
Oh dear, I've gone off topic.
Still, most of my old enemies are not enjoying their new careers, such as criminals and sewer cleaners. Being confident in their impending failure helped me to survive high school. I couldn't win the battles, but by living and being unhindered by them in the long term, and seeing the results of their idiocy and ignorance, I have won the war.
The ideal response varies with the bully and their motivation. Appearing weak and vulnerable is a magnet for bullying as well. A heavy bag is useful armour and weaponry.
_________________
KNOWLEDGE IS POWER |
|
| Back to top |
|
KBABZ
Third Technician, Chicken Soup Machine Repairman
Joined: Sep 21, 2006
Age: 18
Posts: 6474
Location: Middle Earth. Er, I mean Wellywood. Wait, Wellington.
|
| Posted: Fri Jan 12, 2007 5:24 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| Anubis wrote: | ...most of my old enemies are not enjoying their new careers, such as criminals and sewer cleaners. Being confident in their impending failure helped me to survive high school. I couldn't win the battles, but by living and being unhindered by them in the long term, and seeing the results of their idiocy and ignorance, I have won the war.
The ideal response varies with the bully and their motivation. Appearing weak and vulnerable is a magnet for bullying as well. A heavy bag is useful armour and weaponry. |
Yeah, the war was won, and no body count for the victor!! Heheh, thinking on this, if bullying is stopped, who'll clean the sewers?! 
Yeah, innocent is a magnet, however, by victim I guess I meant minding your own buisness. Knowing us, we're pretty good at that!
*award to Unknown for spelling my username right!!*
_________________
I was sad when I found that she left
But then I found
That I could speak to her,
In a way
And sadness turned to comfort
We all go there |
|
| Back to top |
|
Taruby
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: Dec 05, 2005
Posts: 56
|
| Posted: Fri Jan 12, 2007 9:56 pm Post subject: |
|
|
I'll split this up in two ways:
Destructive Behaviour and Nondestructive Behaviour
And between these:
1)Flaming
2)Trolling
Destructive Behaviour includes: shoving and poking, throwing things, slapping, choking, punching and kicking, beating, stabbings, pulling hair, scratching, biting and scraping. Anyone who does this deserves to be incarcerated and have their body organs harvested for scientific research (Same as those who react in such a manner as well).
Nondestructive Behaviour: name calling, the silent treatment, arguing others into submission, manipulation, gossip/ false gossip, lies, rumours/ false rumours, staring, giggling, laughing at the victim , saying certain words that trigger a reaction from a past event, and mocking. Ehh, this kind of stuff does bother me to some degree, but it seems I'm guilty of doing this myself and I think people who react violently need to be incarcerated and have their bodily organs harvested for scientific research.
1) Basically behaviour that is meant to upset the target at whatever the cost.
2) Basically behaviour to derive enjoyment from the stupidity of the target.
Anyway, I do not really know what to do against physical violence as my mind sort of blanks during such moments. Luckily my evasive behaviour has allowed me not to experience much for physical violence...
As for nondestructive behaviour, it really depends on the intentions. If someone is trying to call me a name to upset me, the most important thing for me to do is not become upset or it'll satisfy their sick minds.
Now if someone wants to argue with me, I usually just cease participation; although, in the cases that I do participate, I will argue the other person into submission which is probably not a good thing considering that arguing with people increases the likelihood of them harming me.
I do engage in this nondestructive behaviour probably because I see social interaction as some weird list of rules and I feel some sort of need to question the reason why I'm supposed to behave in order not to offend someone. Well, hopefully humans will evolve past the point where people aren't petty enough to be offended by trivial/insignificant comments on something as silly as an emotional attachment, but I doubt that'll happen anytime soon. =(
Summary: I'm evasive and passive aggressive. My behaviour is a hazard to my health if I were to meet any violent individuals with no logic, reason and temperament. |
|
| Back to top |
|
|
|
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum
|
|
|
