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CozPoz2802
Snowy Owl
Joined: Mar 09, 2011
Age: 18
Posts: 149
Location: Leeds, West Yorkshire, England, UK, Europe, Earth
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 Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 5:59 am Post subject: What happens to you when your schedules are changed? |
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What happens when your schedules are messed up? Just wanna know what other people do.
Personally I get depressed for the rest of the day. Can't concentrate at school, and don't see the point, barely work, don't talk to many people unless I have to. Get annoyed easily at other things, cry later, sometimes. People tell me I'm overreacting when I tell them what's wrong, but personally I don't see it that way, my behaviour seems perfectly logical to me.
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incorrigible
Raven
Joined: Sep 24, 2011
Age: 34
Posts: 103
Location: USA
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| Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 7:33 am Post subject: |
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I'm having a really tough time with this lately. Dh took a new job with a really chaotic schedule. When he took the job they said he'd have a set schedule. It would either be swing or day shift Tues-Sat. Once he finished training, they gave him his "set schedule" and it was a different shift every day...but it would stay the same from week to week. So, Wed he works 11-7, Thur he works graveyard, etc. That stayed steady for 2 weeks...just long enough for me to adjust to it. Then one night he came home and said he'd have a different schedule for the next couple weeks and handed it to me...then for the next 4 days, he would come home and say tomorrow's schedule is different. A couple times he's come home and didn't even know if he'd be working the next day and had to call in the middle of the time he's supposed to sleep to find out if he would be working in a few hours. We're 3 weeks into the "just for a week or two" crazy schedule and there's no end in sight.
He's NT and this is hard enough on him, but it's driving me totally mad. I'm like constantly on overwhelm. I keep melting down. It's like the rug keeps getting pulled out from under me!
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Jokerang
Butterfly
Joined: Oct 06, 2011
Posts: 9
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| Posted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 4:05 pm Post subject: |
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| I try adjusting as best i can. It'll be hard to get it changed anyways. |
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Sath96347
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: Oct 27, 2011
Age: 18
Posts: 53
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| Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2011 11:03 pm Post subject: |
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| I don't have the same schedule every day, but I plan every day, if that makes any sense. If I have to deviate from my plan, it puts me in a bad mood. Sometimes, it's just mild anxiety for a few minutes. Sometimes, it's these day long panic attacks. I'm not the kind of person to react to anxiety by being depressed. Instead, I get ridiculously mad. So I usually wind up snapping at anyone who comes near me. I do my best to work on it, and it's not an issue at school. It's an issue with my dad, because he plans nothing and springs things on me all the time. I've been trying to get better with adjusting, and I can usually keep from getting to crazy levels of anxiety, but it still throws me off. |
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MakaylaTheAspie
Zodai's girl
Joined: Jun 22, 2011
Age: 16
Posts: 12753
Location: Aus den USA
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| Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2011 11:20 pm Post subject: |
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Who dares to mess with my schedule?! 
Yeah, I don't handle it well. 
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bcousins
Phoenix
Joined: May 02, 2011
Posts: 620
Location: On a failed Tangara set at Blacktown
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| Posted: Fri Oct 28, 2011 2:49 am Post subject: |
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| MakaylaTheAspie wrote: | Who dares to mess with my schedule?!
Yeah, I don't handle it well. |
That'd be me....
nah, I dont like my schedule being changed. My schedule is solid.
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AspergianMan
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Joined: Oct 21, 2011
Age: 20
Posts: 14
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| Posted: Fri Oct 28, 2011 6:43 pm Post subject: |
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| My life has no organization whatsoever with the exceptions of college, It's like the only aspie trait I do want and simply don't have. :/ |
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theaspiemusician
Deinonychus
Joined: Dec 15, 2011
Age: 15
Posts: 384
Location: The Cosmos
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| Posted: Mon Jan 30, 2012 10:08 pm Post subject: |
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I don't have an actual schedule, but I freak out when something's different. I just don't let it show that it bothers me but you could probably tell if you read my facial expression carefully.
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SanityTheorist
Wandering Artist
Joined: Feb 14, 2012
Posts: 2095
Location: The Akuma Afterglow
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| Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2012 2:22 pm Post subject: |
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Personally I escape from the situation and focus on my special interest, music.
Usually, if I chose to do it, I can work around it, but in general I need at least 3 things consistent in my daily life to feel comfortable. Frankly having this little makes me somewhat anxious, so I am considering adding more, society be damned.
Other times I focus my emotions into an art form such as writing, composing or drawing.
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NeXus_Blueliner
Toucan
Joined: Dec 02, 2011
Age: 25
Posts: 291
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| Posted: Sat Feb 25, 2012 1:56 am Post subject: |
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I distance myself and pretty much cry/act out. I end up staying in my room for the day or longer and can go without eating dinner and things. Since knowing my best friend the thing that can help a bit with it all is just emailing her with -hug- About a year and a half ago she told me if ever something was bothering me, whatever it was then I could spam her on msn with hugs even if she was offline. She's my safe place and I'm not all sure why but I'm glad she is. Problem with that is, she can be the one that changes things so then I'm back to being distant/upset/angry/depressed because it feels hard to wanna hug her.
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Sparx
Thingamajig
Joined: Oct 24, 2011
Age: 21
Posts: 2185
Location: N. Sanity Island
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ambroseboy
Butterfly
Joined: May 15, 2011
Posts: 15
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| Posted: Sun Feb 26, 2012 7:46 pm Post subject: |
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| When I was younger, burst into tears. Now I get anxious and upset but I contain it. People think i'm weird but I like routine and schedule |
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StarTrekker
Velociraptor
Joined: Apr 23, 2012
Age: 20
Posts: 490
Location: Starship Voyager, somewhere in the Delta quadrant
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| Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 5:06 am Post subject: |
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I generally get very anxious when my schedules are changed unexpectedly. Often if I'm going to go somewhere, I make a plan of it ahead of time, and if for some reason that plan has to change, I get afraid, and feel like there's a heavy black cloud hanging over my head, which usually makes me very frustrated and I snap at people. Generally the feeling lasts until the deadline for whatever I was going to do that got changed has passed, then I'm able to move on, reset the date, and try again. This reaction is very frustrating to me because it interferes with daily life, and the physical feeling of anxiety is extremely unpleasant.
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edgewaters
hibernating
Joined: Aug 17, 2006
Age: 40
Posts: 2426
Location: Ontario
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Looks something like this
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CaliforniaSh33p
Blue Jay
Joined: May 31, 2012
Age: 14
Posts: 75
Location: (Near) Old York, Old England.
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| Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 6:38 am Post subject: |
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If its been replaced with a social occasion e.g a party. I'll dread it and get overcome with anxiety! If it hasn't and say my dads not home until late. I'm generally fine. =)
with a pinch of anxiety though!!! |
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