Joined: Jun 20, 2008 Age: 25 Posts: 12113 Location: La belle province
Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2011 11:57 pm Post subject:
curlyfry wrote:
Vigilans advice was good but don't try to be witty if it's not your nature. Ask your questions but let her question you too, otherwise it seems like a one sided conversation.
Yeah this is true. Don't try and be something you aren't. If you can't make a joke, or say something witty, see what she is currently up to and ask her about it, or make a comment in regards to it. If she does ask you questions answer them but try and turn them around to be about her. You're interested in *her*, *you* approached her, so ideally you want to learn about her to see if she is friendship material, and maybe more. Simultaneously also showing her that you are interested in her as a person, and eventually as a woman. What anna-banana said is also really good advice, you just want to come off as a friendly guy who likes meeting new people. Women can usually tell if you're trying to play them with your "game". _________________ Opportunities multiply as they are seized. -Sun Tzu
Nature creates few men brave, industry and training makes many -Machiavelli
You can safely assume that you've created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do
Okay, I'm not sure whether you were using real people for the voices, but the tone of her voice when she said, "I have to go now" indicated that the conversation was over and that nothing further could persuade her otherwise. Asking her for her number at that point is a mistake.
Joined: Feb 18, 2011 Age: 23 Posts: 2971 Location: Kent, England
Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2011 8:53 am Post subject: Re: How I try to court women
BrandonSP wrote:
Made this in Xtranormal; the blond-haired guy is me:
What is my character doing wrong in this sequence?
You're already approaching which shows you stand out from the crowd and you've got the confidence to approach a girl. I think the biggest problem right now is that you're analyzing it far too much, you're worrying about your approach and because of it, you're not able to express certain traits of your personality.
Don't approach girls and talk to them like you're interviewing them, women don't want to talk to someone who reminds them of knitting or maths class. They want to talk to someone who is an exciting and interesting character, if you can connect to a certain side of them, you are more likely stand out to them.
Joined: Oct 16, 2008 Age: 31 Posts: 1019 Location: between bannings.
Posted: Mon Nov 28, 2011 12:54 am Post subject:
Like the idea of hanging out at a sports track dressed up in a suit. Look like you're some big shot sports agent or something. You gotta work on body language though, you musta been high as hell cause your eyes are like super dilated and it looks like you blinked only once the entire time. Also, try a little more hand and arm movements.
And also, stay away from chicks wearing sunglasses indoors, huge sign of a vain chick with too much baggage involved in how they perceive themselves. _________________ “It's a sad thing not to have friends, but it is even sadder not to have enemies.” - El Che
Joined: May 16, 2011 Posts: 4879 Location: Beneath my cat's paw
Posted: Tue Nov 29, 2011 10:23 am Post subject:
I'd honestly be suspicious of someone's motivations for talking to me if he referenced my looks within the first few HOURS of a long conversation, let alone in under a minute when we know next to nothing about one another. _________________ "Such is the Frailty
of the human Heart, that very few Men, who have no Property, have any Judgment of their own.
They talk and vote as they are directed by Some Man of Property, who has attached their Minds
to his Interest."
