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Butterfly
Joined: Jul 29, 2011
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It's strange. I'm pretty sure that before I hit puberty, I was attracted to my own female cousin who is very beautiful. She got married last year, and most of that 'crush' feeling has gone, but I'm perfectly okay with that though. I only realised that strong attraction many years later was 'unnatural', that is, considering she was my own cousin and the same gender as me.
I've been attracted to more males than females after hitting puberty, but somehow the idea of getting into a relationship with a male kind of scares me. Especially the touchy-freely part that many males tend to exhibit... really irks me. I'm quite sensitive to touch; even hugs, handshakes etcs are very awkward and feels very wrong for me.
I'm still attracted to males though, especially anime guys, which I know sounds sad. Oh well.
I admit that I prefer girls who look like boys but have the sensitivity of a girl, or those girly girly ones who are very feminine but not whiny and preppy. Lol, basically both extreme ends of the 'spectrum', if you get my drift.
On a side note, right now I'm quite fond of GL, but don't like BL / yaoi. I don't have anything against homosexuality though, just a personal preference.
tl;dr, I'm bi-curious, maybe, and definitely confused. Haven't dated anyone before, and not going to do it anytime soon. *shrug* Education is my main priority now. And seeing as my social skills suck, I doubt I can have a decent conversation with a stranger who might be interested in me, or vice versa. |
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ShenLong
The Dilophosaur Biologist
Joined: Aug 14, 2009
Age: 20
Posts: 2266
Location: Smuggling cranberries to cranberry impoverished nations
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| ShenLong wrote: | | Well, I can't believe I'm actually going to say this, but I'm bicurious. This is actually the very first time I've ever said this and I do mean ever. I sort of have a sexual attraction to both genders, but it's not significant enough that I'd like to personally sleep with a male. I'd much, much, much prefer females. Also, I don't plan on seeking male companions as I'm not romantically attracted to males. It's a bit hard to explain. If we were to use a scale, I'd be 90-95% straight and about 10-5% gay. My parents don't know about it because I find it a bit harder to explain rather than saying bisexual or gay, but they're wicked liberal so I'm not afraid of their reaction. I get stressed when I'm at an odds to explain something in great detail. |
Funny, it's been half a year and now I am full on bi, but I have a preference for women. However, I am kind of on the verge of initiating a relationship with another guy. I'm just a little uncertain about it. He's been asking me out, but I'm not sure if we'd connect much on a very personal level beyond our hobbies and interests. Funny how things change so quickly. I realize that I have been bi all along and that I've been repressing it since middle school. I used to get guy crushes and it would scare me. Now, I embrace guy crushes.
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VMSmith
a figment of my own imagination
Joined: Apr 18, 2011
Age: 21
Posts: 2674
Location: the old country
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| Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2011 7:38 am Post subject: |
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im bi and no longer confused. (i dont remember if i posted here)
good for you shenlong. its good to know and be sure of oneself. |
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TheNanny
Emu Egg
Joined: Dec 08, 2011
Posts: 3
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I am bisexual and not confused, but I was for the longest time.
I always knew I wasn't straight, but I knew I wasn't a lesbian either. I had no idea what I was until I was in high school and met other bisexuals. I was still scared to tell anybody until I met a girl I really liked and knew I had to tell my family at least. My family thankfully took it well, I had an older sister who came out as a lesbian a few years before which made it easy for me. My friends did not take it well, especially my best friend whose church believes it is the wrongest of wrong. A lot of people tend to think that 'bisexual' means dating two different genders at once but I find that is not the case. I am attracted to both sexes but mostly females. I would never date more then one person at a time. Dating one person can be hard enough at times. |
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Angel_ryan
Phoenix
Joined: Jun 20, 2010
Age: 24
Posts: 745
Location: Ontario Canada
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I'm definitely Bi and not confused.
My friends know me as a Female Captain Jack Harkness. Best compliment I ever got in all my life.
Makes it difficult to have relationships though. I actually gave up on having real relationships because of my AS. I don't want kids, I like both.
I'm also terrified of getting super close to someone so I'd rather be promiscuous instead. Sometimes I feel very guyish even though I identify as female.
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Joshp406
Tufted Titmouse
Joined: Jun 18, 2011
Age: 16
Posts: 38
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| Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 10:18 pm Post subject: |
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| I myself am bi, and, at the moment, no longer confused (Jesus christ, what an awful time that was -.-) |
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recycledwit
Tufted Titmouse
Joined: Jan 05, 2012
Age: 25
Posts: 28
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| Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2012 12:27 pm Post subject: |
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I'm bi and not confused.
As I matured, I've grown to lean more towards women, but since I'm married to a man that means little. |
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GodheadsLament1
Butterfly
Joined: Jan 19, 2012
Age: 19
Posts: 12
Location: United States
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| Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 12:59 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm bi and not confused. I've come to accept it quite a while ago. |
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Crazygirl79
Blue Jay
Joined: Feb 03, 2012
Age: 33
Posts: 78
Location: Australia
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| Posted: Fri Feb 03, 2012 4:08 am Post subject: LOL |
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I'm bisexual and not confused, came out to myself at 14 and told Mum at 19.
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davidalan11235813
Snowy Owl
Joined: Aug 02, 2011
Age: 23
Posts: 147
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I don't know if bisexual is the best word to describe me, but it fits in a rough sort of sense. I just don't really like labels in general. Plus, it seems like most people who identify as bisexual prefer one gender or the other, or are at least split evenly. I tried to pin down whether I preferred guys or girls for the longest time until I realized that attraction for me is on a completely case by by case basis. I don't care whether it's a man, a woman, or anything in between, if a person is attractive to me, that's all there is to it. I guess if I had to pick a label, pansexual would be the best fit.
| Angel_ryan wrote: | I'm definitely Bi and not confused.
My friends know me as a Female Captain Jack Harkness. Best compliment I ever got in all my life.
Makes it difficult to have relationships though. I actually gave up on having real relationships because of my AS. I don't want kids, I like both.
I'm also terrified of getting super close to someone so I'd rather be promiscuous instead. Sometimes I feel very guyish even though I identify as female.
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 Brilliant picture. Jack Harkness ftw
The idea of a proper relationship is appealing to me, but in reality there are too many compromises, and it drives me up a wall. And even on the off-chance that I do find the "perfect" match for me, I'm worried that I'll get bored. Maybe when I'm older I'll give more thought to it, but for the time being, I'm perfectly content to just sleep around, and maybe have the occasional person I f*ck more than once (for lack of a better term).
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pippilngstkngpr
Sea Gull
Joined: Jul 08, 2009
Posts: 249
Location: New Jersey
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| Posted: Mon Feb 27, 2012 10:23 pm Post subject: |
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I always knew I liked the same sex, but I based my attraction towards them from others words. Also, I didn't want to say I like anyone without being with a female first. I guess for a little while I was confused but deep down inside I knew I liked females. So I am definitely bisexual and not confused.  |
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