CockneyRebel
Mick Avory, Sensitive brown-eyed Sweet Pea
Joined: Jul 18, 2004
Age: 38
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Location: In a quiet and peaceful garden, where gentle Mick Avory-like Sweet Peas grow.
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I have a feeling that the employees at the cigar shop don't want me in there any more. The woman at the cashier asked, "How are you doing today, missy." I looked at her and told her I was doing fine. She gave me my change and my Fresca and said, "Have a good night, Mick." That woman picked up on my gender issues and called my by that name, for obvious reasons.
I've decided to take it as a compliment.
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nick007
old-skewl fan-boy
Joined: May 05, 2010
Age: 30
Posts: 9737
Location: was Louisiana but moved in with my girlfreind in Vermont
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Chatting with a girl(aka emotional support leech) on Yahoo who keeps going on & on about how no guys will ever date her & she's soo lonely. But when I tell her that I would date her; she says she doesn't like me in that way. What the hell happened to her being soo lonely & wanting a guy? I guess beggars really can be choosers; no wait; I think it's that she would rather b!tch about how she cant get a guy than actually have a guy. Conversation is almost always all about how her how lonely she is; I mention being lonely & changes the focus. Some members here suggest that I try making more friends because it could possibly lead to more with the person or maybe they would know someone but even if that doesn't happen it is still good to have friends. I end up getting used as someones emotional crutch & it makes me feel worse knowing that I'm unattractive to women who are extremely desperately lonely. F#*k having friends; I'm better off without em
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Trigas
A bit crazy
Joined: Jul 14, 2011
Age: 20
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| nick007 wrote: | | Chatting with a girl(aka emotional support leech) on Yahoo who keeps going on & on about how no guys will ever date her & she's soo lonely. But when I tell her that I would date her; she says she doesn't like me in that way. What the hell happened to her being soo lonely & wanting a guy? I guess beggars really can be choosers; no wait; I think it's that she would rather b!tch about how she cant get a guy than actually have a guy. Conversation is almost always all about how her how lonely she is; I mention being lonely & changes the focus. Some members here suggest that I try making more friends because it could possibly lead to more with the person or maybe they would know someone but even if that doesn't happen it is still good to have friends. I end up getting used as someones emotional crutch & it makes me feel worse knowing that I'm unattractive to women who are extremely desperately lonely. F#*k having friends; I'm better off without em |
Those kind of people are not friend types sir. You've got to set a point to where people's behavior in conversation is unacceptable and you've got to be able to remove yourself from the situation. The best way to keep from getting used is to see the signs early on and end contact there.
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nick007
old-skewl fan-boy
Joined: May 05, 2010
Age: 30
Posts: 9737
Location: was Louisiana but moved in with my girlfreind in Vermont
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| Trigas wrote: | | nick007 wrote: | | Chatting with a girl(aka emotional support leech) on Yahoo who keeps going on & on about how no guys will ever date her & she's soo lonely. But when I tell her that I would date her; she says she doesn't like me in that way. What the hell happened to her being soo lonely & wanting a guy? I guess beggars really can be choosers; no wait; I think it's that she would rather b!tch about how she cant get a guy than actually have a guy. Conversation is almost always all about how her how lonely she is; I mention being lonely & changes the focus. Some members here suggest that I try making more friends because it could possibly lead to more with the person or maybe they would know someone but even if that doesn't happen it is still good to have friends. I end up getting used as someones emotional crutch & it makes me feel worse knowing that I'm unattractive to women who are extremely desperately lonely. F#*k having friends; I'm better off without em |
Those are friend types sir. You've got to set a point to where people's behavior in conversation is unacceptable and you've got to be able to remove yourself from the situation. The best way to keep from getting used is to see the signs early on and end contact there. |
Your rite & I did. I told that I'm lonely too & I'm tired of hearing her go on & on bout how lonely she is when she's obviously is not really that lonely sense she's unwilling to give me a chance. She then said something about me only pretending to be her friend cuz I was hoping she'd date me. I got ticked-off & said she was only wanting someone to b!tch at. I changed my Yahoo status to invisible rite after. I won't message her again unless she sends me one apologizing
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Trigas
A bit crazy
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Age: 20
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| nick007 wrote: | | Trigas wrote: | | nick007 wrote: | | Chatting with a girl(aka emotional support leech) on Yahoo who keeps going on & on about how no guys will ever date her & she's soo lonely. But when I tell her that I would date her; she says she doesn't like me in that way. What the hell happened to her being soo lonely & wanting a guy? I guess beggars really can be choosers; no wait; I think it's that she would rather b!tch about how she cant get a guy than actually have a guy. Conversation is almost always all about how her how lonely she is; I mention being lonely & changes the focus. Some members here suggest that I try making more friends because it could possibly lead to more with the person or maybe they would know someone but even if that doesn't happen it is still good to have friends. I end up getting used as someones emotional crutch & it makes me feel worse knowing that I'm unattractive to women who are extremely desperately lonely. F#*k having friends; I'm better off without em |
Those are friend types sir. You've got to set a point to where people's behavior in conversation is unacceptable and you've got to be able to remove yourself from the situation. The best way to keep from getting used is to see the signs early on and end contact there. |
Your rite & I did. I told that I'm lonely too & I'm tired of hearing her go on & on bout how lonely she is when she's obviously is not really that lonely sense she's unwilling to give me a chance. She then said something about me only pretending to be her friend cuz I was hoping she'd date me. I got ticked-off & said she was only wanting someone to b!tch at. I changed my Yahoo status to invisible rite after. I won't message her again unless she sends me one apologizing |
Good, you are making progress out of all of the interactions then.  Even if they have bits of roughness in them.
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nick007
old-skewl fan-boy
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Location: was Louisiana but moved in with my girlfreind in Vermont
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| Trigas wrote: | | nick007 wrote: | | Trigas wrote: | | nick007 wrote: | | Chatting with a girl(aka emotional support leech) on Yahoo who keeps going on & on about how no guys will ever date her & she's soo lonely. But when I tell her that I would date her; she says she doesn't like me in that way. What the hell happened to her being soo lonely & wanting a guy? I guess beggars really can be choosers; no wait; I think it's that she would rather b!tch about how she cant get a guy than actually have a guy. Conversation is almost always all about how her how lonely she is; I mention being lonely & changes the focus. Some members here suggest that I try making more friends because it could possibly lead to more with the person or maybe they would know someone but even if that doesn't happen it is still good to have friends. I end up getting used as someones emotional crutch & it makes me feel worse knowing that I'm unattractive to women who are extremely desperately lonely. F#*k having friends; I'm better off without em |
Those are friend types sir. You've got to set a point to where people's behavior in conversation is unacceptable and you've got to be able to remove yourself from the situation. The best way to keep from getting used is to see the signs early on and end contact there. |
Your rite & I did. I told that I'm lonely too & I'm tired of hearing her go on & on bout how lonely she is when she's obviously is not really that lonely sense she's unwilling to give me a chance. She then said something about me only pretending to be her friend cuz I was hoping she'd date me. I got ticked-off & said she was only wanting someone to b!tch at. I changed my Yahoo status to invisible rite after. I won't message her again unless she sends me one apologizing |
Good, you are making progress out of all of the interactions then. Even if they have bits of roughness in them. |
I feel guilty thou because I know I've complained/b!tched a lot about things before as well. However I really do try to work on solving my problems instead of just complain about them & i try to be a good friend which is more than some other so-called friends
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hyperlexian
loves the man who typed too much and ran outta spa
Joined: Jul 22, 2010
Age: 41
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Location: with bucephalus
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^^^ i don't think being a friend to someone and helping them with their problems equals being used. that's the definition of friendship is she is willing to be there for you too.
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Trigas
A bit crazy
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Age: 20
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Words don't seem to be doing me any good right now. 
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1000Knives
It's not difficult if you know how.
Joined: Jul 09, 2011
Age: 22
Posts: 4587
Location: CT, USA
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I gave one of my neighbors I knew somewhat (he wanted to buy a car from me, but never came through) a ride downtown, and as soon as he gets in the car, he's like "YO IM GONNA GET SOME WEED." Great, I'm now an accessory to someone getting drugs. I told him I wouldn't give him any rides for weed in the future, and that I wouldn't give him a ride back, but I f***ing hated it. I mean, the dude was a big black guy, I don't know who he has for friends, etc, so at the time I guess I figured just give him the ride. I hated being put in that position.
I hate my neighborhood, I hate that my mom moved us into "the hood" into a house that costs much much more than it should in said hood. I hate hate hate hate it. I wish I had my old apartment complex back, living there was like living at a resort compared to my house now. I hate "the hood." A lot. Why do people glamorize "the hood" so much. It just sucks.
Editted cuz my post was long and excessively hateful.
But really, I hate where I live. I hate "the hood" culture. I wanna move to Vermont.
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kazzabeth
Hummingbird
Joined: Jan 29, 2012
Posts: 21
Location: Brisbane,Qld
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Bus home was over 10 minutes late,got caught in a storm and was soaking wet.  |
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hanyo
Phoenix
Joined: Oct 01, 2011
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When I was looking at apartments we were waiting in front of one on the steps before we saw it and a guy from next door asked my mother if she "had any bud". We didn't move in there. Not just because of him but he was an additional reason not to move in there.
I'd rather live in a tiny apartment in a nice area than a large one in the ghetto. These days at least in the city I live in rents are expensive everywhere even in the ghetto so living there won't save you any money.
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AliTatt
Raven
Joined: Jan 30, 2012
Posts: 124
Location: Ontario Canada
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The realization that I'm putting all my family, friends, and my boyfriends family and friends through so much stress and worry, on top of my own, with my visa application and the stressing over that xD
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VMSmith
a figment of my own imagination
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Age: 21
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Location: the old country
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i feel nautious. why? because i ate a whole packet of wagon wheels. why? because i was feeling stressed,scared, sad and gutted. why again? because i called centrelink to change my postal address and they said i had to hand in 3 sets of papers when i applied for "unreasonable to live at home", not 2, and they are to be from me and a 3rd party and my parents. this means in order to get welfare to be able to leave home to get away from my family and a disagreeable home situation i will have to tell my parents why they should want to kick me out and cut me off from my family, including my little sisters and possibly cousins if word gets out to my extended family who will all reject me and then get them to cooperate with me when writting up my claim which would mean i am homeless, cut off from my family and it is not absolutely guaranteed that i will get welfare(which is below the poverty line) to live on. this is sick. totally messed up. this almost completely destroys any hope i had of moving out. i think thats the worst bit of all. i was starting to have happy fantasies.
Alitatt: i hope your visa application goes well so you and you friends and family can chill. |
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MakaylaTheAspie
Zodai's girl
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Age: 16
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Location: Aus den USA
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Darn you, AP Biology!
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nick007
old-skewl fan-boy
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Location: was Louisiana but moved in with my girlfreind in Vermont
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| hyperlexian wrote: | | ^^^ i don't think being a friend to someone and helping them with their problems equals being used. that's the definition of friendship is she is willing to be there for you too. |
Your absolutely rite.
What made me unhappy today is having my mom fussing at me. I was going to buy some cookies last week but my mom told me not to because she had some that needed to go. She told me there were more when she pulled the container of them out. I finished that container off yesterday & when I asked her where the others were a little while ago; she starting fussing at me for eating them. I do not know why the hell she told me I could have them & that she had plenty that needed to go if she really did not want me to eat them. I HATE how NTs tell me the opposite of what they really mean & then get p!ssed at me over it
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