Crashnomad
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 Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2011 10:50 pm Post subject: My mom yelling at me for asburger stuff. |
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Do your mom yell at you for no reason? my mom yells at me because I wont look at her when she is talking to me OR WHEN SHES YELLING AT ME  !!!!!!!!  |
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LittleTigger
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| Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2011 11:07 pm Post subject: |
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I wonder if this is what caused my
blackouts where I wood wake up with
parents have scratches on their arms
and bites on their hands, and they said
I did it. I don't remember doing that.
They just told me they yelled at me and
I got an evil blank look on my face and
when they tride to smack me I bit into
their hands and scratched their arms
and faces, I don't remember doing that.
This was when I was 5.
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MakaylaTheAspie
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| Posted: Mon Sep 26, 2011 12:27 am Post subject: |
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She might be one of two things;
1. She might be trying to work social skills into your memory (in the worst way possible I may add).
2. She either doesn't understand you, or hasn't studied anything aspergers related.
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Fnord
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| Posted: Mon Sep 26, 2011 12:48 am Post subject: |
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FYI: It's called "ASPERGER's SYNDROME", not "Asburger".
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cathylynn
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| Posted: Mon Sep 26, 2011 1:19 am Post subject: |
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| i see you just had a birthday. i hope it was happy and that you have many more. |
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Crashnomad
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| Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2011 10:12 pm Post subject: |
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Graci cathylynn it was me and my family went out for hibachi and they had mahi mahi(Witch is my fav fish to eat). And sorry i misspelled ASPERGER's SYNDROME  . so what i forgot to say was my mom has ASPERGER's SYNDROME. And little tiger I had the same kind of thing when i was 3 my mom had to pin me down and just let me freak out when i got like that. |
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Crashnomad
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| Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2011 10:26 pm Post subject: |
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| its because she has meltdowns. we have a great relationship but i will just screw up some times and her meltdown will start and i will have a meltdown and we just trigger each other. |
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LittleTigger
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| Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 5:50 am Post subject: |
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Did u ever get so violent u scared her?
This happend when I got bigger.
Mom learnt that this isn't a wise thing
to cause me to do.
Grandpa had a much more effective
discipline.
Calmly he told me I would be chopping
wood, and told me how many logs,
depends on how much I screwed up.
He stood with me, and watched me
chop every log until it was chopped in two,
then took a break, then continued chopping
until discipline was done.
I remembered the discipline punishment
of having to chop wood, I did not remember
being slapped or struck and biting and scratching
my parents in a blackout.
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Crashnomad
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| Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 6:15 pm Post subject: |
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Dude that SUCKS. And I do not know if I got so violent i scared her I also dont remember me freakin out at all now that i think about it but hey thats life i guess. if we were supposed to remember everything we would know the mysteries to life and the universe(42 by the way)  |
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Crashnomad
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| Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2011 3:25 pm Post subject: |
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I just wish I could not be an aspie. For like 24 hours  |
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Sath96347
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| Posted: Fri Oct 28, 2011 9:16 pm Post subject: |
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My dad doesn't believe in any social disorders, so he generally yells at me for anything related to it or even mentioning it.
It gets me pissed, because I've been diagnosed professionally on two separate occasions. My mom understands as best she can, and she's the one who takes care of all of this, but my dad has custody. I get in trouble for it a lot here. I just try to wait it out, my step mom doesn't help me out either. She and my dad share the belief that it's just an excuse to behave badly. They think that since they're normal, everyone is. |
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Basagu
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| Posted: Sat Oct 29, 2011 9:17 am Post subject: |
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| Sath96347 wrote: | My dad doesn't believe in any social disorders, so he generally yells at me for anything related to it or even mentioning it.
It gets me pissed, because I've been diagnosed professionally on two separate occasions. My mom understands as best she can, and she's the one who takes care of all of this, but my dad has custody. I get in trouble for it a lot here. I just try to wait it out, my step mom doesn't help me out either. She and my dad share the belief that it's just an excuse to behave badly. They think that since they're normal, everyone is. |
At first i was just like your dad. I tought it was just me being stupid and not trying hard enough. But after years of trying i KNEW it was more. (My mother told me i had McDD already) I can`t imagine how horrible it must be to have a dad/stepmother not believing you... You`ve tried to make them read about autsim?
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Sath96347
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| Yeah, I've tried. I was diagnosed at eight, and my dad immediately pulled me out of therapy and everything. Then I was diagnosed again over the summer. I'm sixteen, I'll be able to move out in two years. I'm high-functioning, so I don't really need them that much. At this point, I'm just waiting it out. It'll be fine, I'm pretty used to it. |
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Crashnomad
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| Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 2:21 pm Post subject: |
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| I know just how you feel. I had a abusive (sorry cant spell well on computer) dad and a step mom who just sat back and watched (not literally) he also left my mom and me and my little sis when I was 4 he is just a something word that belongs in the mature form. And I had a step brother who got abused as well. He knew me and my sister had ASPERGER's SYNDROME. |
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Crashnomad
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| Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 1:41 am Post subject: |
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| he was just a big somthing i cant say in this form !@#% i belive is how it is spelled |
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