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BuyerBeware
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Age: 35
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Location: PA, USA
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So I'm doing all the right stuff-- getting extra info so I won't go nuts worrying about The Baby-- and I get The Schtick again.
I get to have The Risperdal Argument with a f***ing OBSTETRICIAN, for Christ sake!
Because She Is A Medical Professional And I Am Just A Mommy.
She doesn't even know what she's talking about-- she thinks the f***ing stuff is a goddamn antidepressant!!!!
Dear Lady, I am sure you are an expert in your field. I have experts in mental health helping me deal with this. They know more about AS than I do, and I know more about AS than you do. You know more about looking at detailed pictures of unborn babies than I do, and I know more about it than they do.
You do your job, let them do their job, and I'll do my job, and we'll all work together like the parts of the body. The brain may need the oxygen, but you wouldn't ask the lungs to make decisions, would you????
MORON!!!!!!!!!
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I'm tired. I do not have sufficient strength remaining to persevere in the face of adversity. I accept myself as broken and conformity/compliance as the only acceptable existence. I give up.
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mv
Protector of the Realm
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When I was pregnant and on (definite) antidepressants, my psych said, "You'll need to consult with your obstetrician about what you should do." My OB/Gyn said, "You need to consult with your psychiatrist about what you should do."
Thanks, buck-passers! I ended up doing all my own research. |
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puddingmouse
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Age: 26
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Location: Mega City 3
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I keep having violent thoughts. I keep thinking about hurting myself.
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BuyerBeware
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Age: 35
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Location: PA, USA
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Those thoughts suck a lot. But please don't act on them. Please???
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I'm tired. I do not have sufficient strength remaining to persevere in the face of adversity. I accept myself as broken and conformity/compliance as the only acceptable existence. I give up.
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goodwitchy
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Joined: Dec 29, 2011
Posts: 785
Location: Interplanetary
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How did you ever spawn me?
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Aspie score: 161 of 200
Neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 38 of 200
Autistic/BAP -123 aloof, 124 rigid and 108 pragmatic
Autism Spectrum quotient: 41, Empathy Quotient: 19
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MXH
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Age: 22
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Location: Here i stand and face the rain
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| mv wrote: | When I was pregnant and on (definite) antidepressants, my psych said, "You'll need to consult with your obstetrician about what you should do." My OB/Gyn said, "You need to consult with your psychiatrist about what you should do."
Thanks, buck-passers! I ended up doing all my own research. |
Nobody wants the blame for something going wrong. Its a sad thing to have happen but dont blame the docs, blame the sue happy public. |
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mntn13
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Posts: 1006
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As usual doing errands and stuff out in public was mean and terrible and the NT-monsters attacked even though I was polite and quiet and nice.
gggggggaaaaaaauuuuuuuggggggghhhhhhhhhhh.
Thanks gods I could take some time in the afternoon to zone out. Or, in, as the case may be. |
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VMSmith
a figment of my own imagination
Joined: Apr 18, 2011
Age: 21
Posts: 2676
Location: the old country
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| coming out is hard. even if it is on the internet to people i dont really know. i feel kinda nervous, same as i felt when i came out to my cousin but i'm not having a panic attack right now so it isn't as bad. |
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myth
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Age: 27
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My second husband is starting to lash out at me (seemingly, according to my viewpoint) randomly in the same manner that my first husband did. The two most likely possibilities are: I gravitate toward the same type of person and they are just similar men OR I somehow drive them to it.
I like to bring up contrary points or facts because I like to look at all sides of a situation. This leads people to believe that I only focus on the negative and that I am a "downer" and pisses people off. For example, my husband this morning said to me that he wanted to get coffee at a place nearby on the way to work. This place is always very busy in the morning so I asked him if we had time for that. He got upset with me and asked my why I always try to counter his descisions, I said that I just try to make sure that he's considered all angles and he said "I've always taken everything into consideration already." and I said "You couldn't have, you're not perfect." and he said "Well I'm better than you!"
That seemed unessisarily harsh to me. I don't feel that I was insulting him at all, just trying to be helpful  but he apparently felt attacked and needed to defend himself. He is doing that a lot lately. Just like my ex husband. I don't understand why his attituded toward me has changed. I don't feel that I've changed, I've always been this way and I explained it to him right up front when we met and we have been married for over two years without many of these instances until recently.
Another example of this defensiveness is that he always thinks any question I ask him is loaded with judgement. For example, this morning I took the dogs for a walk and they got all muddy. This was more apparent with the white dog than the black one so I took the white one right to the bath and asked my husband to dry off the black dog. He said that the black dog is probably muddy too we just can't see it. I asked if there was mud coming off on the towel, he said yes, so I said ok I may have to rinse him off too. Once I was done with the white dog, I came out of the bathroom and saw the black dog running all over the house so I said to my husband "Is he clean enough to be allowed in the house?" and my husband yelled at me "YES!!" and I was like.. what? I was just asking  I .. didn't intend the question to be judgemental of him at all I was just checking to see if he was clean enough or if I needed to rinse him too. I can see how that could have been veiwed as a loaded question, but I didn't mean it that way and I rarely ever mean things that way but he always takes them that way lately
Last night I asked him what he was doing and he yelled at me to shut the f*ck up. I do tend to get frustrated with him when I'm trying to speak with him and he is doing something else so I can understand why he might have thought I was irritated when I asked what he was doing. I just don't understand why these questions that I ask him are inherintly wrong. I think he's reading too much into it and reacting too harshly I've always been straight forward with him and I don't deal in subtext. I don't know why he is suddenly reading so much subtext into what I say. If I was upset at him for doing something, I'd say "I wish you wouldn't do that right now, I'm trying to talk to you and it's upsetting me." If I wanted to insinuate that the dog was too dirty to be in the house I'd say "What did you let him in for?? I need to rinse him first!! He's too dirty!!" If I wanted to insinuate that we didn't have enough time to go to the coffee place I'd say "I don't think we have enough time for that this morning." but even so I'd usually still add "But I will go if you really want to." I don't use subtext because I'm frequently blind to it. Why is he trying to give me subtext why has it only started in the past couple of months?
My ex husband used to do the EXACT same thing and start hurling insults at me when I thought we were just having a regular conversation and I would always be very hurt. I rarely ever insulted him or used curse words first.. it was always just a calm (from my standpoint) conversation where he started speaking profanity to me. Why does what I do upset people so very much?
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Who_Am_I
almost human
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Age: 29
Posts: 10526
Location: My body is in Brisbane and my mind is in the gutter. :D
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WHY THE HELL DOES EVERY JOB NEED A DRIVER'S LICENCE?
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Music Theory 101: Cadences.
Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I !!!!
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I! I! I! I I I |
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Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
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Joined: Mar 12, 2012
Age: 2
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Location: You don't WANT to know
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I'm TIRED
MY FOOT HURRRRRRRRRRTS.
I am to be backpacking wednesday...?
I yelled at my parents.
I can't sprint.
I want to cry.
I'm fat.
I sound arrogant, urg--ers!!!!! (to my parents)
and I ate a ton to prepare for a hard sprint today
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blue_bean
Buy me a Pony!
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Age: 29
Posts: 8212
Location: sailing the accountancy
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| I'm a 28 year old flesh & blood woman who's sexual/physical prime is just around the corner. Why do I get to spend it wasting away? |
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aussiebloke
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Age: 37
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| Who_Am_I wrote: | | WHY THE HELL DOES EVERY JOB NEED A DRIVER'S LICENCE? |
Um how long have you been in this country?
I think it's time you read TBL: things bogans like you see in the feeble mind of the bogan 50% of the Aussie population it's not conceivable a person has the resourcefulness IQ even some one like YOU or the physical ability to use public transport. Far to dificult and unreliable!
In their mind a car never breaks down , gets stuck in traffic, or has an accident so of cause are 100% reliable for the potential employer . It's not helped when their conservative idols Thatcher (Maggie) confirms how pathetic no car owners are :
]Thatcher :If your over 30 and still on a bus you can consider yourself and abject failure.[*
Or Jeremy Clarkson of Top Gear fame who thinks (try telling an employer you will cycle to work  ) cyclists are smelly hippies who should have had tried harder in school ha ha the jokes on him cyclists on average are better educated and have greater wealth than non cyclists!
* I think the rich Genevois (geneva people ) may have a thing or 2 to say about that where nearly 50% of journeys are made by public transport perhaps she has more favorable views of tram users ?
Thats's one indicator of how bogan a counrty may or may not be in Switzerland in "cities' of 100,000 or so they have an extensive tram network or shock horror a metro underground (Lausanne) Sydney still 'considering" one with 5 million people and here I thought it was a "world class's city " , may be when it gets one 100 years+ to late , than and only than they may receive that honour.
TBL is great because it also confirmed one of my suspicions ,their colonising inner city areas !! (I thought I was an anomaly) when I moved to Kangaroo Point in the 90's it was a bogan free zone with quiet Granny's and Asian students,  than the bogans started to colonise the area with their barking dogs and their crappy dance music tilll 2 am in the morning. **
In the several years I spent their I never had ths problem in Switzerland though they do have splocks French (sp) ie boof heads (don't have a problem with this demographic.)
** I blame the block and it's equivalent shows you should see how they renovate (In my area) Queenslanders to not look like Queenslanders and increase it's size by 200%+ (they need that "media room" you see. another TBL
TBL is written my superior people ie uni educated people so it should be up your ally
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aussiebloke
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| blue_bean wrote: | | I'm a 28 year old flesh & blood woman who's sexual/physical prime is just around the corner. Why do I get to spend it wasting away? |
You can start by not bothering posting here ?
What is the point of being here at WP 
If you need sexing just start a "I need sexing " thread.
Their are plenty of clearskins (here) who would offer their services to you 
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blue_bean
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Location: sailing the accountancy
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I'll stop bothering to post if you stop bothering first.
*opens door* After you. |
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