baka-kun
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 Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2012 2:36 am Post subject: the what do you want conversation |
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| So im never quite sure when to have the conversation reguarding what both myself and the person im with want out of a relationship, so when is best? |
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danmac
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| Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2012 8:58 am Post subject: |
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don't beat around the bush(though maybe not your opening sentence) if you think it, say it. her reaction will tell you weather you should continue
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ZX_SpectrumDisorder
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| Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2012 10:58 am Post subject: |
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| I'd give it three months. |
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baka-kun
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| Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2012 8:16 pm Post subject: |
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| Usually i like to wait till a couple days after the first time we have sex |
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baka-kun
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| Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:18 am Post subject: |
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| Its the point things officially become serious |
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hyperlexian
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| Posted: Sat Mar 24, 2012 10:18 pm Post subject: |
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i don't think people feel it is universally the point that things become serious. some people decide on the relationship status BEFORE having sex, and others wait for quite a while after they start having sex. so i wondered why you chose that time.
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nick007
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| Posted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 12:43 pm Post subject: |
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Maybe you could do it gradually instead of having the full conversation like maybe you mention one things you'd like out of a relationship in a casual way when it's related to a conversation bout something else. See how she responds & take it from there. I know this doesn't sound very Aspie
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