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PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 5:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've just seen your video "5th March 2012 our response to distressing news that U tube remove vital 22 12 2011 MIND RETHINK". You and your Mum come across as intelligent, genuine and definitely NOT crazy. Don't listen to your detractors. All that paperwork you're being sent is nothing short of abuse, I would say to the extent of torture. What is that if not an emergency! I and my family have experienced almost exactly the same as what you describe, only I think you have researched and dealt with it better than I did.

I'd like to suggest raising a petition. You might have a better idea than me, but I think there is a website specialising in online petitions. You could then advertise it on WP and elsewhere and then send it to the local council or whoever you think is best placed to deal with it.
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 5:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You might not like my answer... sorry if it's a bit long and unwieldy.

As others have already said, the people who you accuse of being unlawful are the very people who are supposed to help you. No matter how unlawful you think they might have been, they hold the power, not you. People in power, unfortunately, don't take kindly to being exposed, sued or accused of anything.

You're deaf? You have a beautiful speaking voice and can express yourself extremely well. I had absolutely no trouble understanding what you were saying. You also write very well. Both are very much in your favour!

What I'm going to suggest is that you can achieve much more with honey than with vinegar, meaning that if you approach people to be your advocate in this situation, whether an organisation or another person, or you make a direct approach, it has to be calmly, kindly and ONLY with the goal of getting the services you need. It can't be about revenge or accusations. It has to be about you not understanding why you can't get what you think is your right.

If you are vomiting, and so clearly anxious (rightly or wrongly), and you're calling this an emergency, others may not see it this way. Clearly you are worried, but are you coming across as desperate or aggressive?

You clearly have a roof over your head. Do you have enough food? What exactly is the emergency? You might think it's an emergency, but others may not. See what I mean? I'm not being unkind, just looking at it from another perspective.

What's the goal? To sue them or bring charges against them and still not get what you need? Or is it more important to get the services you need?

I'm wondering if there's a reason you are not getting what you need. What are their reasons for refusing what you think is your right as a disabled person? I would want that in writing. So maybe write some very calm letters asking for an explanation of refusal of service.

Is there some kind of Ombudsman you can go to, or a mediator for the various departments? I would be calling or writing to them asking for the services you need. Not in an accusatory manner, just sound bewildered that you can't seem to get some help, and even that you seem to be misunderstood. You can't let your anger show through, or accuse people - it doesn't achieve much, as you've seen. It actually works against you.

Why are they refusing you service? Do they have a lawful reason? Approach this calmly. Look at things from their perspective and see what you would do if you were them dealing with someone who accuses them of wrongdoing?

Life is not fair, no matter whether you think it should be or not. It is unfair for many people every single day. You have to find a way around it, calmly, nicely and persistently. Think laterally... maybe there's an avenue you haven't tried yet? Or approach it differently.

You have to have the outcome in mind - getting the services you need.

If you have to apologise to the people you've been accusing (no matter what terrible things they did), just to get services, then you may have to do so, much as that seems awful. Just explain how distraught you are and that you don't have the skills to know how to do this properly. Who cares if that's true or not? Think of the goal - to get services. It's a game of sorts and you have to have a winning strategy. A different one than you've had to date.

I would be putting all thoughts of lawsuits aside for the moment. It's far more important to get services you are entitled to, than to go through a protracted court case with an unknown outcome. That doesn't mean you shouldn't be angry at what's happened to you, but you can't show that when dealing with them. You will achieve much more being kind and professional, no matter how unfair it seems. Engendering sympathy and empathy may get you further. Getting your anger and anxiety calmed totally could be the key.

Unproven (in court) accusations, while naming names could land you in court for defamation. I think the people you accuse, may have every right to request incriminating evidence (in videos) be taken down, especially when they are unproven in court, or if there's a court case pending.

Anyone can report any video to YouTube, with a good enough reason and YouTube will take it down if the reason is good enough for them.

Try to ask for an official reason why they won't help you, on paper (or recorded). Then you'll have something to take to someone higher up and something for them to work on. Maybe it's because you come across as intelligent, able to speak for yourself and knowledgeable about what's going on, that someone is deciding you don't need a particular service. Or maybe it's about quotas and them not having resources to help, and nothing to do with you. I don't know.

Be clear about what services you want, and if it's your right to receive them, be persistent, but with a different approach, or find someone who would be willing to advocate for you. I would, gladly, but I'm in Australia, so that isn't practical.

Good luck and let us know what happens.
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 10:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

@AV: What exactly do you expect us to do for you? Please be specific.
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 1:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

As I've said before, I see a lot of desperation and panic here. It's easier said than done, but you can't have that. It only makes the situation worse. I've also said before that there are times where the frontal assault is not the best idea - yet you keep doing it. Back off and re-assess the situation. wall

Sun-Tzu wrote that if you have to go to war you have failed. The same is true with litigation. If you have to go to court, you've failed - or so I was told by my law professors on the first day of law school. On that note, I have relayed to you about what my relative (who is a physician) in Scotland has said - both about your situation and socialized medicine in general.

I am not a barrister or solicitor. I am not a Queen's Counsel. I am just a law student and an airman. I can't give you legal advice. But here is some practical advice.

As I have said before, barristers don't take cases for two reasons: 1) There is no case; 2) There may very well be a case but to pursue it would be economically unfeasable. You have mentioned that you can't get legal help. That being the case, you don't go charging into court. By doing so you go into battle unarmed. In the States, we have a saying: "Pro se is no say." It means if you represent yourself, the chances are very good that the judge will not listen to you. Charging into court without a barrister would be making the charge of the Light Brigade look like a sensible military excercise.

That option not being availible, have you been examining your other options? I don't see that happening. Of course, I can't be there to watch everything either. I also don't know the system.

I'm mostly blind in this - but looking through the veil, I would say back off, do research, and re-assess.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 2:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

AllenVincent wrote:
I really really want to die, this is to much. Those of you taking all this at face value are doing the same damage to Mum and I as the public authorities. A community care solicitor has already confirmed what is happening to Mum and I is illegal but even she shut down on me.

I have only done ONE lawsuit!! ONE, that's all ONE so that's extreme unlawful victimisation. the reason Mum and I are being badly treated is because I understand disability discrimination laws, bad services etc etc and I have the added bonus of my recorded deaf system that records everything that has happened so I can prove their lies, unprofessional misconducts. I was assured an aspergers/deaf personal assistant/support work over one and a half years ago just before I was unlawfully dismissed from Doncaster Nissan when I was diagnosed with aspergers syndrome and dyspraxia. I don't even have a doctor as I was removed from register at st vincents practice when I made disability discrimination complaint and I even had medical documents of when I was 4 and 5 ripped out by my Doctor !! Why is it so shocking that I wish those that have harmed Mum and I intentionally to be sacked and to face criminal charges for vulnerable adult abuse, especially when they are trained and should know better!!!!

My Dad died 2009, Mum could die any day from this. Why can't some of you not understand that no matter what Mum or I do, we get unlawfully swept under the carpet and ultimately I am trying to do something good for ALL of us as I can prove how far public authorities will go to cover up scandals and that disabled people in England really don't have a chance on their own. Please only helpful altruistic postings back, please because I'm cracking up and so is Mum. The best video I had up of 22.12.2011 MIND/RETHINK meeting at my house has been removed by you tube and that has really shocked me as it proved what support they were going to start on 3rd Jan 2012 and Mum was strong enough then to explain what was happening to us.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P9a54NGveL4 how my recorded system works.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APZ5m2nCJ9s Please listen to my Mum *** will anyone do msn video call with my Mum please? ***



Cheerio ole chap, my apologies ole boy, i mistakenly sent you a canadian link. Here is another link:
http://www.ukregisterofmediators.co.uk/


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 2:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Longshanks wrote:
... In the States, we have a saying: "Pro se is no say." It means if you represent yourself, the chances are very good that the judge will not listen to you...

More loosely translated, it means "Those who represent themselves in court have fools for lawyers".
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 2:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fnord wrote:
Longshanks wrote:
... In the States, we have a saying: "Pro se is no say." It means if you represent yourself, the chances are very good that the judge will not listen to you...

More loosely translated, it means "Those who represent themselves in court have fools for lawyers".


Well, yeah. But I was trying to be nice about it.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 6:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I cannot believe what I've been reading in the latest on this thread! Your alleged shortcomings in AVs actions are all well-documented features of AS! NTs believe that AS is an emotional/behaviour problem which we need to be forced to change. The reality is that we are evolutionally incapable of certain things, such as body language, understanding hints at what's expected of us, or knowing how to get what we need!

Making an application for resources or services IS asking for help.If the 'service providers' refuse, what are people supposed to do next? The answer is that there are appeal and complaints procedures. What do you think they're there for? (In my experience they're actually designed to give further opportunities for the government to abuse us, right up to, and including, the European Court of Human Rights. But how is the person at the beginning of the process supposed to know that? We Aspies are particularly vulnerable because we take people at their word)

NO-ONE should have to beg in order to get what they need, and are unable to obtain other than from the public services. What sort of society do you people want to live in? People in this country pay their taxes believing that those in authority will use them to provide for those most in need, such as the disabled. Why don't you advise AV to go down to the High Street and sit on the pavement with a bowl in front of him? He'd probably get more than he would in welfare payments, and would likely be treated with more respect than he's receiving from the 'civil' servants!

I don't know about the USA or Australia, but in the UK it's a citizen's duty to report crimes, including those committed by public officials. There were also the Nuremberg Trials, which all our allies signed up to, and which made it an offence to turn a blind eye to, or take part in, crimes by governments against there own people. Crimes don't get much worse than taking pleasure in torturing people because they've been born with a disability.
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 11:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

pianorak wrote:
I cannot believe what I've been reading in the latest on this thread! Your alleged shortcomings in AVs actions are all well-documented features of AS! NTs believe that AS is an emotional/behaviour problem which we need to be forced to change. The reality is that we are evolutionally incapable of certain things, such as body language, understanding hints at what's expected of us, or knowing how to get what we need!

Making an application for resources or services IS asking for help.If the 'service providers' refuse, what are people supposed to do next? The answer is that there are appeal and complaints procedures. What do you think they're there for? (In my experience they're actually designed to give further opportunities for the government to abuse us, right up to, and including, the European Court of Human Rights. But how is the person at the beginning of the process supposed to know that? We Aspies are particularly vulnerable because we take people at their word)

NO-ONE should have to beg in order to get what they need, and are unable to obtain other than from the public services. What sort of society do you people want to live in? People in this country pay their taxes believing that those in authority will use them to provide for those most in need, such as the disabled. Why don't you advise AV to go down to the High Street and sit on the pavement with a bowl in front of him? He'd probably get more than he would in welfare payments, and would likely be treated with more respect than he's receiving from the 'civil' servants!

I don't know about the USA or Australia, but in the UK it's a citizen's duty to report crimes, including those committed by public officials. There were also the Nuremberg Trials, which all our allies signed up to, and which made it an offence to turn a blind eye to, or take part in, crimes by governments against there own people. Crimes don't get much worse than taking pleasure in torturing people because they've been born with a disability.


While I agree with you in prinicple, there are certain facts that need to be dealt with. First, life is not fair. It never will be fair. You seem to think that we should all be entitled to something. That is not the case. We all make our own way - even in a socialistic society. And yes, this is only another shining example in a collection of thousands as to why socialism doesn't work - pure and simple. And according to my newly discovered physician relative in Scotland (and she and I communicate every day) this is only scratching the surface. There are thousands of cases like this in the UK. According to her, only the bureaucrats win in socialized medicine, and she is heartily sick and tired of having to fight Her Majesty's government on a daily basis just to save a few lives. And after having talked with a physician that has practiced in both the US and the UK, he has discovered that it is far easier to fight with a private insurance company than it is the British Government. Lesson learned - get rid of the socialism!

What this guy needs is a barrister - period. Please see my previous posts as to the criteria barristers use to take cases. And as far as the European Court of Human Rights is concerned, 1) since when has medical care been listedby law as a human right? Show me the law. 2) Aren't they with the very EU that Britain refuses to join?

Lastly, speaking as a law student, Nurnberg has nothing to do with this. Nurnberg dealt with the issue of war crimes, which this is not. The issues dealt with in Nurnberg dealt were wholesale genocide and the "illegal" waging of war - which countries in the Middle East do without repercussion - but, oh yes - I forgot - we exempt them because of a certain religion which is not Chrisitanity. This is an internal bureacratic situation - not a war.

AV is caught in a vaccum - and it is a big one. And without a barrister, and I dare say a law school education, he's got a mountain to climb. And he won't climb it when he continues to panic like he does. He's made a few bad moves, and it's not helping matters.

In sum, I really feel for this guy. I feel as helpless as a bump on a log. I certainly understand and empathize with your passion. I agree with your sense of altruism. But condemning those of us who have responded certainly does not solve anything.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 24, 2012 5:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

PIANORAK I am deeply grateful for your comments and I sincerely apologise for not coming back sooner. You really truly understand the situation and I'm so grateful. I did pm you a few weeks ago but I'm not sure if it went through to you? I am aware that moderators can read/delete PM's so be wary. My other email is allenvincent489@gmail.com I would be so grateful to hear from you. The RDASH video was unfairly taken down, as well as Mum's and I emotional response was taking down..... everything that seems truly in Mum's and mine favour gets taken down... it's unfair and cruel.

I am deeply upset at some of the other comments by others. It is unfair of you to comment in a negative and soul destroying way and feel I there is no way moderators are dealing with me without bias, prejudice and discrimination.

Longshanks.... you confused me the most..... To me I am very grateful for what Pianorak wrote.... it did feel like there was a shift in your nuances, especially when on a previous post you mentioned a long lost relative confirming what's happening to Mum and I is common place in England. Of course I have legal merits... I perhaps wrongly thought you understood me enough to realise that I've done everything possible before reaching the state Mum and I are in now. I can confirm that 3 solicitors have confirmed I have a case, mainly due to my recorded system as it proves what is happening verbatim and there is also a community care solicitor that has confirmed what is happening is illegal and she wanted to go for judicial review but it became to complex and overwhelming even for me and I just did not know how to respond so I shut down. On a previous post Invader has confirmed he's seen some files I sent him so everything I say is true. Things are still very dire for Mum and I. p.s I assure you medical care is at the heart of the European Convention of Human Rights... quick example is that denial of medical care here that leads to death, inhuman or degrading treatment, psychological torture etc is a violation of several articles of the HrA. Please trust my intelligence & logic. I spent hundreds of hours researching case laws etc. http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2012/jan/02/nhs-accused-disabled-patient-deaths This is only the tip of the iceberg here in Great Britain.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=t3ZjYB5OtzA I've got an abscess on this one so bear with me but please listen to Mum at the end as it is the true reality.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ynvkd_vSOU0 Mum trying to phone "hossacks" one of the best solicitors for fighting the system and we still got shut down.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=P9a54NGveL4 Try and see the true significance of this recorded system, this means I have all the public authorities, including charities lying, treating me badly, fobbing me off, breaking promises, doing outright discrimination and victimisation under England's Equality Act 2010. Mum and I have suffered enough and Mum could die any day, I need that breakthrough before Mum passes away as my Dad died in misery on 2nd Feb 2009 and I don't understand why some of you fail to see this. so please, only helpful, altruistic responses, no more trolling. Even if Mum and I were the most horrible people (we aren't!) so many organisations have a legal and statutory duty to provide services regardless of funding issues.
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 7:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Allen,
I've watched all your youtube videos and read your posts, trying to piece together your story. It is easy to see how terribly it is affecting you and your Mum, I feel awful for you and you are obviously struggling.... but you must realise that your reaction to this situation is making it so much worse. All these people promise you services (because you deserve some) but then they back off after they find out some background information on your situation. These service providers can't send people in to help you because your behaviour is quite scary and unpredictable. Now you may dispute this, but if I were one of the people mentioned in your videos, one of those you are looking down the lens at and swearing at or threatening, I would be steering well clear of you. Do you think you can act this way and they should just think because of your disabilities that it isn't serious, or that they should understand. You may be sure you'll never hurt anyone, your Mum might know that's just how you deal with the stress... but the people who were wanting to help you don't know you well enough. Just because you have Aspergers doesn't explain your frightening behaviour, it really doesn't. In my opinion they probably think you have some other unidentified problems that need to be fixed before they can send in assistance in your day to day life. These agencies or charities have a duty of care to their workers too. Calling for everyone to be sacked is not helping. Yes, many have made promises to you but how can they fulfill those promises when any time a mistake or misunderstanding happens you start threatening them.
I do feel bad for you, but I want to be real with you. This is how I'm seeing it. I really hope you and your Mum get some help. I think maybe the help you need is different to the help you think you need. I don't think you're mad, I think "they" think you're mad, so maybe you should be assessed to reassure them that you aren't. I really am writing this to help, not to troll.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 10:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

miss-understood wrote:
Hi Allan,
I've watched all your youtube videos and read your posts, trying to piece together your story. It is easy to see how terribly it is affecting you and your Mum, I feel awful for you and you are obviously struggling.... but you must realise that your reaction to this situation is making it so much worse. All these people promise you services (because you deserve some) but then they back off after they find out some background information on your situation. These service providers can't send people in to help you because your behaviour is quite scary and unpredictable. Now you may dispute this, but if I were one of the people mentioned in your videos, one of those you are looking down the lens at and swearing at or threatening, I would be steering well clear of you. Do you think you can act this way and they should just think because of your disabilities that it isn't serious, or that they should understand. You may be sure you'll never hurt anyone, your Mum might know that's just how you deal with the stress... but the people who were wanting to help you don't know you well enough. Just because you have Aspergers doesn't explain your frightening behaviour, it really doesn't. In my opinion they probably think you have some other unidentified problems that need to be fixed before they can send in assistance in your day to day life. These agencies or charities have a duty of care to their workers too. Calling for everyone to be sacked is not helping. Yes, many have made promises to you but how can they fulfill those promises when any time a mistake or misunderstanding happens you start threatening them.
I do feel bad for you, but I want to be real with you. This is how I'm seeing it. I really hope you and your Mum get some help. I think maybe the help you need is different to the help you think you need. I don't think you're mad, I think "they" think you're mad, so maybe you should be assessed to reassure them that you aren't. I really am writing this to help, not to troll.


You're missing the point. All these elements of his behaviour are a result of his disability. It is supposed to be against the law to withdraw services just because they are put off by his disability, whether they like that or not.

I agree that he needs to calm down sometimes, he knows it himself, but how do you expect him to do that when they won't give him the help that he needs in order to do it?

You might as well say that someone with epilepsy needs to stop having seizures because it's scaring the utterly braindead nurses who were supposed to have been trained to deal with them. How are they meant to stop having these scary seizures when the idiotic health services won't treat them?

If Allen could just wave his magic wand and get rid of his problems, to act "normal" enough for these poor little fragile and sensitive support agencies, he wouldn't need their help in the first place.
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 25, 2012 8:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, I think you're missing my point too. I don't expect him to act "normal" nor should he have to be "normal" If you want these services you can't threaten people like that. If you know that then you have to try and take control. No, I don't think that is like asking an epileptic to stop having seizures, you are assuming then that Allen has no control at all over his behaviour- ever. In that case he needs more help than just to open his mail and help with the shopping. They won't send the people you want to help you if you call them all c**** & bastards, always wanting revenge. They will send the people you don't want ie. the psych doctors and the police. Do you really believe so many people want to make your life so miserable? I don't think it is a widespread conspiracy to discriminate against you. These people work with people with Autism every day, I'm sure they don't run away every time a swear word gets thrown their way, but when that changes to what they perceive as real threats, there has to be a line drawn surely? Maybe a line that says, this person needs the kind of help we can't provide, so they call someone else. But you don't seem to want that kind of help.
I'm prepared to be blasted over this... go ahead. I know some of you will think how could I possibly understand, I am NT.

Allen, I don't take any joy at all in writing this, I really wish you were getting the help you need. In one video your Mum mentioned her daughter in law? Can she help to advocate on you and your Mum's behalf?

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 26, 2012 10:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've read your latest response, Allen. I don't get what's not understandable about what I've said.

1) You've mentioned that three barristers think you have a case. Okay, great! Why won't one of them take it? It's because of money, right? I've said as much. See my previous posts.

2) You need a lawyer or barrister to take this to court or you will lose. See my previous posts.

3) You keep making a frontal assault. Bad move. Try the flank or behind. Sometimes it's necessary to get in through the back door, which means that you need to start making connections within the system to make the system work for you.

It's not that I don't empathize with your case. I do, believe me. And this should scare all Americans because we aspies will be in for the same thing with Obamacare. I read the law. I've worked for a government run health care program. I know what's coming more than most. I've talked to that physician who is a relative of mine in Scotland. She agrees with me. The only winners in socialized medicine are the bureaucrats - period! If you don't have a lawyer, you need to start schmoozing with the bureaucrats to get the help you need - not attacking them. If you go into court pro-se, you will lose. Pro-se means you represent yourself. Pro-se is no say. Don't do it.

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