Post 4562759 - (Making out and One night stands)

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franlikeskittens
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Joined: Dec 11, 2011
Age: 28
Posts: 17
Location: Santiago

Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 8:31 pm Post subject: Making out and One night stands

I'm new here, so please excuse me if this was discussed before: I'm a very.very open minded-liberal gal, but there's a thing about meeting someone at a party or something, dance a little and then let the other person put their tongue in my mouth that upsets me big time. The one time i did it (because it was the national holidays and wanted to experiment was was all about) I felt quite disgusted. It's just me or someone else feels the same?

Radiofixr
Punished daily for being me and different
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Joined: May 31, 2010
Posts: 1445
Location: PA

Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 8:56 pm Post subject:

I feel the same way I have to be very comfortable with a person before I allow any type of personal intimate contact to take place no matter if its touching or if I ever kiss a person or even more intimate physical contact-sex on the first date-never no mater what. _________________ No Pain.-No Pain!!!!

cinbad
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Posts: 366

Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:00 pm Post subject:

I would at least like to know if he brushes regularly first. _________________ My whole life has been an exercise in original thinking. While I was looking in vain for the answers in books, I found them within myself.

WhiteWidow
Phoenix
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Joined: Dec 05, 2011
Age: 23
Posts: 592
Location: Edmonton, Alberta

Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 10:16 pm Post subject:

hate it. People tell me just to find a girl. Or hook up. Or go to the bar or something. Why in the world would I want to share my personal spaces with someone I don't know very well?

beccah
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Posts: 57

Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2012 3:51 pm Post subject:

I just dont go there b/c I dont like the idea of fooling around/being intimate w someone im not in a relationship w and im carzy sentimental so i relate intimacy to love which one night stands arent.thats just me.

CloudLayer
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Joined: Mar 28, 2012
Age: 27
Posts: 300

Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2012 1:35 am Post subject:

beccah wrote:

I just dont go there b/c I dont like the idea of fooling around/being intimate w someone im not in a relationship w and im carzy sentimental so i relate intimacy to love which one night stands arent.thats just me.

Same here

Joker
Sinn Fein
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Age: 24
Posts: 7593
Location: North Carolina The Tar Heel State :)

Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2012 2:37 am Post subject:

Some times I can hook up randomly with a girl/guy and some times I don't it all depends on the mood I am in.

felinesaresuperior
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Joined: Jul 25, 2011
Posts: 449
Location: israel

Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2012 7:43 am Post subject:

i did the one night stand with guys several times, because i cant handle a relationship and that's all i'll be able to have anyway, but i dont kiss on the mouth. it's disgusting.

RightGalaxy
Phoenix
Phoenix

Joined: Dec 22, 2008
Posts: 1496

Posted: Tue Apr 17, 2012 2:01 pm Post subject:

I hate that. Even when I see other people do this, I'm offended. It's just so cheap. I can't help but complain,"Ahh, boy, here we go again with this stupid sh**." Do these adults realize that they're acting like horney middle schoolers?

edgewaters
hibernating
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Joined: Aug 17, 2006
Age: 40
Posts: 2426
Location: Ontario

Posted: Wed Apr 18, 2012 5:44 am Post subject:

I thought I was really odd on this, but yeah, I don't really like kissing either. I told my girlfriend about it and she said she doesn't either, and we don't open mouth kiss anymore. I never really quite believed her though, I'd never heard of anyone else not liking it before.

dreamy
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

Joined: Mar 29, 2006
Posts: 72

Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2012 5:17 am Post subject:

Yes I am slow to give hugs, and very slow to kiss someone. Especially with tongue. I believe I had some relationships where I didn't let them kiss me until the second or third date. The first kiss is sometimes brief.

Kinme
Dinosaurlicious
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Joined: Apr 14, 2012
Posts: 3228

Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2012 6:29 pm Post subject:

I would NEVER kiss someone unless I wanted a long-term relationship with them. I wouldn't feel comfortable enough doing that with just any person.

Bloodheart
Grisha's Gal
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Age: 30
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Location: Newcastle, England.

Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2012 6:43 pm Post subject: Re: Making out and One night stands

Tongue in mouth in any situation is a no-no for me - I've NEVER understood this, it's just uncomfortable and although I'm told I kiss well that way I never know what the hell I'm supposed to do during such kissing. I could kiss someone closed-mouth when out at a party or club, but nothing more than that - there is an aspect of me that would like to be able to be that casual about sex, but I just couldn't do that. _________________ Bloodheart Good-looking girls break hearts, and goodhearted girls mend them.