dest
Emu Egg
Joined: Apr 12, 2012
Posts: 1
|
 Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 4:56 pm Post subject: guys online hit on me alot |
 |
|
guys on imesh and different websites i post my picture on keep telling me they like my smile and other complements and trying to ask my out, dont get me wrong im totally flattered  but im really not ready for a relationship and i try to tell them that but they just wont go away! they annoy me soooo much  whay do i do help    i need an  |
|
| Back to top |
|
hyperlexian
loves the man who typed too much and ran outta spa
Joined: Jul 22, 2010
Age: 41
Posts: 21970
Location: with bucephalus
|
| Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 5:45 pm Post subject: |
|
|
why are you posting pictures of yourself up if you don't want the attention? that would be the easiest way to get them to back off - stop posting pictures.
_________________
on a break, so if you need assistance please contact another moderator from this list:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp5043493.html#5043493 |
|
| Back to top |
|
lostonearth35
Phoenix
Joined: Jan 06, 2010
Age: 39
Posts: 844
Location: Canada
|
| Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 6:07 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| I envy you. I will never put up photos or videos of myself online because guys will make horrible comments about how fat and ugly I look. |
|
| Back to top |
|
puddingmouse
exclamation mark!
Joined: Apr 25, 2010
Age: 26
Posts: 7080
Location: Mega City 3
|
| Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 6:43 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| lostonearth35 wrote: | | I envy you. I will never put up photos or videos of myself online because guys will make horrible comments about how fat and ugly I look. |
I bet that's untrue.
_________________
I'm as ugly as sin and twice as sweet. |
|
| Back to top |
|
Alexender
Dodo bird
Joined: Jan 03, 2012
Age: 20
Posts: 1194
Location: wrongplanet
|
| Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 6:51 pm Post subject: |
|
|
on xbox live if there is a girl talking on a mic then you hear someone say "is that a girl!?!" (as compared to a 13 year old guy with a high voice). Then immediately the lobby starts saying a bunch of stuff that I can not post here
_________________
www.wrongplanet.net |
|
| Back to top |
|
hyperlexian
loves the man who typed too much and ran outta spa
Joined: Jul 22, 2010
Age: 41
Posts: 21970
Location: with bucephalus
|
| Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 7:02 pm Post subject: |
|
|
i'd like to remind some male members (not Alexender) that you are expected to be respectful of female posters in the Women's forum. tone it down and be supportive, or don't post in this area.
_________________
on a break, so if you need assistance please contact another moderator from this list:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp5043493.html#5043493 |
|
| Back to top |
|
Joker
Sinn Fein
Joined: Mar 20, 2011
Age: 24
Posts: 7593
Location: North Carolina The Tar Heel State :)
|
| Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 8:43 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| Guys online hit on me a lot to my female persona loves it but the male side of me finds it unflattering gosh being bigender is confusing some times. |
|
| Back to top |
|
joestenr
Toucan
Joined: Apr 23, 2011
Age: 36
Posts: 297
Location: niantic connecticut
|
| Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 10:06 pm Post subject: |
|
|
As a male, i will be more likely to hit on you if (a) you post an attractive pic of yourself or (b) present yourself as being interested.
You want the guys to leave you alone, photoshop your pic to give yourself a mullet and prononce that you are gay as often as possible. That or constantly insult the guys who hit on you by saying tht they have very small genitals ( preferably on thier fb wall)
_________________
to be lost I would have needed to know where I was going
"For success in science or art, a dash of autism is essential"
Hans Asperger
|
|
| Back to top |
|
MissConstrue
~Meow Clawdius~
Joined: Feb 05, 2008
Age: 31
Posts: 19686
Location: Missouri
|
| Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2012 5:12 am Post subject: |
|
|
| puddingmouse wrote: | | lostonearth35 wrote: | | I envy you. I will never put up photos or videos of myself online because guys will make horrible comments about how fat and ugly I look. |
I bet that's untrue. |
I've had it happen both ways. The same guy who kept telling me I was pretty said I was ugly. I think he got mad because I couldn't keep responding to his messages 24/7 on facebook.
_________________
Belief in a cruel God makes a cruel man.
-Thomas Paine
|
|
| Back to top |
|
pinkgurl87
Butterfly
Joined: Sep 01, 2011
Posts: 9
|
| Posted: Mon May 21, 2012 6:12 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| There's guys out there who are really creepy and will hit on girls. Most of the time they are after sex and not really after a relationship with you, that''s why it's not safe to post pictures of yourself online. I have done that in the past and i had guys chatting me up , and I thought they never would because I am a big girl, but they all seem to be after one thing, sex, and that is not what I want. I had to go off of those types of websites because it was having a negative impact on me. Also most websites you can block people so block the people who are bothering you. |
|
| Back to top |
|
Who_Am_I
almost human
Joined: Aug 28, 2005
Age: 29
Posts: 10542
Location: My body is in Brisbane and my mind is in the gutter. :D
|
| Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 4:27 am Post subject: |
|
|
| Quote: | | stop posting pictures. |
| Quote: | | constantly insult the guys who hit on you by saying tht they have very small genitals ( preferably on thier fb wall) |
_________________
Music Theory 101: Cadences.
Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I !!!!
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I! I! I! I I I |
|
| Back to top |
|
Tim_Tex
Professor Hineybottom
Joined: Jul 03, 2004
Age: 33
Posts: 41865
Location: Houston, Texas
|
| Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 5:37 am Post subject: |
|
|
| If the pics are on a dating site, you should think about cancelling your account (especially since you said you weren't ready for a relationship). If they are on a site like Facebook, or on a specialty message board, then you should probably delete the pics that are eliciting the unwanted responses |
|
| Back to top |
|
JanuaryMan
Aspierational
Joined: Jan 02, 2012
Age: 28
Posts: 2548
Location: Hants, UK
|
| Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 6:07 am Post subject: Re: guys online hit on me alot |
|
|
| dest wrote: | | guys on imesh and different websites i post my picture on keep telling me they like my smile and other complements and trying to ask my out, dont get me wrong im totally flattered but im really not ready for a relationship and i try to tell them that but they just wont go away! they annoy me soooo much whay do i do help i need an |
Hi dest
Don't normally post in this section (in fact, I haven't done til now!) but..seeing as these websites you are using are more for interests and not social network sites like FaceBook, it would be wise to remove your photos, and replace them with an image of something you like that is more unisex. If they still persist, remove your gender from your profile (not that you should have to, just an extra precaution). Unfortunately there are guys out there that see this kind of information as an advertisement e.g. "Why would they put single or girl or their pic on their profile if they didn't want us to hit on them lololollll"
_________________
"A man is but the product of his thoughts - what he thinks, he becomes." - Mahatma Gandhi |
|
| Back to top |
|
RightGalaxy
Phoenix
Joined: Dec 22, 2008
Posts: 1483
|
| Posted: Tue May 22, 2012 11:47 am Post subject: Re: guys online hit on me alot |
|
|
| JanuaryMan wrote: | | dest wrote: | | guys on imesh and different websites i post my picture on keep telling me they like my smile and other complements and trying to ask my out, dont get me wrong im totally flattered but im really not ready for a relationship and i try to tell them that but they just wont go away! they annoy me soooo much whay do i do help i need an |
Hi dest
Don't normally post in this section (in fact, I haven't done til now!) but..seeing as these websites you are using are more for interests and not social network sites like FaceBook, it would be wise to remove your photos, and replace them with an image of something you like that is more unisex. If they still persist, remove your gender from your profile (not that you should have to, just an extra precaution). Unfortunately there are guys out there that see this kind of information as an advertisement e.g. "Why would they put single or girl or their pic on their profile if they didn't want us to hit on them lololollll" |
Well put January man! You will be forever welcome on the women's discussion!! That was nice  Why did you change your pic?  It looked good.  |
|
| Back to top |
|
