auntblabby
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Titangeek
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*Returns hug*
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DogsWithoutHorses
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| thewhitrbbit wrote: | | Kurgan wrote: | | DogsWithoutHorses wrote: | | thewhitrbbit wrote: | It's very difficult at times not to be cynical. I have seen woman after woman date stupid, using, sometimes abusive guys over and over, passing up or simply refusing to date good guys.
That said; you have to step back and remember that this one might be different. Don't judge a book by it's cover and do unto others as you would have them do unto you. |
of course, you're a "good guy" aren't you |
How do you know he's not?
What he said was immature, but you're linking him to a derogatory internet stereotype that isn't common in real life.
(This started out as a nice thread BTW. A good idea from metaldanielle.) |
I have a full time job, own my home, own a car, don't beat or abuse women, and have managed to develop adaptions to most of my AS Issues. So yeah I'd say I"m a good guy.  |
Yeah, totally unlike the guys those stupid women are dating amirite. If they were smart they'd date good guys, nice guys, guys like you.
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DanRaccoon
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Wasn't this topic about someone supposedly feeling sad for lonely people? I've lost track.
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Kurgan
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| DogsWithoutHorses wrote: | | thewhitrbbit wrote: | | Kurgan wrote: | | DogsWithoutHorses wrote: | | thewhitrbbit wrote: | It's very difficult at times not to be cynical. I have seen woman after woman date stupid, using, sometimes abusive guys over and over, passing up or simply refusing to date good guys.
That said; you have to step back and remember that this one might be different. Don't judge a book by it's cover and do unto others as you would have them do unto you. |
of course, you're a "good guy" aren't you |
How do you know he's not?
What he said was immature, but you're linking him to a derogatory internet stereotype that isn't common in real life.
(This started out as a nice thread BTW. A good idea from metaldanielle.) |
I have a full time job, own my home, own a car, don't beat or abuse women, and have managed to develop adaptions to most of my AS Issues. So yeah I'd say I"m a good guy. |
Yeah, totally unlike the guys those stupid women are dating amirite. If they were smart they'd date good guys, nice guys, guys like you. |
Do you enjoy straw man arguments? I'm not saying that all women like bad guys (most don't), but those who do tend to like immature men with none of the above. In almost every case where a girl says that "all men are the same" and all that, it's because she doesn't give good guys a chance. She instead wants what she sees in soap operas, reality shows and so on. |
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Uri
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| thewhitrbbit wrote: | | It's very difficult at times not to be cynical. I have seen woman after woman date stupid, using, sometimes abusive guys over and over, passing up or simply refusing to date good guys. |
Maybe it's because these guys are ugly-looking or just have bad skin, this is why they get constant rejections from women.
When I was in high-school I had acne and was struggling with bad skin and I could see that this was a huge turn-off for the girls.
So I found out that men with healthy-looking and nice skin are much more attractive to the ladies.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acne_vulgaris
http://www.medicinenet.com/skin/focus.htm
If I had the money (which I don't) I would pay for cosmetic surgery to improve the shape of my nose because my nose is kinda hooked and I don't find hooked noses particularly attractive.
Furthermore I would fix my bushy eyebrows and remove unwanted facial hair from my face with laser or electric treatment and this would make my facial skin look better. And in the last I would remove my glasses and replace them with contact lenses.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20120328130451AAPdBoP
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/bushy-eyebrows-how-to-fix-bushy-eyebrows.html |
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auntblabby
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| i've seen some ugly men but because they either had ton$ of $$$ and/or they had the sociopathic gifts of persuasion, they had comely companions on both arms and no worries of finding yet more at the drop of a hat. |
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bizboy1
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| Lonermutant wrote: | | I think that some of the problem is that there are so many men with bad social skills that just want casual sex while a lot of women lacking social skills really want relationships. |
This. |
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Lonermutant
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| bizboy1 wrote: | | Lonermutant wrote: | | I think that some of the problem is that there are so many men with bad social skills that just want casual sex while a lot of women lacking social skills really want relationships. |
This. |
...And by that you mean? |
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mds_02
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| thewhitrbbit wrote: | | I have a full time job, own my home, own a car, don't beat or abuse women, and have managed to develop adaptions to most of my AS Issues. So yeah I'd say I"m a good guy. |
Here's a big part of your problem. You think your financial success makes you better than other guys. For all that people go on and on about how women want a man with money, this attitude is a big turnoff for most of them. |
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aussiebloke
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aussiebloke
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| Lonermutant wrote: | | bizboy1 wrote: | | Lonermutant wrote: | | I think that some of the problem is that there are so many men with bad social skills that just want casual sex while a lot of women lacking social skills really want relationships. |
This. |
...And by that you mean? |
He agrees with you
as do I
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aussiebloke
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so it would be a bad idea to date each other 
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aussiebloke
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| mds_02 wrote: | | thewhitrbbit wrote: | | I have a full time job, own my home, own a car, don't beat or abuse women, and have managed to develop adaptions to most of my AS Issues. So yeah I'd say I"m a good guy. |
Here's a big part of your problem. You think your financial success makes you better than other guys. For all that people go on and on about how women want a man with money, this attitude is a big turnoff for most of them. |
One of the reasons I could never go to a meet up it would feel to much like a circle jerk (no offense) , theirs a few people around here that match this description not this guy to be fair.
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aussiebloke
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| Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 11:22 pm Post subject: Re: There's so many sad lonely guys in here |
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| DanRaccoon wrote: | | metaldanielle wrote: | | I hear so many guys here talk about being lonely. It makes me sad. I just wanna give them a hug. So hugs so all the sad lonely guys! (Girls too if they want.) |
Do you seriously care? does it seriously upset you? |
Thats a nice level of healthy cynicism you have their I can't imagine why any one would bother being nice if it wasn't for sexual or money grab purpose's.
I'm not sure if I feel "sad" for these men though them trying to make themselves lovable to a women (well I wont go their at the risk of being edited) why they would even bother you'll just end up spending countless hours and dollars on things that don't intrest you and for what grief?
Stick to pets and special interests what more could an aspie want?
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