2wheels4ever
Just Another Weirdo From L.A.
Joined: May 04, 2012
Age: 41
Posts: 1336
Location: Losing status at the high school
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"You should really try to set a better example"
"Don't let it get to you"
"You can't just ____ when things don't go your way"
"Know what your problem is? You think the whole world revolves around you"
"It's their right, they're entiitled to do that"
"If it were one of your interests you'd be all over it, but since I'm the one who needs help, forget it"
"EVERYone has trouble meeting people"
"You're going out wearing THAT?"
"How long do you plan on leaving that mess?"
"What difference does it make?"
"Maybe if you didn't ____so much you wouldn't be this way"
"You were spoiled rotten when you were that age"
Withdrawn straight from the memory bank
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League_Girl
Proud mamma
Joined: Feb 05, 2010
Posts: 13492
Location: My house
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"Calm down." 
"Wrong." (Sounds condescending. You can say your own opinion or fact without calling me wrong, what's the point in that word?)
When people ask me for my opinion and then not like it and get mad at me for it.
"Nevermind." (not even bother to explain it to me)
"Slow down" when I am eating
"Don't yell" when I am not yelling and not even raising my voice
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lostgirl1986
There's a party in my head.
Joined: Feb 29, 2012
Age: 26
Posts: 6265
Location: Ontario, Canada
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| Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 7:34 am Post subject: |
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| League_Girl wrote: | "Calm down."
"Wrong." (Sounds condescending. You can say your own opinion or fact without calling me wrong, what's the point in that word?)
When people ask me for my opinion and then not like it and get mad at me for it.
"Nevermind." (not even bother to explain it to me)
"Slow down" when I am eating
"Don't yell" when I am not yelling and not even raising my voice |
I hate that as well. It's usually the SO that brings it up. |
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edgewaters
hibernating
Joined: Aug 17, 2006
Age: 40
Posts: 2426
Location: Ontario
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| Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 7:37 am Post subject: |
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| lostgirl1986 wrote: | | I hate that as well. It's usually the SO that brings it up. |
Same lol. I could almost get that one while gently whispering, I think.
It's about the only one that really bugs me in this thread so far. Except maybe one of the others LG posted, "Calm down" when you're not actually excited and you have an even tone of voice.
I think maybe it's the monotone - if you speak in monotone, people can't tell when you're excited and go by what you're saying rather than how you say it. |
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Summer_Twilight
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Posts: 648
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I hate the "Don't yell one." I worked with a co-worker who was like that. She would get in her moods and then you would get firm with her and it was "Don't yell at me, or I will yell at you." She did that to others too.
How about when people tell you to shhh and have a big catty smile on their face? They then throw in a "I can hear you all the way over here." I've told a few people like that to shut up before.
When someone makes a nasty comments that borders along the lines of being mean. Then the other person gets mad and goes, "I'm just kidding." Those are annoying.
How about when you say excuse me somewhere and then the other person gets and attitude and and mocks you back? They go "Scuse me," like they are more important. I mocked someone like that once at the grocery store for doing that to me and then I turned on my heel and walked away. |
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nocturneofshadow7
Butterfly
Joined: Jan 27, 2011
Posts: 12
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| its being called hun or sweety or stuff like that for me that drives me nuts. Oh and also i can't stand racial/derogatory slurs and the word retarded. |
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anneurysm
Who needs birds when you have Lena Dunham.
Joined: Mar 26, 2008
Age: 25
Posts: 1883
Location: Barrie & Toronto, Canada
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"Everyone deals with anxiety, it's just a part of life."
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lostgirl1986
There's a party in my head.
Joined: Feb 29, 2012
Age: 26
Posts: 6265
Location: Ontario, Canada
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| anneurysm wrote: | | "Everyone deals with anxiety, it's just a part of life." |
Yes, that and, "Why are you depressed? You have a lot of things in life to be thankful for." |
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League_Girl
Proud mamma
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Posts: 13492
Location: My house
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"It's stressful for everyone"
They have no idea how stress effects me.
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NeueZiel
Seņorita Gamera
Joined: Apr 29, 2012
Posts: 1246
Location: Kapustin Yar
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"Life's a b***h, then you die."
Any variation of this one always makes me mad, its such a shitty cop out people use when you complain about anything and no life doesn't have to be a "b***h", its beautiful. Shut up you f***ing idiot.
"WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING?"
Again, any variation and the context matters. If a person just asks "hey, what are you doing?" that's fine. I mean when I'm actually doing something and its obvious but a person asks this question as some kind of rhetorical question because I'm doing so appallingly bad or shocking. If you see me doing something wrong, simply say "Hey..stop driving so fast!" "Add some water to that paint brush, your colors are too dark!" "Add some water and turn down the heat on the stove!" etc etc.
"Stop being so manipulative."
Hear this the most when I have a meltdown, it makes me so angry.
"Hey you, yeah you."
Rude as hell and makes me feel threatened. Sounds too much like something a cop or authority figure would say.
"Are you slow?"
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thewhitrbbit
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Joined: May 31, 2012
Age: 27
Posts: 2152
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I only have one:
Have you ever tried online dating? |
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Summer_Twilight
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Posts: 648
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Whenever you are about to cry and someone who is being insensitive says,
"What's the matter with you do you have bugs in your eyes?"
Others.
"Do you have a staring problem?"
"That's not normal, your behavior is a sign of a mental illness." |
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Joe90
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Joined: Feb 24, 2010
Posts: 8237
Location: Great Britain
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''People who laugh at you aren't worth knowing.''
''If your friend gets the hump with you, he/she wasn't a very good friend in the first place.''
''Stop moaning.''
''Ssshhhh!''
The last two can sometimes send me into a meltdown.
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hartzofspace
Red Dragon
Joined: Apr 15, 2005
Posts: 7577
Location: On the Road Less Traveled
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| Joe90 wrote: |
''Ssshhhh!'' |
Grrr, I HATE when someone shushes me! It makes me feel about five years old. 
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Summer_Twilight
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| Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 11:59 pm Post subject: |
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| So I am not alone on the last one. I feel the same way. |
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