curlyfry
come out from among them and be ye curly
Joined: Jun 14, 2010
Age: 43
Posts: 1491
Location: Latitude : 45.373. Longitude : -84.955
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| I'm middle-aged, divorced, single mom. I was content for 10yrs. then I decided last year to look for someone after I found out I had AS which meant I wasn't so alone after all. I'm in a relationship with someone now who has similar characteristics and they don't even mind that I have no response to most endearments. |
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Panamai
Hummingbird
Joined: Nov 24, 2011
Posts: 22
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I'm 31, just divorced after a 6 year marriage and I have 2 young children. I'm still in love with my ex-husband and taking the divorce and loss of my routine very hard. Trying to get out there and date other guys, but I'm just not feeling it.  |
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havnoy
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: Aug 01, 2012
Age: 29
Posts: 55
Location: norway
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| AS_Citizen_43275-B wrote: | and be wary of NT men's lies (especially if u share ur pic and u are physically attractive).
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that also aply for nt women, and i cant understand why. Dont the nt (who see trough a lie easier than we are) also lose trust in ppl who serve them lies? i had a non sexual relation ship with a nt girl for 18 months, and was ready to take the next step, but (and it had nothing to do with the sex i guess) i started to discover small lies, in the beginning, not so seriously, but after a while she lied when she had one night stands and things like that. but why? i didnt care, i didnt own here body, or mind so why lie, why just dont say anything. ok maybe wrong post, but gash it was good to get the bitterness out  is the nt ppl thaughts often short time, since they lie to get sex, or is nt more forgiving for lies than spectrum ppl?
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MissConstrue
~Meow Clawdius~
Joined: Feb 05, 2008
Age: 31
Posts: 19686
Location: Missouri
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30 never married and still single. Maybe it's best I remain that way. The only brief relationship I had was with a guy that lost his good side once he started calling me names and then got physical when I told him I wanted to break it off with him. He was dating his ex behind my back and I was dumb enough to think it would eventually end. I've decided it's no longer important for me to have to be with a guy anymore. Once I age if I haven't already, guys won't be interested in me anyway and I think to myself, why bother? There's more to life than fantasy relationships.
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Nonperson
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Joined: Jun 13, 2012
Posts: 1049
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| Don't really know what this thread is about - it sounds like you're looking for eligible women? Or is there some question about divorce? I'm 33 and divorced, but remarried, so... |
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Misslizard
Wayfaring Stranger
Joined: Jun 19, 2012
Age: 48
Posts: 3012
Location: Aux Arcs
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| 48 divorced,took back my maiden name,I'll be buried with it. |
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aspiekelly
Blue Jay
Joined: May 03, 2012
Age: 26
Posts: 96
Location: Nova Scotia, Canada
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| Nonperson wrote: | | Don't really know what this thread is about - it sounds like you're looking for eligible women? Or is there some question about divorce? I'm 33 and divorced, but remarried, so... |
No, I don't want women. I have a great boyfriend now. I was just wondering if anyone else was around my age and divorced, because none of my friends have ever been in a serious relationship or have a boyfriend and can't relate to me. |
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AspieOtaku
Leader of the Otaku Legion
Joined: Feb 18, 2012
Age: 30
Posts: 5893
Location: Mountain View, California, United States
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I have been single for 6 years almost 7....but Im a guy  *runs and hides!!*
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You are very likely an aspie
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Ai_Ling
Phoenix
Joined: Nov 16, 2010
Age: 24
Posts: 1832
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| Lets see, Im single never married. But Im 23. Im not 25 yet but Im getting there. The thing about being aspie is that I mature later and I've never been in a serious relationship. Im still trying to figure out what I want. Sometimes i question if I want a relationship, if I will be single for the rest of my life. I definetly think theres a chance. |
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Lonely_Island6
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: Jun 25, 2012
Posts: 53
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| I'm 28 and have been divorced for 2 years. I just wasn't ready at the time. I'm afraid now that I may have trouble living with another person. I like having my own space and having things my own way. |
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AlphaSister
Blue Jay
Joined: Jan 07, 2010
Posts: 76
Location: Chicago, IL
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| I am almost 44, never married, haven't had sex in 4 1/2 years, and haven't had a boyfriend since 2002 and I prefer it that way. I can't imagine how people manage to stay in long term relationships or why anyone would want it. |
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AspieOtaku
Leader of the Otaku Legion
Joined: Feb 18, 2012
Age: 30
Posts: 5893
Location: Mountain View, California, United States
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I'm 30 have been single for 7 years and I'm a guy...uh oh *hides* I have kinda been too busy looking for a relationship and also kind of have given up at times. Not too many women are into quirky hyperactive hyper intelligent males who are obsessed with anime and such let alone who act 10 years younger than they really are. I also have the habit of being overly affectionate too and it gets annoying for most women. As a result I kind have shut myself away from the rest of the world months at a time and tend to become a http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hikikomori off and on.
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militarybrat
Deinonychus
Joined: Aug 23, 2007
Age: 27
Posts: 316
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| I am almost 27 and have never dated |
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BlueMax
Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot...
Joined: Aug 28, 2007
Age: 39
Posts: 5270
Location: Alberta, Canada
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| Panamai wrote: | | I'm 31, just divorced after a 6 year marriage and I have 2 young children. I'm still in love with my ex-husband and taking the divorce and loss of my routine very hard. Trying to get out there and date other guys, but I'm just not feeling it. |
I almost didn't post in here (girls only??) but I just had to agree wholeheartedly with P, above.
38, was with the same woman for 12 years, 2 kids - then she booted me out for "not making her happy enough". It'll be 3 years as of the day after Christmas... I still can't help but feel something for her, miss her... but I also don't get to see my darling boys anywhere near as often enough. (My older boy is practically my clone and is sure going to need his dad's Aspie experience to help him cope with life!!)
I've tried dating a few times... just not feeling it either, plus the only women attracted to me were the ones I found very unattractive.
I still have a hard time being attracted to any woman at this point... very few have generated a spark of any kind. Meh... I'm in no real rush.
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littlelily613
Phoenix
Joined: Feb 12, 2011
Age: 29
Posts: 3608
Location: Canada
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I am 28 and single. I've never had a relationship.
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