singularity
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| DogsWithoutHorses wrote: | hahaha loll
womenz, whops sorri, femalez be so crazy when they on they periods |
O I'm always emotional and crazy...my period just gives me the excuse to let my inner b***h out. Any why not, when men just seem to expect it? |
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aSKperger
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What is so fu***g horrible about period emotionality? How many women are physically so broken they can't function these days. My ex takes pills for three days so she could at least stand up and walk in the garden. But NO, she doesn't change emotionally? Well, she is the brighten one, so she knows she changes and has no problem to admit it.
And yes, she is not you, but most of women in my life have this symptoms, so yes - I generalize. Because it can help many men who wonder why the feminist bullshit and political correctness doesn't work  |
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singularity
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| Posted: Thu Jun 28, 2012 7:48 pm Post subject: |
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| aSKperger wrote: | | - I generalize. Because it can help many men who wonder why the feminist bullshit and political correctness doesn't work |
I don't understand the point of the winky face at the end of this statement. Are you being ironic, perhaps? |
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aSKperger
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| Yes a little bit and it also means "I am cool, no offence, no hard feelings" |
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Nikorvus
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| singularity wrote: | | aSKperger wrote: | | - I generalize. Because it can help many men who wonder why the feminist bullshit and political correctness doesn't work |
I don't understand the point of the winky face at the end of this statement. Are you being ironic, perhaps? |
I love that about dealing with other Aspies. They know you're not being snarky or starting a fight when you say "I don't get when you say this.." They take it as intended, a query for additional information.
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metaldanielle
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| aSKperger wrote: | What is so fu***g horrible about period emotionality? How many women are physically so broken they can't function these days. My ex takes pills for three days so she could at least stand up and walk in the garden. But NO, she doesn't change emotionally? Well, she is the brighten one, so she knows she changes and has no problem to admit it.
And yes, she is not you, but most of women in my life have this symptoms, so yes - I generalize. Because it can help many men who wonder why the feminist bullshit and political correctness doesn't work |
 For people who don't have severe issues or haven't seen it first hand, it doesn't seem like a big deal, but it is. I am a nice person, but on my period, I get b****y for the tiniest reasons. I recognize it, but can't control it. I only have meltdowns during that time. And if I am curled in a ball in pain, you better not ask me for something. |
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DogsWithoutHorses
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| metaldanielle wrote: | | aSKperger wrote: | What is so fu***g horrible about period emotionality? How many women are physically so broken they can't function these days. My ex takes pills for three days so she could at least stand up and walk in the garden. But NO, she doesn't change emotionally? Well, she is the brighten one, so she knows she changes and has no problem to admit it.
And yes, she is not you, but most of women in my life have this symptoms, so yes - I generalize. Because it can help many men who wonder why the feminist bullshit and political correctness doesn't work |
For people who don't have severe issues or haven't seen it first hand, it doesn't seem like a big deal, but it is. I am a nice person, but on my period, I get b****y for the tiniest reasons. I recognize it, but can't control it. I only have meltdowns during that time. And if I am curled in a ball in pain, you better not ask me for something. |
That's legitimate.
But not all women experience that.
Something a lot of women do experience? being asked "if they're on their period or something" anytime they get upset, people citing hormones as a way to dismiss our feelings and thoughts because we aren't as 'rational' as the menfolk.
Anytime we aren't fluffy light and feminine and most importantly compliant...period.
It's good to recognize on an individual level. If you have issues during your period it's good to know about and be able to manage them.
What's not good is generalizing that women all get irrational and bitchy once a month.
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AspergianMutantt
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Well, lets get back to a topic that I misunderstood for a long time, and that seems to fire people up to argue about. and this is one of them, there are other topics. but I choose to deal with them one at a time. yes women may say I just have not found the right one for me yet, but you got to think of the numbers game, females get hit on all the time till there sick of it, while men get rejected just as badly.
I am going to mention one of my traumatic experience so to point out a flaw in conceptions of equality I have found. this does not apply to all relationships or women, but in my experience its a fairly common misconception men may have about equality. its not fair, but its just the way it is. deal with it.
It is far more acceptable for women to be fragile and emotional, where men are basically expected to man up and deal with it. to be strong and silent about things. I am not stating what I am about to say for pity, but to make a point.
When in my mid 20's I was raped by an off duty gay cop at gunpoint. when I told my family and friends they wanted me not to talk about it, to be quiet about it as if it was a shame and to just deal. to man up and be strong. where my sister soon after experienced that of fear that a new friend of hers may rape her, so she complained to family and friends about it and got all kinds of sympathy and support, even though nothing ever really happened. and even others not of family heckled me for it, for me being a weak and pathetic male that didn't fight hard enough first before allowing such a thing to happen, that I was no real man. that I should have died first before allowing such a thing to happen. and even then, to even mention it was a shame, as if I should just have shrugged it off and moved on as if nothing happened.
In relationships I found the same thing to be true. Men are expected to be strong and just deal with it and man up, otherwise they seem weak of nature and heart and mind, something thats not vary attractive to females, because most females wants to feel they can depend on the man to be strong for them. yes they say they want a sensitive male that can open up to them, but in truth they tend to lose respect and faith in the man being able to be there for them as well. because he was not strong enough to handle the issues for him self. he was not strong enough to just deal and man up so how can he be there for her when she needs him, a true man.. this is true even in most of society. if you notice females are more tended to cared for and cherished then men. men do not have to mention things much at all, just once or twice is enough to spoil the barrel of apples that is considered the relationship. that faith and trust and respect.
By what i seen, if circumstances "while in" a relationship call for it then its OK, but if its a past issue, then men are expected to have dealt with it and move on, to have been strong and unwavering. while its OK for females to be fragile and able to use those past traumas as an continuing excuse to hold onto to their own hurts and fears. and if a man seems weak were easily replaceable, where for men we just have to deal. if anything females being weak helps them catch their males, gives the men something they can work with to show they care. so its acceptable for females to be that way, where for men its not, women does not want a weak male. its not vary attractive to them.
Therefore its a mistake for men to open up in such ways, even though they are told otherwise. it spoils the relationship. women may say they are sick of the macho strong male. where even though the opposite can become vary damaging as well. a little macho is better then losing most all of your partners romantic trust and interest in you.
In many ways women say they are sick of that macho man, when in many other ways they demand it. there is no equality of trust of heart. there is no equality of the sex's. |
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aSKperger
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| Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 3:27 am Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | Something a lot of women do experience? being asked "if they're on their period or something" anytime they get upset, people citing hormones as a way to dismiss our feelings and thoughts because we aren't as 'rational' as the menfolk. |
We ask because of what metaldanielle wrote. If the lady has her period, we can accept her bitching. But if she has not, well then lets deal with reasons of her behaviour. I want to be cool with person. I can't just stand there doing nothing. If something is wrong, I am trying to fix it or understand it at least. |
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AspergianMutantt
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| aSKperger wrote: | | Quote: | | Something a lot of women do experience? being asked "if they're on their period or something" anytime they get upset, people citing hormones as a way to dismiss our feelings and thoughts because we aren't as 'rational' as the menfolk. |
We ask because of what metaldanielle wrote. If the lady has her period, we can accept her bitching. But if she has not, well then lets deal with reasons of her behaviour. I want to be cool with person. I can't just stand there doing nothing. If something is wrong, I am trying to fix it or understand it at least. |
Part of this problem my friend, is that with men, when a woman complains we men want to try and fix things, when we hear a complaint we hear "how can we help you", where women mostly want us men to listen. not fix them. |
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aSKperger
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That's true and I hate it, it really drives me crazy. But it wasn't about complaining, but instability and unpredictable behavior.
Brief summary: women period instabillity exists
Many of women are bitching without reasons these days (reason is they have period)
There is nothing wrong about admiting it - we understand (at least I do)
It is beneficial to admit it, so we don't have to search for the reasons of this behaviour or we can find the real reason and deal with it. Sometimes the best way of dealing with it means to shut up or run away  |
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