Projectile
Raven
Joined: Jun 27, 2012
Age: 29
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Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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| Monkeybuttorama wrote: | | Why shouldn't one be judgmental of people who prove themselves to be crap people? |
It harms you if you are too Judgmental and unaccommodating / unforgiving / closed minded or similar. It stunts your social development and creates bitterness inside you that can putrefy in some cases becoming malignant. It is not healthy.
| again_with_this wrote: | | OK, but according to the poll, INTJ is the most common type here, followed by INTP, then INFP. You said INFP was second, it's actually third [..............] what are you basing your feelings about me on exactly? What makes you think I write others off so quickly? I'm asking in all seriousness. |
Ok I may have made a mistake about the second/third most common result or it may have changed since I looked at it since there was only 1% difference in 2nd and 3rd when I looked at it. You make some interesting and intelligent points as well (unquoted).
I only responded to you to say that I was INFP the rest of that post was directed at another member I should have made that clearer sorry. You seem defensive, I am not sure? |
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arisu
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while i do have issues with people who mistreat other people regardless of their backgrounds, i don't have issues with NTs in particular. perhaps this is because i was never bullied in school or at home by my siblings. autism did not negatively impact the way other people treated me then or now.
i don't know any aspies or auties in real life so everyone i deal with is an NT. all my friends are NTs. i can't afford to discriminate, lol.
i myself am INFJ, sometimes referred to as the confidant. people do often tell me their secrets, lol. i try very hard to always consider why people do the things they do. that can be applied to serious situations (why did someone attack someone else) or just everyday life (why didn't she hold the elevator for me)?
if i consider why people do the things they do, i can usually find a way to accept what they've done. for example, why did some kids bully my friends growing up? likely, because they were trying to establish dominance, where themselves past victims or where victimized at home. didn't make it right but made it more understandable.
or why didn't she hold the elevator door for me? maybe she didn't see me coming, perhaps she reacted to late, maybe she was in a hurry, for all i know she really needed to pee, lol.
i rarely get angry in life except at true injustice (world hunger, etc.).
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Projectile
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| Well put Arisu. I feel similarly |
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again_with_this
Phoenix
Joined: Jun 14, 2012
Age: 30
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Location: New Jersey, USA
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| Projectile wrote: | | I only responded to you to say that I was INFP the rest of that post was directed at another member I should have made that clearer sorry. You seem defensive, I am not sure? |
I didn't feel defensive so much as confused. It seemed like you were addressing me directly about your type, then started to address some else, without clarifying, so then I wondered if that additional stuff was addressed to me or not. I didn't know if you had mistaken me for someone else, or just didn't differentiate whom you were talking to. No harm, no foul. |
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outofplace
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Joined: Jun 11, 2012
Age: 39
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Location: In A State of Quantum Flux
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I took that test and thought it would come out differently than it did, but it rated me as INTJ. Funny how every time I take one of these things thinking it will discredit my self-diagnosis it seemingly reaffirms it instead.
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