Santa_Claus
Phoenix
Joined: Mar 06, 2007
Posts: 2454
Location: City 17
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| I've lost count with all the times they asked me that. |
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sepia
Deinonychus
Joined: Jul 29, 2004
Age: 36
Posts: 361
Location: N.London
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| Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 4:16 pm Post subject: have you ever questioned your sexuality? |
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well lately i have had to check my sexuality to see if it was still there. apparently it is, but it got a little malnourished somewhere along the way  |
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Likho
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Joined: Jan 24, 2007
Posts: 482
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| Before? No. I used to think I'm a lesbian and it was completely obvious to me. But i fell in love with a guy and i was like, WTF?! :D Now i'm completely lost from that time... sometimes i feel more atracted to guys and sometimes more to women... and sometimes i feel like i don't need sex at all :D I'm a virgin so i think i should just try and find it out ;) |
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jfberge
Phoenix
Joined: Mar 05, 2007
Posts: 506
Location: Cell block B, #9
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| Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 10:31 am Post subject: |
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| I've had a couple people tell me I "must be" gay because of my lack of interest in sex, but their assumption is based on the premise that I would be more highly sexual with men. In reality, I'm simply straight, but somewhat apathetic sexually. |
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tallfreak
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Joined: Oct 22, 2006
Posts: 122
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I've always been attracted to women but never had any sexual interest with them. I questioned my sexuality and realized I have zero interest in guys. At lease with women I'd get aroused but that's as far as I wanted to go with them. To me an orgasm is just a physical association and I don't associate it with anything. I love touching and caressing a woman but I don't care whether or not it goes anywhere. I love the way woman look and think they are extremely beautiful. I can't say this for guys. So I finally concluded that I'm a romantic hetro asexual. BTW, I do have sex with my wife for her pleasure and I enjoy the sound of her orgasms. To me this is the greatest pleasure.
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TruenoBlues
Phoenix
Joined: Feb 20, 2007
Posts: 985
Location: Oswego, IL
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| Posted: Wed Mar 14, 2007 12:48 am Post subject: |
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I have questioned it many times, and I always come up with the same answer: I am straight. Because I know this about myself, I am secure in my sexuality, which allows me to admit when another man is attractive/hot/other. I consider myself lucky in that regard.
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calandale
Stellar's Jay
Joined: Mar 10, 2007
Posts: 15131
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| I too am straight, but I really don't see much that's attractive about guys. Every now and then, I see one that I find very pretty (my taste was similar to my wife's), but most just don't look like anything I'd want to look at. They are either overly buff, too thin, or flabby. |
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GoatOnFire
Greatest Of All Time
Joined: Feb 23, 2007
Posts: 5149
Location: Den of the ecdysiasts
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Trying to decide between straight or asexual.
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seeleunitone
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Joined: Feb 20, 2007
Posts: 20
Location: American
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Um, Is asexuality common with people who have
Asperger syndrome because i've never been attracted to anyone of either gender. And i'm a strong beliver in freedom of choice if someone wants to do something then they should do it.And i belive WOMEN & MEN can be very happy being single if they so choose so. Ps Is pornography really ok to wacth? (I don't belive in hell or heaven because life is hell itself but should women feel guilty if they like to wacth porn or have sex just for heck of it as long as no one gets hurt) I've never had sex but is it normal for women to just have sex for the sake of doing it to see if they enjoy it (Provided they use birth control pills, condoms,getting blood tests regularly,ect.. 
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MrSinister
Sanity Is Madness
Joined: Oct 20, 2006
Age: 33
Posts: 2935
Location: England
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Yes, frequently. I seem to go through phases of thinking I'm one thing or another, with the regularity of a clock's pendulum.
Right now, though, that seems to be on hiatus while I wonder whether I should even bother...
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Chimaera1618
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Joined: Mar 11, 2007
Posts: 100
Location: Austin, TX
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| I am attracted to both genders, but don't really care to pursue either. I have little to no interest in sex. There are much more enriching and productive activities on which a person could could spend their leisure time. |
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calandale
Stellar's Jay
Joined: Mar 10, 2007
Posts: 15131
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| Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2007 11:27 pm Post subject: |
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| Must be nice. |
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Immortal
Phoenix
Joined: Nov 28, 2006
Age: 29
Posts: 632
Location: Maine
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| Posted: Sun Mar 18, 2007 2:40 am Post subject: |
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I have questioned my sexuality, but not in the conventional way. My "Questioning" period was questioning asexuality. I did not become straight until I was about 19, before then I considered myself asexual.
Or maybe it's the other way around... Maybe I am asexual, and I am currently questioning and exploring my sexuality.  (although considering I am a virgin, seems I've done so without all that sex stuff.)
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Ribbons
Snowy Owl
Joined: Mar 20, 2007
Posts: 131
Location: Manchester
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| Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 3:45 pm Post subject: whats in a name? |
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hun i did question it all the time but now ive come to the descison that it does not matter who u i am attracted too, girl or boy but as for coming out and saying what i am i have always felt that no one else needs to know becoz one persons idea of bi and anuthers is different
i would have a relationship with a girl but wud be too intimadated to marry them as this would not be 'conforming' and thats somthing im desperate to do xx |
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Averick
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Joined: Mar 06, 2007
Posts: 2866
Location: My tower upon the crag. Yes, mwahahaha!
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I think that one day i want to explore the notion of heterosexuality. I've never been with a woman, they sort of scare me...
A lot of people i work with think i'm not gay. I get gropped, pinched, slapped, and verbally assaulted and i for one am sick of women treating me like that.. I'm not some sort of wounded headcase who is socially inept. I don't like the "broken wing" mentality that women scorn upon me intermittently. I makes me withdrawal. I have sort of came to a point in my life that makes me so oppositional because of how women try to placate me. Listen to me b***h about something that a sh*t ton of you would die for.. but i know my version sucks too!! |
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