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13 Mar 2014, 2:38 pm

Ok religious followers open your book of SNORT and turn to page 69 and read snort:16 And so she snorted for 40 days and 40 nights as the hunchback of Notre Dame amusith thine feminist with rediculous comments! Snort you maketh me and snortith i shall!


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13 Mar 2014, 3:18 pm

Aspie Otaku, your perseveration on the snort meme approaches trollishness.



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13 Mar 2014, 3:44 pm

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Aspie Otaku, your perseveration on the snort meme approaches trollishness.


Well..considering that perseverance on restrictive and repetitive interests is a characteristic of autism and this is a support site for Autism one could expect this from a few folks here..without considering nefarious intention..

That is..If.. considering nefarious intention when there is not nefarious intention.. was also not a characteristic of the Autism spectrum.. which it also is..according to clinical studies....

Catch 22..IT IS here..for folks on the spectrum attempting to express themselves freely in peace..without getting shot down for who they inherently are..as autistic folks.....


It seems like this would be obvious to me..but apparently it goes amiss often...but that takes cognitive empathy demonstrated to understand that..so as usual..simple human autistic reality is the problem here...with cognitive empathy demonstrated in deficit.. another characteristic of the autism spectrum...

Anyway just throwing that out here..as the guy's just expressing himself in his natural autistic way...

I for one do not want to tell him in metaphor...'quite hands' dude.....been on the receiving end of that quite a bit here..and expect it 2..for the logical inferences as claimed here NOW..in this very logical post per the science of what is known about the folks..in general who post here...autistic folks....

Autistic folks are natural trolls...it's just the way they are..but there is usually no nefarious intention..as part of their mission..just to express themselves..and be part of something..anything...in life..

So in other words..the guy ain't hurting no one here..for just expressing himself freely..since no one else will stand up for folks bullied for who they are..UNINTENTIONALLY SADLY ENOUGH..BY OTHERS..often.......on this site..but i WILL cause my hands or feet.. are no longer 'quieted' anywhere....by anyone..i am FREE! to be my own autistic self....


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13 Mar 2014, 7:47 pm

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Aspie Otaku, your perseveration on the snort meme approaches trollishness.
I was hoping to mak you laugh with that post. :(


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13 Mar 2014, 8:57 pm

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Aspie Otaku, your perseveration on the snort meme approaches trollishness.
I was hoping to mak you laugh with that post. :(


I appreciate the thought. :)

It was funny at first, on the one thread, but having it follow me from thread to thread to thread starts to make it annoying. If you bring it up a few months from now, I'll probably laugh again, but right now I'm tired of it. It starts to feel like I can't say anything without the thread getting hijacked.



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13 Mar 2014, 9:31 pm

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do you have any responses to the rest of the post?


I do.

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Regardless of the legal definition of trafficking, that chart (the one you pointed me to, on pages 8-9 of the prior link) examines hypothetical scenarios and whether or not law enforcement and social services would hypothetically recognize them as trafficking. It does not address the actual ratios of people trafficked for labor vs. sex, and that is the question that we need to answer if we're going to see if the prosecutions for sex vs. labor trafficking are disproportionate.


I see my mistake. I meant the tables of charges and convictions on pages 5 and 6. My PDF reader counted the cover and index pages. Sorry.

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soldiering for pay, not directly under the banner of some nation or in some nation's army, = mercenary.

That's not a pejorative term, it's a descriptive one. Not all, or even most, mercenaries will fight for anyone or any cause. I'm sure that most of the people you list were decent people just looking to make a living.


I'm cool with using that definition, but I'm not sure why we're on the topic of mercenaries. Did you read the job titles of the dead above? Also, I'll re-quote you:

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Your argument is 'female soldiers aren't treated any worse than mercenaries'? Really?


If it isn't pejorative, then what point were you making? We'd already covered whether women were treated as well as male soldiers in similar jobs, and you didn't seem offended by the comparison. Why would comparing them to mercenaries - if I had done so - be any more offensive, unless it were pejorative?

In the list that I posted earlier, I specifically picked contractors whose jobs would be very similar to women in the Army, except for the fact that all of the men were unarmed civilians. Some of the jobs are almost drop-in replacements for military positions.

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That doesn't justify the fact that you seem to think that treating female soldiers like mercenaries, just because they are female, is OK.


Which is moot because I didn't say that, nor did I say anything like it. I hadn't brought up mercenaries at all. You could have mistaken "civilian contractors" (my actual words) for military or security contractors. But why would you have leapt to that conclusion? News reports of contractor deaths were full of just the kind of unarmed civilians that I named earlier. And the list should have cleared that up.

None of the men that I named were mercenaries, private security contractors or PMCs. They were truck drivers, translators, engineers, construction foremen, mechanics, electricians and quality control technicians.

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{while treating female soldiers "like mercenaries" isn't OK,} Men and women working for the same company and doing the same tasks should have equal pay and equal benefits.


A little bit ago you rolled your eyes at the distinction between risk and fortune; now you're completely comfortable making a graveside argument that it's really the specific bureaucratic entity that a person could find a job with that determines whether their widow(er) and children deserve survivor benefits. Wow.

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A lot of the problems that Vets in general have with employment has to do with PTSD, alcoholism, and drug abuse, rather than bias. That's a serious problem that our VA needed, and needs, to do a better job handling, but it's not an issue of feminism; it's an issue of war, and decommissioning.


Yep, I saw that also when looking into XFilesGeek's response. Retracted.

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The man was half-responsible for the pregnancy, so at the very least he should pay half of the theroretical cost for terminating it; whether the woman uses the funds for termination or as partial support for the pregnancy is up to her.


I would support that.

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Do I need men? Plural? It depends on your definition of "need."


I don't make everything that I need, so I have no problem saying that I need other people, and that's plural regardless of gender.

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As for waltzing past strident opposition, both parties seem pretty good at passing things with 51% majorities, or even with minorities when the opposition is divided. I doubt you'd have trouble if you had all women on board. Don't put all the blame for it on men.

51% of elected representatives. Look into gerrymandering and into voting pattern near elections vs. between elections.


Look into it? I've participated in it. I used to work as a Democratic organizer. The Republicans couldn't win a Soil and Water Board seat in my district if they fielded a black, bisexual, woman with a doctorate from Yale, the personal blessing of the Dalai Lama, her own non-profit whale sanctuary, the endorsement off all of the world's puppies, and Ryan Gosling as her campaign spokesman. We're as blue as a Smurf on downers.

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Have you paid any attention to the proportion of women in the legislative branch?


Indeed I have. I used to know most of the elected Democratic women in my state. They included the speaker of the state house, who is in some ways more powerful than the governor. I may have spent more talking about policy with her than some of her advisors.

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Our representative government is hardly representative. There are still huge swaths of this country where a female candidate is entirely unelectable under any circumstances.


What do you mean by "entirely unelectable"? Winning elections is hard. I've had my candidates win 60:40 and lose 60:40. In both of those cases I had the best candidate by a wide margin. I could excuse my failure to get the latter one elected by saying that voters were biased against a Jew, but that would be lame. He had fewer negatives by whatever standard you applied. The opponent had great name recognition, which we didn't, but we could still have won.

It's been done: My councilwoman for eight years is now the mayor of my city, which has a population of half-a-million. That's not a bad gig. Her council successor is also a woman. My US House rep. is a black Muslim. One of my state's two senate seats has been held by three consecutive Jews for a total of 36 years, starting in 1978. That's not a bad result in a German-Lutheran state with a tradition of grumbling anti-Semitism. My state senator for the last decade is gay. The chief of police is a lesbian, as was the fire chief until recently. Several of them have survived scandals that might have sunk "more electable" politicians.

If you're upset that not enough [insert your favorite flavor of candidate] get elected, then get your butt out there and bust it. That's so much better than making a statement.

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The complaints by current female soldiers are about respect and promotions. Not all of those men chose to be there. Not all of them were war criminals. Not all of them fired weapons. You are 40 years delinquent in giving men jobs that they deserve. As a voter, why should I expect you to treat me any more fairly? Why should I vote in ways that empower you?


Because equality is a fundamental issue. If you do not support equality now, you have no right to complain about equality if the scales shift.


The inverse of your statement is that if you do support equality, then you do have the right to complain about equality when the scales shift. I'm complaining.

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The right wing is succeeding {in rolling back abortion rights} because they were given an opening. Roe v. Wade has been law for 40 years, and it hands all control to women while leaving men with almost-equal consequences.

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The right wing is not rolling back abortion rights out of some misguided sense of wanting 'equality for men.' Seriously, I can't believe that you're even making that claim if you've heard any of the rhetoric from the anti-abortion crusaders.


I did say that they were succeeding in rolling back freedoms that I don't have by way of an opening, and that's true. What about the word "opening" implies love of something that isn't the object of the sentence, and isn't mentioned in said sentence? An example: The EU couldn't bring itself to offer Ukraine a path to membership, and their aid package was sparing. Putin took advantage of that opening to pitch his Eurasian Customs Union. That doesn't mean that he was infatuated with Ukrainians and planning to marry every single one of them, men and women alike. It means that he had an opening. And when the US saw the protests as convenient, that didn't mean that we were going to offer Ukraine a super-duper-extra-special aid package, or even export more gas so that Kiev doesn't freeze in the winter. (We very much haven't.) It means that we had an opening.

A political candidate has to give red meat to her base while looking like the lesser evil to everyone else. Whatever she manages beyond that is icing. You only need to neutralize an issue as long as you can win on other issues, and that applies to winning a demographic as well as an office. The polling on abortion has been 50:50 for decades, so they only need to swing a few seats. That's it.

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Conscription is an outdated and completely unecesary system. It is obsolete, and with ever increasingly advanced technology, the number of military personnel we actually need to maintain the same effectiveness will continue to go down. It shouldn't be about signing women up in the selective service registration, it should be eliminating it altogether.


Congress can't eliminate the draft in any meaningful way. The US didn't have a "peacetime" draft until the Selective Service Act of 1917, which was a preparation for entry into World War I (we hadn't declared war yet). Before that, Congress would pass a bill if they could claim a need to conscript soldiers. The only thing that you could "eliminate" would be the legislative authority of Congress. (Pause on that for a moment.) If it's true that we'll never need the draft, then it should be no problem to pass a constitutional amendment prohibiting conscription.

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One of my riding buddies was an infantryman in Iraq, and his CO was a female colonel who was awarded the Bronze Star. She never left her office. Originally she was given something called the Combat Action Badge. If a mortar lands within a mile of where you worked, it's considered a combat zone and you qualify for it. That's how she got it. She was so upset that she wasn't given a better medal that she went to her immediate superior and yelled at him until she was given the Bronze Star.
Unfortunately, the only realistic way for a woman to gain combat action experience is for her to use unconventional methods to pad her service record. And to be perfectly fair, there are plenty of men who play the same ridiculous games rather than earn it the way they are supposed to


I would be a bit surprised if you found a male soldier who'd been given the bronze star for cussing-out his commanding officer. I do see that the Air Force caused a stir by giving them out too easily, but this woman was an Army colonel.

Besides, how far will you go with this? What if it's an officer back-stabbing subordinates? (That was her other adorable quality.) What if the back-stabbing left subordinates unsure of what they could report up their chain of command without provoking her? What if some civilians really can't advance without robbing people?



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13 Mar 2014, 11:53 pm

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Aspie Otaku, your perseveration on the snort meme approaches trollishness.
I was hoping to mak you laugh with that post. :(


I appreciate the thought. :)

It was funny at first, on the one thread, but having it follow me from thread to thread to thread starts to make it annoying. If you bring it up a few months from now, I'll probably laugh again, but right now I'm tired of it. It starts to feel like I can't say anything without the thread getting hijacked.
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I see my mistake. I meant the tables of charges and convictions on pages 5 and 6. My PDF reader counted the cover and index pages. Sorry.

Ok. That makes more sense :)
There was only one charge of labor trafficking. It looks like there was no conviction for that, but it's not a statistically significant sample to show that labor trafficking isn't taken seriously by the system. As for why there was only one charge, there are at least the following two possibilities: first, that there is virtually no labor trafficking in that state, or second, that there is labor trafficking but the front line of law enforcement is ignoring it. I still haven't seen any evidence for the latter.

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Your argument is 'female soldiers aren't treated any worse than mercenaries'? Really?

If it isn't pejorative, then what point were you making? We'd already covered whether women were treated as well as male soldiers in similar jobs, and you didn't seem offended by the comparison. Why would comparing them to mercenaries - if I had done so - be any more offensive, unless it were pejorative?

A soldier and a mercenary, while doing the same job, are not in the same position. Female soldiers and male soldiers doing the same thing should receive the same pay and have the same benefits. Mercenaries get paid better and can quit any time; female soldiers, like male soldiers, get paid poorly and cannot quit. The only potential compensation for being a soldier is the potential for recognition and promotion gained, in part, but being in combat - something that the female soldiers weren't recognized as doing, even when they were. All of the costs, none of the benefits.

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That doesn't justify the fact that you seem to think that treating female soldiers like mercenaries, just because they are female, is OK.

Which is moot because I didn't say that, nor did I say anything like it.

Yeah, you did. I said, 'female soldiers don't get promotions or recognition for their service the way male soldiers do,' and you said, 'Well, yeah, but neither do mercenaries {whoops: "civilian contractors."}.' That's a pretty direct comparison.

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You could have mistaken "civilian contractors" (my actual words) for military or security contractors. But why would you have leapt to that conclusion? News reports of contractor deaths were full of just the kind of unarmed civilians that I named earlier. And the list should have cleared that up.

We were talking about women on the front lines, in combat, and whether or not they were recognized for being there.

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A little bit ago you rolled your eyes at the distinction between risk and fortune; now you're completely comfortable making a graveside argument that it's really the specific bureaucratic entity that a person could find a job with that determines whether their widow(er) and children deserve survivor benefits. Wow.

That's the way the world works. My pay and benefits if I work at one hospital (or 'bureaucratic entity') will be different than if I work for another hospital, or for the VA, or for the department of public health, or for a pharmacy chain. If you want to compare pay and benefits between men and women, you have to compare within companies.
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I don't make everything that I need, so I have no problem saying that I need other people, and that's plural regardless of gender.

Sure. Would it make a difference to you, though, if all of the other people were men, or if all of them were women? Say they're all the same people with the same jobs and the same relationship to you, except that their gender had changed.

Personally, I kind of like having a mixture; I'd rather have some men and some women, rather than all of one or the other, even if all of my needs as a social human could be met by one or the other.
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Look into it? I've participated in it. I used to work as a Democratic organizer. The Republicans couldn't win a Soil and Water Board seat in my district if they fielded a black, bisexual, woman with a doctorate from Yale, the personal blessing of the Dalai Lama, her own non-profit whale sanctuary, the endorsement off all of the world's puppies, and Ryan Gosling as her campaign spokesman. We're as blue as a Smurf on downers.

Ok, I admit: you got me to LOL with that.
If you're upset that not enough [insert your favorite flavor of candidate] get elected, then get your butt out there and bust it. That's so much better than making a statement.
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The inverse of your statement is that if you do support equality, then you do have the right to complain about equality when the scales shift. I'm complaining.

How do you see the scales shifting against men? There *are* men's rights issues that I currently see as problems, some of them emergent, but so far you haven't listed anything modern besides the fact that women's reproductive rights have improved faster than mens.'


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The right wing is succeeding {in rolling back abortion rights} because they were given an opening. Roe v. Wade has been law for 40 years, and it hands all control to women while leaving men with almost-equal consequences.

*snort*
The right wing is not rolling back abortion rights out of some misguided sense of wanting 'equality for men.' Seriously, I can't believe that you're even making that claim if you've heard any of the rhetoric from the anti-abortion crusaders.

I did say that they were succeeding in rolling back freedoms that I don't have by way of an opening, and that's true. What about the word "opening" implies love of something that isn't the object of the sentence, and isn't mentioned in said sentence?

It's not the word, "opening," it's the phrase, "...it hands all control to women while leaving men with almost-equal consequences."

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The polling on abortion has been 50:50 for decades, so they only need to swing a few seats. That's it.

So you're saying that the swing voters against abortion are men who think, 'If I can't have it, neither can you'? I personally don't think that most men are that selfish.

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Congress can't eliminate the draft in any meaningful way. The US didn't have a "peacetime" draft until the Selective Service Act of 1917, which was a preparation for entry into World War I (we hadn't declared war yet). Before that, Congress would pass a bill if they could claim a need to conscript soldiers. The only thing that you could "eliminate" would be the legislative authority of Congress. (Pause on that for a moment.) If it's true that we'll never need the draft, then it should be no problem to pass a constitutional amendment prohibiting conscription.

It's far more likely that, should a draft actually be applied, public pressure will force an end to exceptions for wealth, education, gender, etc. Congress might not be able to end the draft, but it can control how it's applied.
Tbh, I'm not so sure that a completely random draft is a bad idea, even in peacetime. It would mix up the types of people and the skills of people who got drafted, and put more 'skin in the game' for legislators and the wealthy.

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Besides, how far will you go with this? What if it's an officer back-stabbing subordinates? (That was her other adorable quality.) What if the back-stabbing left subordinates unsure of what they could report up their chain of command without provoking her? What if some civilians really can't advance without robbing people?

How about officers raping subordinates and then refusing to allow them to report up the chain? You're taking one very bad example and extrapolating out to all female soldiers.
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Conscription is an outdated and completely unecesary system. It is obsolete, and with ever increasingly advanced technology, the number of military personnel we actually need to maintain the same effectiveness will continue to go down.

One would certainly think. Historically, though, numerical superiority has always won the day.

There's a Chinese in every armor, even "impenetrable" technology. If all you rely upon are armed drones, it's only a matter of time before you experience a failure, whether a hacker deploys a virus or you have an internal threat that compromises your tech solutions. Nobody is completely free from sabotage, and you might be surprised how quickly a technological threat evens out the battlefield.


I am not proposing that we eliminate people from the military, just that we have not realistically considered the fact that a couple of drones can easily replace the capabilities of a much more expensive fighter.


Yes we have, and no, they can't. The Reaper isn't a fighter, and isn't meant to be. It's slower than a WWII Wildcat. It has no gun, so unless it's carrying Sidewinders, a 70-year-old old prop-driven fighter would be a serious threat to it. At the moment, it's not even a complete replacement for a Vietnam-era bomber.

Comparing an old A-6 Intruder to a new Reaper drone:

Speed: 648 mph vs. 300 mph (respectively)
Rage: 3,245 mi. vs. 1,151 mi.
Payload: 18,000 lbs. vs. 3,800 lbs.

Predators and Reapers flying near Iran have to be escorted by fighters because Iranian pilots (in Vietnam-era fighters) have lots of fun shooting them down.

The Global Hawk is claimed to be trivially cheaper to fly than the venerable U-2, but it was the other way around until pretty recently.

There's been quite a bit of debate in the DoD and the Obama administration about which programs to kill. I was clued into the above issue by one of Chuck Hagel's statements, and while trying to look it up again I came across this:

http://www.aviationweek.com/Article.asp ... 669902.xml

I support simpler systems. You can make the same less-is-more argument about about bloated consumer products, and simplifying them would take a big bite out of CO2 emissions. British Colombia has a home insulation program that cuts more CO2 than giving all of those people a Prius would, is dirt-cheap in terms of direct costs, and also requires no research grants because it doesn't rely on miracle technologies.



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I see my mistake. I meant the tables of charges and convictions on pages 5 and 6. My PDF reader counted the cover and index pages. Sorry.

Ok. That makes more sense :)
There was only one charge of labor trafficking. It looks like there was no conviction for that, but it's not a statistically significant sample to show that labor trafficking isn't taken seriously by the system.


That would apply only to the conviction rate for labor-trafficking prosecutions, where the sample size is one. The sample size for prosecutions is 990 in 2006 (the year that I cited), and the lowest was 678 (2009). I've seen two-way state elections called to (a claimed) +/-4% on a sample of no more than 800. Even an uncertainty of +/-20% would be good enough when the ratio is 989:1.

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As for why there was only one charge, there are at least the following two possibilities: first, that there is virtually no labor trafficking in that state, or second, that there is labor trafficking but the front line of law enforcement is ignoring it. I still haven't seen any evidence for the latter.


That principle applies to a lot of things (see comments on vehicle insurance below).

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Your argument is 'female soldiers aren't treated any worse than mercenaries'? Really?

If it isn't pejorative, then what point were you making? We'd already covered whether women were treated as well as male soldiers in similar jobs, and you didn't seem offended by the comparison. Why would comparing them to mercenaries - if I had done so - be any more offensive, unless it were pejorative?

A soldier and a mercenary, while doing the same job, are not in the same position. Female soldiers and male soldiers doing the same thing should receive the same pay and have the same benefits. Mercenaries get paid better and can quit any time; female soldiers, like male soldiers, get paid poorly and cannot quit. The only potential compensation for being a soldier is the potential for recognition and promotion gained, in part, but being in combat - something that the female soldiers weren't recognized as doing, even when they were. All of the costs, none of the benefits.


Apply that to your previous point, then: (a) The risk of a draft is non-zero. (b) I'm paid nothing in return. If (a) is false, then a constitutional ban on conscription should be better than the alternative that you suggested. If (a) is true, then the the correct comparison is pay-for-risk. (b) is not false.

I have not looked at pay for submarine crews. As recently as 5 years ago, pay for Coast Guard was decent, especially considering that the benefits included dental care and housing as well as health coverage, and that college experience was only required for some positions (like helicopter pilots). I was compensated less-well overall while working as a volunteer coordinator at a non-profit when I was younger. It's not that I don't respect national or public service, but that I've done it. The Coast Guard pay scale looked better.

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That doesn't justify the fact that you seem to think that treating female soldiers like mercenaries, just because they are female, is OK.

Which is moot because I didn't say that, nor did I say anything like it.

Yeah, you did. I said, 'female soldiers don't get promotions or recognition for their service the way male soldiers do,' and you said, 'Well, yeah, but neither do mercenaries {whoops: "civilian contractors."}.' That's a pretty direct comparison.


In that case, you said that we were 'officially recognizing the work that women already do in the same dangerous roles as men.' Which you know is wrong, by ten-fold.

After which you said: "I was pointing out that women are doing the front-line work that they are considered physically qualified for by the armed services. If you, or the army, wants them to do more, they're going to have to change some of the physical requirements."

Which brings us to the doozy: You know that further gender integration will be by executive order, just as racial integration of the military was (President Truman's Executive Order 9981 (1948)). The president has already promised to do this for the submarine service. He's very friendly to your position; so friendly that he's willing to fudge facts to give WRAs red meat (see below). He's not running again, so he has nothing to lose. Furthermore, he has more support among women than men, so why not reward his base on the way out?

Therefore this thread of our debate is moot:

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and it's usually the most chest-beating of MRA-types who insist that women shouldn't be in the Armed Forces at all, much less in combat.

One moment you declare yourself independent from traditionalist men, calling them oppressors, and now you hide behind them? How has that dwindling minority stopped you?

I didn't say that I agreed with the MRA types; I said that they oppose feminist efforts to open up the military.

Agreeing with them? I said that you were hiding behind them, and you are. Besides, your second statement isn't true.

How am I "hiding behind them"?
Were women supposed to just waltz into combat as if the strident opposition to them being there was nothing more than a gentle breeze?


Even if you extend it to "MRAs and patriarchs," you're still hiding behind them. As noted earlier, the president can easily make the change without Congress, and without my vote. He probably will, after he's milked some more mid-term votes out of it. Right now that's the only thing holding up promotions and pay for female soldiers.

You also tried to inch back to your original position by bringing up a Panetta quote that sounded like the same thing:

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sophism

Perhaps that was deliberate. You've said that you work in medicine, so you would know the difference between a risk and an outcome. At least I hope you would. A patient with a risk-factor (like smoking) is a lot different from a dead patient. If you roll your eyes at that difference on the job, too, I would definitely not want you as my clinician.

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You could have mistaken "civilian contractors" (my actual words) for military or security contractors. But why would you have leapt to that conclusion? News reports of contractor deaths were full of just the kind of unarmed civilians that I named earlier. And the list should have cleared that up.

We were talking about women on the front lines, in combat, and whether or not they were recognized for being there.


Sure, and you defined the front line as any road in Iraq, and combat as driving convoy trucks.

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I don't make everything that I need, so I have no problem saying that I need other people, and that's plural regardless of gender.

Sure. Would it make a difference to you, though, if all of the other people were men, or if all of them were women? Say they're all the same people with the same jobs and the same relationship to you, except that their gender had changed.


Probably not, and I would have a good idea given that my family was gender integrated. Right now not many women work in the nastier jobs. (The ones who do are really cool.) Most of those jobs have even less glamor than infantry work, hence my nausea over making a press-op of putting women in special forces before the really hard, unloved stuff. And saying that they may fight in infantry doesn't mean that they will. If they're just doing the cool stuff like flying planes, that won't be equal at all.

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The inverse of your statement is that if you do support equality, then you do have the right to complain about equality when the scales shift. I'm complaining.

How do you see the scales shifting against men? There *are* men's rights issues that I currently see as problems, some of them emergent, but so far you haven't listed anything modern besides the fact that women's reproductive rights have improved faster than mens.'


1: The marital estate is split 50:50 on the assumption that a domestic spouse contributed as much to the household wellbeing, whether that's true or not. You could say that it's too hard to measure, but the value of traditionally male work isn't easy to measure either. We don't even try. We just leave it to the tender mercies of the market. That could work for both roles.

2: I would have paid a higher rate for auto insurance than a girl of the same age until I was 24, purely because of my gender. That was justified with raw statistics from the time. A lot of landmark women's rights measures (like Title IX) wouldn't have passed if the decision had been made by those statistics. Ditto for current efforts to get girls into STEM programs. How do you know that men wouldn't drive at least as safely as women if we were encouraged to take better care of ourselves? When my mom asked me to open jars, it wasn't because I had a higher grip-strength (I was a kid, so I didn't), it was because it hurt. When I'm gentler with my body, I drive more gently. That's not because of some wisdom about the risk of accidents, but because driving hard jerks you around. Further, how do you know that we don't drive as safely already? The data come from insurance claims and police reports. Insurance companies don't directly care if I get in wrecks; they care if they get billed. The same argument that you made above about enforcement-rate and prevalence being separate applies here, too.

3: In my state, the mother is given 100% custody by default. She can raise the kid to hate me, while billing me for it. I can be thrown in prison if a judge thinks that I should make more money. Even a deadbeat mother who fails to take care of her kid is unlikely to go to jail. The kid might be taken away, but the state picks up the tab.

4: Free trade has hit male-dominated industries hardest. Quite a few others are protected by certification requirements: Medicine, dentistry, accounting, teaching, law, etc. Those certifications often fail to protect consumers. Consumer Reports demonstrated that with the ADA. I hear often that old-school industry can't compete, when it's actually one of the few sectors that has to. The consumer-protection arguments for certification by the ADA, AMA and ABA apply just as well to the design and manufacture of a toaster: anything that plugs into wall current has enough voltage and amperage to electrocute people or start fires. They're one of the most frequent causes; in fact five children were just killed in my city in a house fire that was started by a space heater. It would be just as reasonable to require that home appliances be designed and manufactured in a US jurisdiction and under US law and regulatory scrutiny. Ditto for drugs.

5: Education is slanted away from boys' strengths. Good students usually have tunnel-awareness and a knack for solving problems with deductive logic over many steps. There are boys who have high proximal awareness and a gift for solving problems with inductive logic drawn from lots of data. Maybe as we do more with GPU clusters and sensor networks, we'll realize that we've been flunking kids who kick-butt at some of the toughest problems.

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Ok, tell me what I, as a feminist today, am supposed to do about a sexist policy from my grandparent's time.

Oh, about what I, as a guy, should do about past hardships borne by women. It's your call.

When have I, or any other feminist, ever asked you to do anything about past hardships borne by women?


...it's fair to bring up shaming:

1: "Women make 77 cents for every dollar a man makes." Both you and the president know that this is wrong. If you correct for the degrees that people pursue, it's just a few cents. Even that doesn't capture it: both of my parents have the same degree, but my dad works in a much tougher specialty. He's an attending physician on an inpatient cancer ward; she's a internist who worked part-time. Yes, he made more. No, that's not unfair.

1: The "glass ceiling/good old boys" argument - :) Sure. My grandfather was a successful industrialist. As far as I'm aware, he never got a promotion. When he wanted to move up from a factory job, he had to quit and found his own company. It took 40 years to build it into something worthwhile. That was common.

3: "Women who flew target-tugs (WASPS) were unfairly denied jobs as airline pilots after the war." Being an airline pilot was a prestigious job, and lots of fliers came back from the war with much more experience (like flying the hump). Air travel wasn't as safe. Planes didn't have the service ceiling to fly above storms, so forced landings were more common. A military transport pilot would have landed on dirt runways and in fields. He would have flown more at night and in bad weather. Picking a proven pilot is no more unfair than colleges accepting only the applicants with the best scores, even though that doesn't always translate into top performance at a higher level or in real life.

4: "College girls are frequently raped." I roomed with a bunch of freshman girls when I was in my mid-20s. They giggled about tricking a male student into undressing by making a fake sexual offer. Those aren't girls who are afraid of being raped; those are girls who know damn' well that they almost certainly won't be, because the guys are effectively deterred by draconian laws. These girls had older friends. If the "one in three" accusation were even close, they would have had enough forewarning to be unlikely to do what they did. They were constantly drrinking. It wasn't the bogus stereotype of sober guys "getting them drunk" and f*****g them. Not even close. They put on the parties and procured the booze. (I would know: They tried to get me to buy the keg for them.) They encouraged the guys to drink.

5: "Men have always been in charge." Bull. I was raised by a Catholic dad and a feminist mother. I'm still de-programming from Catholicism, but the maternalistic brainwashing was worse, hands down. Even if feminists "came out" in the 70s, it's not that new. My grandfather did lots of things that made no sense if you knew his emotions, and most of them fit his mother's morals much better. She was exercising proxy-power over an influential member of a supposedly male dominated generation, all from her grave. Not bad. I recommend H.L. Mencken's "Damn!" as a beginner's guide to de-programming.

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I did say that they were succeeding in rolling back freedoms that I don't have by way of an opening, and that's true. What about the word "opening" implies love of something that isn't the object of the sentence, and isn't mentioned in said sentence?

It's not the word, "opening," it's the phrase, "...it hands all control to women while leaving men with almost-equal consequences."


Opening: that which can be passed through

Hapless Dumbocrats: those who left it open

You've confused the doorway with the doorman, the tunnel with the dynamite.

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That's not completely true. One of my riding buddies was an infantryman in Iraq, and his CO was a female colonel who was awarded the Bronze Star. She never left her office. Originally she was given something called the Combat Action Badge. If a mortar lands within a mile of where you worked, it's considered a combat zone and you qualify for it. That's how she got it. She was so upset that she wasn't given a better medal that she went to her immediate superior and yelled at him until she was given the Bronze Star.

I'm not sure whether to be more worried about women who fought and weren't promoted, or women who didn't fight, were promoted, and abused it.


And?

Had a guy in my squadron who received a Purple Heart because a piece of a rock knicked his cheek when a IED went off. Playing the system isn't limited to females.


The Purple Heart isn't quite the same. British generals in WWII made fun of Americans for giving them out at all (prior medals having been mostly for valor). Getting a sacrifice-medal for a mild injury is inflation. What she did isn't even related to what the medal was meant for, and isn't admirable.

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The complaints by current female soldiers are about respect and promotions. Not all of those men chose to be there. Not all of them were war criminals. Not all of them fired weapons. You are 40 years delinquent in giving men jobs that they deserve. As a voter, why should I expect you to treat me any more fairly? Why should I vote in ways that empower you?


I never denied anyone a job.


And the men in my family are innocent of most feminist accusations: my great-grandfather (you know, back when evil men with horns and hooves ran the world) was willing to hire women into professional positions before 1920, before women in most states could vote, when most women didn't have jobs in the market. My grandfather continued that tradition. He arranged for my mother to be born at a hospital run by women, in the early 1950s. Before that, they lived on frontiers where you couldn't have kept prisoners or controlled people of either gender if you had wanted to. Just keeping your own hide intact was hard enough.



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The Purple Heart isn't quite the same. British generals in WWII made fun of Americans for giving them out at all (prior medals having been mostly for valor). Getting a sacrifice-medal for a mild injury is inflation. What she did isn't even related to what the medal was meant for, and isn't admirable.


Touche.

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And the men in my family are innocent of most feminist accusations: my great-grandfather (you know, back when evil men with horns and hooves ran the world) was willing to hire women into professional positions before 1920, before women in most states could vote, when most women didn't have jobs in the market. My grandfather continued that tradition. He arranged for my mother to be born at a hospital run by women, in the early 1950s. Before that, they lived on frontiers where you couldn't have kept prisoners or controlled people of either gender if you had wanted to. Just keeping your own hide intact was hard enough.


I agree completely.

Good luck to you, sir.

Just to be clear, I don't think men really ever had it "easier" than women, at least not lower and middle-class men.


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:)

XFilesGeek wrote:
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The Purple Heart isn't quite the same. British generals in WWII made fun of Americans for giving them out at all (prior medals having been mostly for valor). Getting a sacrifice-medal for a mild injury is inflation. What she did isn't even related to what the medal was meant for, and isn't admirable.


Touche.

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And the men in my family are innocent of most feminist accusations: my great-grandfather (you know, back when evil men with horns and hooves ran the world) was willing to hire women into professional positions before 1920, before women in most states could vote, when most women didn't have jobs in the market. My grandfather continued that tradition. He arranged for my mother to be born at a hospital run by women, in the early 1950s. Before that, they lived on frontiers where you couldn't have kept prisoners or controlled people of either gender if you had wanted to. Just keeping your own hide intact was hard enough.


I agree completely.

Good luck to you, sir.

Just to be clear, I don't think men really ever had it "easier" than women, at least not lower and middle-class men.



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reposting your link for easier access:
https://dps.mn.gov/divisions/ojp/forms- ... 0final.pdf

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There was only one charge of labor trafficking. It looks like there was no conviction for that, but it's not a statistically significant sample to show that labor trafficking isn't taken seriously by the system.

That would apply only to the conviction rate for labor-trafficking prosecutions, where the sample size is one. The sample size for prosecutions is 990 in 2006 (the year that I cited), and the lowest was 678 (2009). I've seen two-way state elections called to (a claimed) +/-4% on a sample of no more than 800. Even an uncertainty of +/-20% would be good enough when the ratio is 989:1.

Those numbers don't appear on the charts on pages 5-6 of the source you cited.
There is one *charge* of labor trafficking, and no convictions, for a conviction rate of zero and an n of 1.

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(a) The risk of a draft is non-zero.

the risk of draft is non-zero in the same way that lim-> 0 is non-zero.

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(b) I'm paid nothing in return.

If you got paid for the time it took you to fill out a card and mail it, at, say, $20/hour, how much do you think that you'd make? $5 maybe, if you did it really, really slowly.
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In that case, you said that we were 'officially recognizing the work that women already do in the same dangerous roles as men.' Which you know is wrong, by ten-fold.

What I said was that the Army "allowing" women to serve on the front lines is simply acknowledging that women are already on the front lines.

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Which brings us to the doozy: You know that further gender integration will be by executive order, just as racial integration of the military was (President Truman's Executive Order 9981 (1948)). The president has already promised to do this for the submarine service. He's very friendly to your position; so friendly that he's willing to fudge facts to give WRAs red meat (see below). He's not running again, so he has nothing to lose. Furthermore, he has more support among women than men, so why not reward his base on the way out?

What?
You think that the Pres. is going to open up all military occupations to all people, regardless of fitness? One thing he is, is pragmatic; that's not going to happen. Hell, even most feminists don't want physical limitations changed; as much as we love, for example, the ADA, we're not advocating that corporations should be forced to hire people with Aspergers for PR positions.

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You also tried to inch back to your original position by bringing up a Panetta quote that sounded like the same thing:

Uh, no. The Panetta quote was 1)part of a larger article that supported my position better than the quote itself, and 2)tangential, rather than direct support for my position. I don't have to find someone parroting my exact words for them to still be in basic agreement with what I'm arguing.

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Perhaps that was deliberate. You've said that you work in medicine, so you would know the difference between a risk and an outcome. At least I hope you would. A patient with a risk-factor (like smoking) is a lot different from a dead patient. If you roll your eyes at that difference on the job, too, I would definitely not want you as my clinician.

I'm well aware of the difference between a risk and an outcome, but what you don't seem to get is that the difference is irrelevant to this argument. You not only have risk -> zero of being drafted, you have risk -> zero of actually dying in combat afterward; women on submarines, or on the front lines (even as medics) in Afghanistan, have both higher risk than you and higher death outcomes than the average, undrafted, unenlisted US male.

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Sure, and you defined the front line as any road in Iraq, and combat as driving convoy trucks.

Oh? Where did I do that? I certainly didn't *think* it, so it's hard for me to see where I *defined* it as such.

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If they're just doing the cool stuff like flying planes, that won't be equal at all.

Agreed... but I think that you don't know much about women in the military if you think that they're 'just doing the cool stuff' right now.

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1: The marital estate is split 50:50 on the assumption that a domestic spouse contributed as much to the household wellbeing, whether that's true or not. You could say that it's too hard to measure, but the value of traditionally male work isn't easy to measure either. We don't even try. We just leave it to the tender mercies of the market. That could work for both roles.

Uh... what? You think that the default assumption should be other than 50:50?

2: I would have paid a higher rate for auto insurance than a girl of the same age until I was 24, purely because of my gender. That was justified with raw statistics from the time.
A lot of landmark women's rights measures (like Title IX) wouldn't have passed if the decision had been made by those statistics...
What? Title IX was largely about women's opportunity in sports and education What does that have to do with an actual differential in lethal car crashes between young men and young women?

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How do you know that men wouldn't drive at least as safely as women if we were encouraged to take better care of ourselves?

That sounds like a feminist talking point :D
We want young men better socialized to recognize their own needs, as well as those of others, rather than dismissing reckless and insensitive behavior as 'boys will be boys.'

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When my mom asked me to open jars, it wasn't because I had a higher grip-strength (I was a kid, so I didn't), it was because it hurt.

That's kind of a bitchy thing for a mom to do.
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...how do you know that we don't drive as safely already? The data come from insurance claims and police reports. Insurance companies don't directly care if I get in wrecks; they care if they get billed. The same argument that you made above about enforcement-rate and prevalence being separate applies here, too.

The same way that medical insurance people 'know' that I'll cost more because I've been diagnosed with asthma. Not that I've ever had an asthma attack that has landed me in the ER, or even urgent care, in the 25 years since I was dx'd, but they still treat me as 'uninsurable' (or 'insure only with lots of hoops' since the ACA). They don't care about you; they care about some non-existent generalized person who looks a little bit like you.
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3: In my state, the mother is given 100% custody by default.
Really? What state is that? I'm surprised; I thought that the default these days was joint custody.
You're right that this should be changed; joint custody is better for the kid, assuming that both parents are competent. I've only ever lived where joint custody was the default, or joint custody with *primary* custody given to the 'primary care giver,' regardless of the primary care giver's gender.

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4: Free trade has hit male-dominated industries hardest.
Yeah, being paid more for the same-level of job sucks when the cuts come down, eh?

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Quite a few others are protected by certification requirements: Medicine, dentistry, accounting, teaching, law, etc. Those certifications often fail to protect consumers. Consumer Reports demonstrated that with the ADA. I hear often that old-school industry can't compete, when it's actually one of the few sectors that has to. The consumer-protection arguments for certification by the ADA, AMA and ABA apply just as well to the design and manufacture of a toaster: anything that plugs into wall current has enough voltage and amperage to electrocute people or start fires. They're one of the most frequent causes; in fact five children were just killed in my city in a house fire that was started by a space heater. It would be just as reasonable to require that home appliances be designed and manufactured in a US jurisdiction and under US law and regulatory scrutiny. Ditto for drugs.

How does any of that relate to men supposedly being disadvantaged vs. women (and do you know for certain that said space heater was manufactured outside the US)?
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5: Education is slanted away from boys' strengths. Good students usually have tunnel-awareness and a knack for solving problems with deductive logic over many steps. There are boys who have high proximal awareness and a gift for solving problems with inductive logic drawn from lots of data. Maybe as we do more with GPU clusters and sensor networks, we'll realize that we've been flunking kids who kick-butt at some of the toughest problems.

Personally I think that the medicalization of normal kid behavior is a greater threat to boys, and to kids in general, than any change in teaching plan. Some schools have taken out recess, and then tell the parents to dope their kids up with Adderall when he or she can't sit still in class.
Wrt. test scores, afaIk boys' scores haven't gone down, but girls' scores have increased to the point that they have surpassed boys; it's not that boys are doing worse, but that girls are doing better.
I, as a guy, should do about past hardships borne by women. It's your call.
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When have I, or any other feminist, ever asked you to do anything about past hardships borne by women?

...it's fair to bring up shaming:

First off, that's not "shaming." Your shame and embarrassment does nothing for me or anyone else. When I say that 'white people benefit from white privilege,' I'm not feeling ashamed of my whiteness or trying to shame other people; I'm admitting that, if I were exactly the same person that I am now, except for having black skin and black features, my life would have been a hell of a lot harder.
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1: "Women make 77 cents for every dollar a man makes." Both you and the president know that this is wrong.

Not exactly. It's not the whole story, but it's not incorrect either.
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If you correct for the degrees that people pursue, it's just a few cents.
This is not correct. It's fewer percentage points, but it's still a hell of a lot more than 'a few cents.'
[img][800:720]http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/5/58/US_Gender_Pay_Gap_by_industry_.001.png[/img]
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http://www.catalyst.org/knowledge/women ... and-income
http://www.americanprogress.org/issues/ ... -wage-gap/
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Even that doesn't capture it: both of my parents have the same degree, but my dad works in a much tougher specialty. He's an attending physician on an inpatient cancer ward; she's a internist who worked part-time. Yes, he made more. No, that's not unfair.

A couple of questions: one, does she make a similar amount per hour? Is her actual skill level similar to his? And did he receive encouragement that she didn't get, or was she actively discouraged, for going into a more difficult specialty?

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1: The "glass ceiling/good old boys" argument - :) Sure. My grandfather was a successful industrialist. As far as I'm aware, he never got a promotion. When he wanted to move up from a factory job, he had to quit and found his own company. It took 40 years to build it into something worthwhile. That was common.

It's also common for men to get promoted over similarly- or better-qualified women. The stereotypical story is the woman who trains her own replacement, who will be paid twice as much as her to do the same job.

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3: "Women who flew target-tugs (WASPS) were unfairly denied jobs as airline pilots after the war." Being an airline pilot was a prestigious job, and lots of fliers came back from the war with much more experience (like flying the hump). Air travel wasn't as safe. Planes didn't have the service ceiling to fly above storms, so forced landings were more common. A military transport pilot would have landed on dirt runways and in fields. He would have flown more at night and in bad weather. Picking a proven pilot is no more unfair than colleges accepting only the applicants with the best scores, even though that doesn't always translate into top performance at a higher level or in real life.

Ok, so no affirmative action for boys in college admissions, because that would be unfair. Got it.
http://articles.latimes.com/2013/feb/20 ... s-20130221
http://goodmenproject.com/good-feed-blo ... ve-action/

And never mind that a lot of women were fired from jobs that they already had, and were skilled at, after the war, to make room for GIs coming home who had never done what they did.
http://kcts9.org/sites/default/files/un ... erwwii.pdf
(totally, completely OT but very cool: http://www.theatlantic.com/infocus/2011 ... ar/100180/ )

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4: "College girls are frequently raped." I roomed with a bunch of freshman girls when I was in my mid-20s. They giggled about tricking a male student into undressing by making a fake sexual offer. Those aren't girls who are afraid of being raped; those are girls who know damn' well that they almost certainly won't be, because the guys are effectively deterred by draconian laws. These girls had older friends. If the "one in three" accusation were even close, they would have had enough forewarning to be unlikely to do what they did. They were constantly drrinking. It wasn't the bogus stereotype of sober guys "getting them drunk" and f***ing them. Not even close. They put on the parties and procured the booze. (I would know: They tried to get me to buy the keg for them.) They encouraged the guys to drink.

Couple of points.
First, it doesn't matter why or how they got drunk; if you have sex with a person who is too drunk to say no, then you have raped them. That applies to me turning down an attractive guy from my dojo who propositioned me at his birthday party, after drinking himself into the inability to walk straight, as much as if it had gone the other way; I had no idea if he was actually interested, or if he was just too drunk to think straight (incidentally, the answer to both was yes; we got in contact the next day, after he had slept it off).
Second, and I don't know if this is the point that you are making or not, the rate of 'false rape accusations' is pretty much exactly in line with the rate of false accusations of other crimes, ~ 5%, give or take 5% depending on your source (ie, 0-10%). Third, the numbers (what I have heard are 1 in 4 or 1 in 5, not 1 in 3 are based on questionnaires given to college students that did not use the word 'rape.' They asked questions like, 'has a man ever used physical force to intimidate you into having sex when you didn't want to,' or 'has a man ever had sex with you when you were unconscious.' Using that kind of question (both of which fit the legal definition of rape), you get a lot more 'yes' answers than if you use the actual word, 'rape.' So a lot of those women don't think of themselves as having been raped, even though what happened to them fits the legal definition. Fourth, the fact that young women don't think that they personally are in danger when they engage in potentially risky behavior with young men means about as much as the fact that young men driving down the freeway at 100mph don't think that they, personally, are in danger.

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5: "Men have always been in charge." Bull. I was raised by a Catholic dad and a feminist mother.

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Seriously? Your personal family experiences challenge the statistics of the last several thousand years?
Let's look at typical measures of who is "in charge."
Who controls the money flow, on average (see earnings, above)?
Who controls the government, on average?
Who controls industry, on average?
Who controls religion, on average?

Not to say that women don't have their own, lesser, sources of power within a patriarchal system, but on average the true power has been held by men for a very long time.

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You've confused the doorway with the doorman, the tunnel with the dynamite.

Uh, no. You haven't made your case.

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And the men in my family are innocent of most feminist accusations: my great-grandfather (you know, back when evil men with horns and hooves ran the world) was willing to hire women into professional positions before 1920, before women in most states could vote, when most women didn't have jobs in the market.

That was very advanced of him. Did he pay them as much as he paid the men in the same jobs? If so, kudos to him for being a statistical outlier.



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Whew LKL didnt catch my acronym! I am safe for now teehee!...Weeeeee!!


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The Reaper isn't a fighter, and isn't meant to be. It's slower than a WWII Wildcat. It has no gun, so unless it's carrying Sidewinders, a 70-year-old old prop-driven fighter would be a serious threat to it. At the moment, it's not even a complete replacement for a Vietnam-era bomber.


It is not about going head to head anymore. A series of drone attacks can wipe out an airfield and every plane there before they can even get a pilot in the cockpit. Why wait until the jets scramble before engaging them. The capability is in the elimination of enemy threats, not in head to head aerial combat.

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I support simpler systems. You can make the same less-is-more argument about about bloated consumer products, and simplifying them would take a big bite out of CO2 emissions.


^I am in total agreement with this.


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