Yeah, and I got a bit irritated with the researcher who asked for help to 'correct' autism
I realize that some suffer with it and wish they did not have it, so they should be able to want help, but as far as I'm concerned, there is nothing that needs to be corrected about me. (well, I wouldn't mind a less big ass )
I follow the rules, don't hurt people, try to be considerate toward others etc, and would also be happy and capable of meeting all of the requirements of a successfully functioning human, such as independence, if someone would give me a job! I just need someone to realize that I can do the job even if I don't quite juggle all the same balls when job hunting. If the NT's were not so BIGOTED, assuming that just because I was an aspie, that I must be somehow inferior, then my life would be easier. When I try explaining it to them, they are oh so nice and supportive but they still reject me. When I don't try to explain it, they just dismiss me as inferior anyway.
OK, so that was also a bigoted statement, which it usually is whenever you make a blanket statement describing any innate quality about any group of people, but the idea that I need correcting because I have Aspergers is as insulting as saying my eyes need correcting because they are blue. (well, I do like brown eyes myself )
I think it is easier for NT's to lump autistics together because there is a label they can use, whereas they don't see themselves as having one. All NT's are different, and all autistics are different. There are bigoted individuals in both groups. One groups outnumbers the other group and is more dominating. I don't have a problem with being in my group.
So there.