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serenaserenaserena
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20 Sep 2014, 8:52 pm

I was talking to my counselor about a rumor that my friend and I are dating each other when we're not. After describing him more, she came to the conclusion that he almost definitely has a crush on me.

She said that I shouldn't be afraid to take this opportunity to explore what could happen and take it further or something if I want to.

I don't really know how to do that.
She said that since he always pays for me to do stuff with him and offers to buy me things and gives me things, I should give him something. Well, I'm currently making a voodoo doll for him out of socks, since I make sock monkeys and sock teddies. I don't really know what that will do.

What should I do?


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21 Sep 2014, 6:45 am

It does sound nice to give him the voodoo doll. Reciprocation of a gift will give him concrete proof that you care about him.
I don't think you necessarily have to do anything differently than you already are. When you do things with him you could tell him that it is fun and that you have a good time with him. You could also ask him to do something with you rather than it always being him doing the asking. It doesn't have to cost anything. Even something as simple as playing a game. The point is that you are making your feelings known by showing interest in him.

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01 Oct 2014, 7:05 pm

I talked to him today, and he seems like he doesn't really wish to have a voodoo doll.
:(


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18 Oct 2014, 11:42 am

A lot of time might have asked so i hope im not TOO late.

My advice is to just somehow casually mention (as a joke) that this is what your counselor said and see his reaction. Like maybe if you too are talking about being good friends or whatever, say 'haha, my counselor even said she thinks you actually LOVE me. hehe" or something like that...



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18 Oct 2014, 12:03 pm

I could do that, but then he may wonder why I was talking about him to my counselor.


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18 Oct 2014, 6:46 pm

I could do that, but then he may wonder why I was talking about him to my counselor.


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19 Oct 2014, 10:20 pm

I could do that, but then he may wonder why I was talking about him to my counselor.


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20 Oct 2014, 12:36 am

serenaserenaserena wrote:
I talked to him today, and he seems like he doesn't really wish to have a voodoo doll.
:(

turn him into one... :twisted: (no, don't)

yeah, i don't think that mentioning your counselor is the best, maybe someone else that you both know? a 3rd party person like that may be off putting.


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