One-Night Stand

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This young guy - 32 years old - starts talking to me at the bus transfer station the other day. I'll spare the details but I ended up going back to his place and having sex with him. He texted me a few times after but I told him we should just leave it at what it was. The thing is that I have no particular feeling about this encounter. The best part was when he held me after which I am not use to. But I didn't feel anything for him other than I would anyone whose path I crossed. So I this autism or sociopathy or acute depersonalization? Or maybe just the result of being jaded from past experiences? Any one have a similar experience?

no labels needed. booty calls don't necessarily have emotions attached.

If you had a good time, does it matter why you did it? Sometimes humans have a tendency to seek meaning to our actions. Not everything requires a meaning. A little fun now and then is a good thing.

I hope you find SOME meaning.

There must have been some kind of connection for this to happen.

The guy should really appreciate it that you gave your body to him

That really sucks!

I've been with people I didn't want to be with as well. It's not a good feeling.

The reason why I know I'm not gay: I've actually had the misfortune of experiencing gay 'sex." Both times, I was about 17-18 years old. One time, I "semi" consented; another time, it was done by force.

I truly hope you find someone with whom you could experience, fully, the pleasure of lovemaking. You deserve it.

I'm sorry that happened to you.

I'm still hoping someday to meet someone with whom I click, stranger things have happened.

I was in Kingston once. Unfortunately, it was raining. It seems like a nice city, though. I ate with my wife's son and his boyfriend at a Chinese restaurant near the piers. (By the way, I'm heterosexual).

It's in the Thousand Islands region. If you meet that "special someone," you could take the Thousand Islands tour with that person, and see Boldt Castle. That's a great way of bonding with a person, I believe.

Yes Boldt Castle is very romantic. As are the islands. It's a beautiful region.

My first relationship was for 9 years. He was much older than me and I was afraid of him. Sex with him was at first painful than later I just disassociated from myself. I eventually left him, but I think it blunted my feelings towards sex.

My wife told me ten years ago our marriage is a business relationship.

Since then I have outsourced sex to strippers and sugar babies. The current one danced at a club where I am VIP. I have seen her 6 years, she has been married 4 to her 3rd husband, her HS sweetheart who she describes as her soulmate on her FB page.. The sex with her is really great, the best I have had. I have occasionally rotated her with other girls. Because I make a high income in financial the cost is handled by an online hobby related business.